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jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
6/3/2015 3:56 pm

Ann

Well said!

I agree - each person should decide their own choice but NOT criticise others!

As you say, married people can lead to heart-ache as well....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
6/3/2015 4:02 pm

Bless your cotton socks!


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
6/3/2015 4:15 pm

I read this somewhere: judge not lest ye be judged. It is a maxim I try to live by. Especially here!


Aislin 39F  
8605 posts
6/3/2015 5:30 pm

lol@ "tulips everywhere".....

I am aroused by my own darkness and there is no cure.


badboy45377 70M

6/3/2015 7:46 pm

I have personally run across 2 married women, 1 here on ALT and another in the vanllia world, who have husbands with Alzheimers/dementia.

Then there was the trials of the IA man who had sex with his wife who was in a nursing home for dementia. Charged with abuse and acquitted.

The world is not black and white...it becomes more gray over time.

BB


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
6/4/2015 2:21 pm

    Quoting Aislin:
    lol@ "tulips everywhere".....
It's MissAnn's and my little inside 'joke' (also you might witness me call her a tittle lady or something else extremely mature )


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
6/4/2015 2:30 pm

    Quoting  :

Loads of love to you How very sad and tragic. How amazing to have found such a connection but it all must have left you in such turmoil and perhaps despair. One of the worst things about affairs is that you can't talk to people about heartbreak. I really appreciated reading for words. I have questionned my relationship with my Dom as his wife is clearly wanting them to get closer. She wants to work on their marriage. So I can feel her despair and I want to give her what she needs from her husband (ie my Dom). So I feel that I am standing in between. However, she cannot give him what he needs. To start with she is quite controlling herself, and has become more so since she is suspicious. Regardless, she is the mother of my Dom's children and therefore in such a special role. The worst outcome would be if she found out. But should that fear really be the reason of letting go off my Dom? What would really be the best for him? On a personal note, I have never experienced heartbreak and I just don't know how I would cope (but of course I would just have to). My turn to ramble. Only read this now as I was (mentally) so tired yesterday as I had a heart-to-heart chat with my Dom. So thank you. Your message was very touching xxx


jaykay48 75M
11442 posts
7/4/2015 9:27 am

Good advice all around.



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