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eliza1234 49F
1482 posts
5/6/2016 11:13 am
The best I'll ever have


I frequently get contacted by people who tell me that they'll be the best whatever I've ever had. They'll make me cum harder than anyone ever has before or they'll fuck me better than anyone ever has before or they will simply be the best at going down on me. You get the gist.

For me, statements along these lines mean an automatic pressing of the delete button.

My experience has been that people who make these bold statements are generally lacking in confidence (and often skill) and don't live up to their claims.

I also get a little annoyed if I'm honest that they make assumptions about my experiences to date and that they can better them. Perhaps they can but I'm wired a particular way and they cannot possibly understand what works for me just by reading my profile and looking at my pics. What gets one person off can leave another completely cold.

Best is also a fluid thing. The best sex I'd ever had 10 years ago would, frankly, be relatively dull and unimaginative today. Best when I'm in a feisty mood is different to best when I've had a hard day and need some loving affection.

Do you think you can define 'the best sex ever'?

msfunfor 63M
10617 posts
5/6/2016 11:40 am

hello ,
I agree with your assessment of the boastful types .
I would also add people who proclaim themselves :
good people
very sexy
honest
and on and on ...................

I have never met an actual good person who needed to proclaim that fact.

be good
M

.


AlphaLthr 76F
1098 posts
5/6/2016 12:46 pm

A 'good' person never has to brag or try to sell themselves to others...

IT ONLY TAKES A DROP OF INK TO OFFER FODDER FOR ONE TO THINK................Jo


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
5/6/2016 12:51 pm

I may just be the best Finn you've ever had

Otherwise I wouldn't get your hopes up

The best sex? Surely the experiences are all different and cannot necessarily be compared per se?


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
5/6/2016 1:58 pm

I believe it is all relative. We all like to think we are the best at something but to start a conversation that way.......just not the right thing to do. I prefer someone that has that air of mystery......I want to find out for myself.


xntrick 59M
2927 posts
5/7/2016 12:50 am

One way to possibly define the best sex is to have a partner that puts your needs ahead of theirs. Being unselfish in bed makes for a fun night.


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
5/7/2016 3:46 am

I need to do a LOT more research before I can answer your question!


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 4:26 pm

    Quoting  :

Ha, perhaps you and I could invent a scoring system


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 4:28 pm

    Quoting msfunfor:
    hello ,
    I agree with your assessment of the boastful types .
    I would also add people who proclaim themselves :
    good people
    very sexy
    honest
    and on and on ...................

    I have never met an actual good person who needed to proclaim that fact.

    be good
    M

    .
I'm with you there. People to tell others they are honest or good or tolerant are often the least so.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 4:28 pm

    Quoting  :

Haha. Please let me know so that I can block him. I do NOT want him getting off over my pictures thank you very much!!!


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 4:30 pm

    Quoting ralph696969:
    I am the best pancreas stroker in the world, just sayin'
I'm sure you are very skilled


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 4:31 pm

    Quoting AlphaLthr:
    A 'good' person never has to brag or try to sell themselves to others...
I agree. Acts speak for themselves and don't require pointing out to others.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 4:32 pm

    Quoting tinkerfun:
    I may just be the best Finn you've ever had

    Otherwise I wouldn't get your hopes up

    The best sex? Surely the experiences are all different and cannot necessarily be compared per se?
You sure would be...I've never 'had' a Finn before


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 4:33 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    I believe it is all relative. We all like to think we are the best at something but to start a conversation that way.......just not the right thing to do. I prefer someone that has that air of mystery......I want to find out for myself.
The finding out is the fun part isn't it!!!


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 4:36 pm

    Quoting  :

A selfless lover is a very special breed. Lucky ladies who meet you!


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 4:37 pm

    Quoting xntrick:
    One way to possibly define the best sex is to have a partner that puts your needs ahead of theirs. Being unselfish in bed makes for a fun night.
It most certainly does!


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 11:16 pm

    Quoting TheBargee:
    I need to do a LOT more research before I can answer your question!


Happy researching. I look forward to reading your conclusions!


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
5/9/2016 11:19 pm

    Quoting  :

It would be good if all followed that approach.


Zemetar 64M
19 posts
5/31/2016 10:57 pm

agrees


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
6/1/2016 10:17 am

I'm glad we won't have to fight about it



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