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tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
5/28/2015 4:34 am

Oh gosh, she sounded a bit of nightmare!

Having said that, I also try to think what has made people to be like that? Why does she has to 'compete' with others, dress provocatively? What has she got to prove? And to whom? Perhaps she is yet another lost soul trying to get by in this world or ours. She clearly wasn't a good friend. You can't say a thing like that to someone who is grieving. Let's hope, however, that she finds peace within herself too. It is so much easier to be a nice and caring person x


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
5/28/2015 4:55 am

Sorry to hear that. Hope it has eased off a little for you now. I can only imagine how it must have felt to lose your father. My own one is such a rock in my life.


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
5/28/2015 8:24 am

Funny how at certain stages in our lives we can lock onto someone for whatever reason and you can even become inseparable or at least not be able to imagine life without them but then something makes you review the whole set up and you ask yourself what on earth have you been thinking!

At that point, there's no point in trying to fix it! You walk away.

You did the right thing, that's for sure.


jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
5/28/2015 3:55 pm

Ann

Yes, grieving is a very personal thing! It is great she went out with you but wrong to tell you to "get over it!"

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny



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