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eliza1234 49F
1482 posts
4/28/2016 1:02 pm
Numbers



For years now, I have flatly refused to disclose the number of lovers I have had if someone asks me. There are three main reasons for this:

1) Past experience tells me that people are either shocked or intimidated (or even both).

2) I actually stopped counting a long time ago. I have a broad idea but I no longer know the precise answer.

3) I think it's irrelevant as a measure of experience. I could have had 100 lovers and only ever had sex in missionary position with the lights off. I could have had only 1 lover and have experienced every kinky scenario under the sun.

However, there was a recent deviation from this during a slightly inebriated discussion with my boss in a hotel bar. We were chatting about my love life when, without prompting, he revealed that he had slept with 8 women in his life. It then accidentally slipped out that I have slept with more women than he has. Cue shock and intimidation.

Do you reveal your number to people?

MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
4/28/2016 2:25 pm

Someone asked me once and i cut the numbers by more than half and i still got the 'wow really' expression.
So yeah i no longer tell either.

Sadly many men look at you differently if you've had many lovers, especially if you've had more than them hahaha

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


scott91 53M
284 posts
4/28/2016 2:35 pm

i`ve not kept count,and i`ve never asked anyone else,like you say,doesn`t really matter


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
4/28/2016 4:07 pm

That is one number I will never reveal. You want to know my weight, fine.......my lovers, not so much.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
4/28/2016 8:01 pm

I think those numbers get inflated by one night stands. I don't even count those. It's hard enough to count the meaningful ones that resulted in repeat or longer-lasting encounters. In any event I don't talk about numbers. It's meaningless and tacky.


xntrick 59M
2927 posts
4/28/2016 11:41 pm

I have only revealed it to one person and she was shocked by how low it was. I prefer quality over quantity but I can certainly see the appeal of the latter.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
4/29/2016 12:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Poor bloke indeed. One of the few times I've seen him lost for words. He blushed for a few days afterwards


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
4/29/2016 12:45 pm

    Quoting MissLadywood:
    Someone asked me once and i cut the numbers by more than half and i still got the 'wow really' expression.
    So yeah i no longer tell either.

    Sadly many men look at you differently if you've had many lovers, especially if you've had more than them hahaha
Indeed, many think it's fine for a bloke but then use unflattering terms for a female with the same number.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
4/29/2016 12:47 pm

    Quoting scott91:
    i`ve not kept count,and i`ve never asked anyone else,like you say,doesn`t really matter
I agree.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
4/29/2016 12:48 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    That is one number I will never reveal. You want to know my weight, fine.......my lovers, not so much.
Not even if I say pleeeease?


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
4/29/2016 12:49 pm

    Quoting  :

With you there!


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
4/29/2016 12:50 pm

    Quoting  :

That moving image makes my head hurt


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
4/29/2016 12:51 pm

    Quoting xntrick:
    I have only revealed it to one person and she was shocked by how low it was. I prefer quality over quantity but I can certainly see the appeal of the latter.
Regardless of what the number is, I think it's best kept to oneself.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
4/29/2016 12:52 pm

    Quoting  :

Ha a good formula.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
4/29/2016 12:53 pm

    Quoting  :

Afterthought: if she was 10 years older and had only had 9 lovers would you have to pretend to be a virgin?


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
4/29/2016 4:14 pm

I have but not sure if I volunteer such information again. My Dom was slightly horrified. Yes, I can still count them and it's far less than my age but for him it was still a fairly high number. I suppose he'd like me 'purer'. Although I am his submissive virgin


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/2/2016 1:18 am

That you are


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/2/2016 11:51 am

    Quoting lockedsub53:
    I moved to Australia for this girl I met on a photoshoot in Hawaii a while ago. It didn't wind up working out. However, one night as we were laying in bed talking we got around to asking the 'number' question.

    "79!" she exclaimed proudly! I was still in single digits. "79?" I asked...Turns out she tapped all but one classmate during high school...
The yearbook comments must have been interesting


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
5/3/2016 11:20 pm

I lost count! But not because there has been a vast number of lovers but simply that the Bargee has an appalling memory! Let's just say three!

<<< innocent!


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/4/2016 12:52 pm

    Quoting lockedsub53:
    LOL. Yes indeed it does...It also explains how she must have managed to complete her homework.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/4/2016 12:53 pm

    Quoting TheBargee:
    I lost count! But not because there has been a vast number of lovers but simply that the Bargee has an appalling memory! Let's just say three!

    <<< innocent!
Now innocent my dear Bargee is not I word that immediately springs to my mind when I think of you!!!



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