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The 'Daddy Dom' Dynamic..... The need for a DaddyDom dynamic was one i resisted and refused to recognise for long time. It was hidden by the issues around sex abuse, protection and sexuality, that i was surrounded with constantly at work, together with the taboos of incest and wrongs of sexual harm. But i felt myself drawn to the 'Daddies' on-line, many of them the most depraved people there.. but many offering what i began to realise i needed, craved, though denied. To be clear, i wasn't sexually abused as a and didn't want to be sexual with my own father at any time, though i do remember being aware of his own 'flings', overhearing him on the phone, fantasising that he might catch me and feeling an inexplicable excitement about what my punishment could be..... i was sexually aware at a very young age, but never sought real contact, even then i found solace in adult reading and my imagination. But now, as a women, i can still feel that internal and her longings, and now as an adult can seek to fulfil them. For me the desire for a this dynamic has many aspects to it... He is not a biological father.. He is a Man who can see the sexuality inside that young mind and body and see its struggle and confusion, its need to be released and understood. The girl has no secrets from her Him, nothing is hidden or forbidden, she obeys to His authority, without question, just for who He is. He can mold her to His needs completely, she has no-one to compare to Him, He is 'the' Man she serves. He guides her to please Him as He requires, she does not know what is the 'norm',so would not question His desires. At the same time, she is His creation, so he understands her desires completely.. He knows best - absolute... He has the unconditional love only a Father figure can, but the highest expectations of His baby girl too.. He can be indulgent.. He can be harsh.. His' displeasure and disappointment cuts deep, likewise to make Him proud will make her fly... in many ways it is the ultimate ownership... and in my perverse mind when Daddy is ready to show off His girl, to share her, then that is right too... |
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4/27/2015 11:37 am |
you hit the nail on the head. excellent blog post. well written and informative. perhaps you even explained to me what it is that i desire in a Daddy Dom experience. JJ
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I see it only as 'love', but a love for all aspects of that person..... The child inside, the women developing, the adult needing..... You will move on when you need to..... Love is a limited response.... You don't run out of it... And each new connection brings it's own..... Xxxx
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My Dominance comes from a place of love. I see the need to protect and cherish the little girl while still unleashing and ravishing her inner slut.
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Hmm .. to see and culture the young girl in a grown woman, to let her out, to give her what she needs, a daddy’s pleasure and obligation. No child abuse, no perverted disgusting incest motivations, just allowing one selves to touch other corners of the souls. Alignment of souls, two hearts, one mind, nothing more, nothing less. A word used yesterday comes to mind .. synergi.
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