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eliza1234 49F
1482 posts
6/26/2016 9:52 am
Flowers



I will frequently buy my lover flowers. The latest bunch were white roses mixed with some colourful purply things pictured above. Irises I think. I'm sure the more green fingered of you will know what they are.

On all but the rarest of occasions the gift is for no specific reason. I just enjoy giving them as he enjoys receiving them. I like knowing that he will see them in the vase over the coming days and will think of me and know he's in my thoughts.

But, on other occasions, when I've given men flowers they have been quite taken aback and have seen the gesture as strange. An affront to their masculinity it would seem. Something that girls don't buy for boys.

Do your gifts to lovers conform to gender stereotypes?

drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
6/26/2016 11:04 am

Not at all, I always seek a gift that I know will not only be a surprise but will have a lasting effect.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
6/26/2016 11:52 am

Stupid gremlins keep stealing the picture.


msfunfor 63M
10617 posts
6/26/2016 12:20 pm

hello england ,

what a nice sentiment .
i applaud you


be good
M

.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
6/26/2016 12:39 pm

    Quoting msfunfor:
    hello england ,

    what a nice sentiment .
    i applaud you


    be good
    M

    .
Thanks x


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
6/26/2016 12:40 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks for letting me know. They were beautiful. Such vibrant colours set against the white roses.


xntrick 59M
2927 posts
6/26/2016 12:50 pm

I don't agree with that. I have received flowers in the past and it was a pleasant surprise. That new photo you're using is just splendid.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
6/26/2016 3:46 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    Not at all, I always seek a gift that I know will not only be a surprise but will have a lasting effect.
I'm sure your gifts are very much appreciated by those that receive them.

I love receiving gifts that are personal and show that someone has put effort into thinking what I would like rather than just spending money on me. The best gifts are often £ free.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
6/26/2016 3:47 pm

    Quoting xntrick:
    I don't agree with that. I have received flowers in the past and it was a pleasant surprise. That new photo you're using is just splendid.
I glad you enjoyed receiving them. x


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
6/29/2016 3:22 pm

What a lovely flower! Glad he enjoys receiving them.

Interestingly, the only time my Dom bought me flowers was when he was annoyed with me and knew I had been 'influenced' from outside (during our odd break).

I have been known to have putting cuticle oil and hand lotion on my man's hands (as who likes rough skin?) but not sure if that counts.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
7/4/2016 3:31 pm

    Quoting tinkerfun:
    What a lovely flower! Glad he enjoys receiving them.

    Interestingly, the only time my Dom bought me flowers was when he was annoyed with me and knew I had been 'influenced' from outside (during our odd break).

    I have been known to have putting cuticle oil and hand lotion on my man's hands (as who likes rough skin?) but not sure if that counts.
Of course it counts



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