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lastguymn 56M

8/24/2016 12:59 pm

I don't know why life has to be so damned complicated. I have no ideas or solutions, just warm thoughts and wishes that the right path will be better illuminated soon. Take care.

~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
8/24/2016 3:25 pm

Although vaniila i too found myself in a similar situation many moons ago.

It was a beautiful relationship and i still have no regrets.
But when he changed his mind about leaving, everything for me had changed.
I didn't leave straight away. I took the time i needed to process everything and when I was ready i called quits.

I am not suggesting you do the same.
But i would suggest you give yourself time to process it all. There is no hurry.
And then do what is right for you.

*hugs*

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
8/24/2016 4:40 pm

I don't feel like a second ever. He even says that in many ways I am more, the first. I've said myself that I don't mind being 'the bit on the side' which he always rejects strongly. I have a different role to his wife's. My Dom and I aren't burdened by everyday routine and challenges it brings. We can focus on fun and our companionship in a different way. Things always feel fresh.

It's not easy though as your whole body and soul wants to be with the one who feels like your soulmate. I've never met anyone like him. I've never had a bond like I have with him.

But I don't want more. I cannot offer more. You can X


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
8/25/2016 9:08 am

Twice I have tried and failed to add a comment to these last two posts.

The position you are in is so bloody difficult. I wish I had the words or the wisdom to offer. I feel helpless; unable to offer help, which logic tells me is no great surprise but is no less frustrating.

But I am thinking of you and sending you warm wishes and hugs. I really do hope you can find a route through this to a happier place again.


sprinkels88 56F
793 posts
8/25/2016 12:52 pm

How much are you willing to give in the name of love is a tough choice.



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