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eliza1234 49F
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eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
11/6/2016 2:53 pm

Mwhahah


jaykay48 75M
11442 posts
11/6/2016 2:59 pm

Oy.

It's all about pleasure and humor.

Anything mutual goes.

Except the cheese grater.

Talk is cheap and the Internet breeds bargain-priced exchanges.


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
11/6/2016 3:03 pm

I doubt you'll get many takers on the cheese grater but, of course, you may be surprised. I believe we each adapt to the needs of our current lover however filthy or vanilla that might be.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
11/6/2016 3:07 pm

    Quoting jaykay48:
    Oy.

    It's all about pleasure and humor.

    Anything mutual goes.

    Except the cheese grater.

    Talk is cheap and the Internet breeds bargain-priced exchanges.
Spoil sport

Hidingbehind a laptop means people feel they can say things they'd never say in real life. That can be bith a good and a bad thing.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
11/6/2016 3:08 pm

    Quoting eliza1234:
    Spoil sport

    Hidingbehind a laptop means people feel they can say things they'd never say in real life. That can be bith a good and a bad thing.
And in this case has also meant my ability to type and spell have escaped me


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
11/6/2016 3:10 pm

Pic as keeps disappearing


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
11/6/2016 4:16 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    I doubt you'll get many takers on the cheese grater but, of course, you may be surprised. I believe we each adapt to the needs of our current lover however filthy or vanilla that might be.
I'm half expecting to be inundated with willing volunteers

Yes, adaptability is important. Not only in the bedroom either. Someone set in their ways would do my head in.


bdst1 63M
703 posts
11/7/2016 2:24 am

Cal me a snob but if I got a message saying "want a woman in your life thats more filthy than you" I would point out the errors in her grammar (who, not that, and a missing apostrophe anyway) and move on. It is pretty difficult to imagine an intellectual connection with someone who (or do I mean that )doesn't understand the basic rules of English enough to get their first approach right.

That out of the way, I am looking to find enough in common, in and out of the bedroom, to make a relationship fun and worthwhile; impossible to tick every box, but there does need to be a reasonable amount of compatibility and flexibility. I can be personally fulfilled in general without being fulfilled in all of the potential detail, and when I am in a good relationship I don't look to fill the gaps elsewhere. But that's just me, I prefer to be monogamous. I can understand people who prefer not to be.

Finally, of course I agree it is not a competition. And filth is subjective; the filthiest people probably don't think much they do is filthy at all. I am happy and comfortable with stuff that some people would consider filthy as I am sure you are.

Contact me privately via the PM at the head of my blog page


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
11/7/2016 3:07 am

Vastly different ? No it wouldn't work for me.

Like you say no one person can tick every box and you have to be flexible but for me they would need to be on the same page at least.
Yeah sex isn't everything but i'm not willing to live without it either

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


jaykay48 75M
11442 posts
11/7/2016 7:24 am

    Quoting eliza1234:
    And in this case has also meant my ability to type and spell have escaped me
That goes for the bith of us.


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
11/7/2016 8:56 am

I like that I can be totally open with my man. There's no shame in our desires even with the ones we can't live out in our relationship. For instance, one stage I was mildly interested in golden shower (after reading about it here) but it was clearly not for him. However, he understood how I may find such marking (as I would see it) intimate. It would have to be with him though. I could not imagine doing it with anyone else either receiving or giving.

I've often asked him if there's anything else he would want to do but I think our limits and desires are quite similar. We would, for example, both fancy indulging in a younger lady (only that most here seem to be fake). Perhaps one day

So yes I think we are a good match. I think my only very minor frustration is that I would so love to dominate a man again but I know with him it just won't happen. Like yourself I am less and less in favour of monogamy. It's certainly been fun to be out there again.

We are all filthy in your own way. Not sure if I was keen on engaging with someone who would be much more filthy than I. Neither would I dare to claim to be more filthy you


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
11/7/2016 3:54 pm

As sadly departed Bluesman Taj Mahal once said "Many fish bite if you got good bait"

This is of course utterly irrelevant to the discussion but no-one ever won a grammy by writing a hook line than goes "want a man in your life that's more filthy than you?"

However, everyone here knows how irresistible people find a penis picture!

I will send you one


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
11/17/2016 7:24 am

    Quoting  :

Good point. Although for me I'm not sure I'd get to that end point if there wasn't filth on which to base the relationship on in the first place.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
11/17/2016 7:25 am

    Quoting TheBargee:
    As sadly departed Bluesman Taj Mahal once said "Many fish bite if you got good bait"

    This is of course utterly irrelevant to the discussion but no-one ever won a grammy by writing a hook line than goes "want a man in your life that's more filthy than you?"

    However, everyone here knows how irresistible people find a penis picture!

    I will send you one


I am still waiting for it to arrive. You little tease you.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
11/17/2016 7:28 am

    Quoting tinkerfun:
    I like that I can be totally open with my man. There's no shame in our desires even with the ones we can't live out in our relationship. For instance, one stage I was mildly interested in golden shower (after reading about it here) but it was clearly not for him. However, he understood how I may find such marking (as I would see it) intimate. It would have to be with him though. I could not imagine doing it with anyone else either receiving or giving.

    I've often asked him if there's anything else he would want to do but I think our limits and desires are quite similar. We would, for example, both fancy indulging in a younger lady (only that most here seem to be fake). Perhaps one day

    So yes I think we are a good match. I think my only very minor frustration is that I would so love to dominate a man again but I know with him it just won't happen. Like yourself I am less and less in favour of monogamy. It's certainly been fun to be out there again.

    We are all filthy in your own way. Not sure if I was keen on engaging with someone who would be much more filthy than I. Neither would I dare to claim to be more filthy you
Haha, pleased to hear you wouldn't dare to - I'd have to teach you a lesson to prove you wrong It's great that you can be so open without the fear of being judged.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
11/17/2016 7:29 am

    Quoting MissLadywood:
    Vastly different ? No it wouldn't work for me.

    Like you say no one person can tick every box and you have to be flexible but for me they would need to be on the same page at least.
    Yeah sex isn't everything but i'm not willing to live without it either
Yes compatibility is key in my view.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
11/17/2016 7:30 am

    Quoting bdst1:
    Cal me a snob but if I got a message saying "want a woman in your life thats more filthy than you" I would point out the errors in her grammar (who, not that, and a missing apostrophe anyway) and move on. It is pretty difficult to imagine an intellectual connection with someone who (or do I mean that )doesn't understand the basic rules of English enough to get their first approach right.

    That out of the way, I am looking to find enough in common, in and out of the bedroom, to make a relationship fun and worthwhile; impossible to tick every box, but there does need to be a reasonable amount of compatibility and flexibility. I can be personally fulfilled in general without being fulfilled in all of the potential detail, and when I am in a good relationship I don't look to fill the gaps elsewhere. But that's just me, I prefer to be monogamous. I can understand people who prefer not to be.

    Finally, of course I agree it is not a competition. And filth is subjective; the filthiest people probably don't think much they do is filthy at all. I am happy and comfortable with stuff that some people would consider filthy as I am sure you are.
Ha. I wanted to respond back just to correct him . Thanks for the well thought out comments. Xx


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
12/12/2016 3:40 pm

    Quoting SirRaden1973:
    thanks for your insight. I enjoyed reading what everyone had to say on this topic
Thanks for stopping by.



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