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eliza1234 49F
1482 posts
5/30/2015 4:15 am
I don't believe we are acquainted


The worlds of ALT.com and ALT are generally quite small. It is likely that those looking for similar qualities in the same geographic location will end up meeting the same people.

There have been many occasions where my male lovers have met with the same woman. And many occasions where female lovers have independently met with the same men as me. Which is all lovely. But even if people don't meet, then they will often be aware of the online profile/persona.

Now, I talk openly with my merry little band of lovers and will often say when I'm meeting someone new. Profile names etc. aren't shared but I will say I'm meeting a hung young stud with tattoos or something along that level of detail. Any lover of mine who then meets a hung young stud with tattoos may then draw a connection between us all and may mention this in passing. Which again is lovely.

I am surprised about the frequency where a lover asks whether I know person 'x' as 'x' has sworn blind that they have met me or that they chat to me regularly. But the reality is that I have never even shared an email exchange with them and certainly haven't met in person.

The latest example was a long standing lover being warned about me by someone he met for a check out drink. She was telling him how well she knows me, how dangerous I was (hmmm, she might have a point!) and how he should stay well clear of me for his own good. The reality is that we have never even exchanged a word with each other let alone met face to face.

The motivation behind people lying in this way is, I'm sure, a complex subject.

Do others find people claim to know them when they don't?

eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/30/2015 8:03 am

    Quoting  :

I have met some with a few of those characteristics


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
5/30/2015 8:46 am

Goodness me, that sounds a bit odd and twisted! Jealousy of some sort, perhaps?!

I don't get out enough, clearly, as my exposure to the scene is limited. Therefore, it is fair to say that I haven't met you and most likely none of your lovers either... I think...


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/30/2015 9:10 am

    Quoting tinkerfun:
    Goodness me, that sounds a bit odd and twisted! Jealousy of some sort, perhaps?!

    I don't get out enough, clearly, as my exposure to the scene is limited. Therefore, it is fair to say that I haven't met you and most likely none of your lovers either... I think...
It does feel slightly odd. Sometimes it's people saying they know me and I'm lovely rather than saying negative things. Surely they realise that they'll get caught out and just end up looking silly. Hey ho.

Perhaps we'll have to compare notes re our lovers just to be sure


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
5/30/2015 10:05 am

We have only met one (beautiful) girl from here. And before alt my Dom and I were on another site (AM if that says anything to you) separately. And before we were both playing the happy families and decent spouses game. Turned out to be a bit boring...

Come to think of it another conquest of mine (horrible thing to say?) was from the scene so I guess you just never know. Regardless, I consider myself still 'new' yet not inexperienced

I was supposed to come back on alt to look for another delightful play partner but I have been sucked into the blogging world instead


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/30/2015 2:25 pm

    Quoting  :

In his wildest dreams perhaps?


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/30/2015 2:27 pm

    Quoting tinkerfun:
    We have only met one (beautiful) girl from here. And before alt my Dom and I were on another site (AM if that says anything to you) separately. And before we were both playing the happy families and decent spouses game. Turned out to be a bit boring...

    Come to think of it another conquest of mine (horrible thing to say?) was from the scene so I guess you just never know. Regardless, I consider myself still 'new' yet not inexperienced

    I was supposed to come back on alt to look for another delightful play partner but I have been sucked into the blogging world instead
It is a small world so you never know! Good the you've got into the blogging, your posts are interesting so keep up the good work. x


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
6/1/2015 12:58 am

Scary stuff. Just goes to show you can't be too careful.


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
6/1/2015 10:14 am

I have recently been made aware of, shall we call it an "antipathy" between certain people I know and like here. And perhaps subtle attempts to recruit my support for one side over the other.

I feel sure some petty jealousy is at the heart of it, however, since I have met neither one of these parties, I remain allof but ever watchful lest further assaults on my impartiality are attempted.

Nuff said.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
6/1/2015 11:18 am

    Quoting TheBargee:
    I have recently been made aware of, shall we call it an "antipathy" between certain people I know and like here. And perhaps subtle attempts to recruit my support for one side over the other.

    I feel sure some petty jealousy is at the heart of it, however, since I have met neither one of these parties, I remain allof but ever watchful lest further assaults on my impartiality are attempted.

    Nuff said.


Gosh, all sounds rather intriguing.

Some have made comments about people using devious means to encourage someone to meet with them. I cannot personally see the appeal in resorting to this sort of behaviour to encourage someone to meet or like me. People either do or they don't. Simple as.



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