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xntrick 59M
2927 posts
8/28/2014 12:04 am

What you're asking for sounds rather delicious.


LordRebel 69M
823 posts
8/28/2014 1:08 am

In my many years in this lifestyle I have heard of this type of ending way too often. It seems quite the pattern. Everything's fine and then suddenly the male Dom changes attitude, becomes nasty, indifferent, or disappears. It is indeed very disturbing mentally to a sub woman to have this happen. The confusion and anger and feeling of abandonment without so much as an explanation is insidiously harmful. I have never fully understood why it happens but I have my theories. First, many men are just awful at breakups period. No matter what the nature of the relationship. But on top of that I believe many of the ones I have heard about come about when the men start feeling guilty about being with the sub. They often have a significant other they are being unfaithful to. Another scenario is they find another partner they think may be better suited and don't know how to say that. And finally I think there is many times guilt about the kinky nature of what we do. They fantasized about having a woman in this manner but the reality of it freaks them out after awhile. Bottom line is they don't know how to deal and so end it abruptly or even try to get the woman to end it.
My heart goes out to you and all submissive women who have had to experience such negative experiences. There are still good Doms out there that would never do that to a person. Like all relationships, finding the right person is everything.

And to answer your question, of course you are not asking the impossible...just have to find the right match. I wish you the best of luck in your search and your future.


intriguingU 61M
1 post
9/2/2014 4:26 pm

Fetishgirl: It is a reflection of character... not quite enough there! Im online in the IM section here occasionally. Want to talk?



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