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silvermuse 53F
366 posts
5/3/2015 8:26 pm

I'd known Master for 18 months before we met in person, we were 4000 miles apart. Having said that, we started very much as friends before we ever took it to anything else.

We've been together (married and collared) almost 16 years now.


DancingDom 74M
22529 posts
5/3/2015 8:26 pm

I would say at least 6 months, certainly after you have met them and spent some time iwth them. know they are what your perceive them to be. have enough common interests and desire to know them. I would not do this just to move, find a job or something that is also a reason to move near them. It woudl serve as a back up of course so your not on your own if things do not develop with the individual your interested in.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


PinkVanillaCrush 51F

5/3/2015 9:17 pm

Fucking Id Move In...if i knew in my heart he was my MasterNo doubt - collar and cage me...

Signed slave sondy- Just another O


lastguymn 56M

5/4/2015 1:18 am

There are many, many factors to consider...including what "moving closer" really means. If you're planning on relocating anyway and you have no attachments to where you're at, I don't think you need to wait terribly long if the place you are moving to is one you think you'd like living in anyway.

But if the move involves giving up a job, separating from family, selling a home, moving to an area you're not 100% sold on as a place you would want to be anyway, or some other major life event, I think you need to proceed with a high degree of caution. In that case, I would take a least a year to make that decision, and there should be multiple visits during that time. And it's a bad idea to ever move in together right away. Long distance and real-life dating are two entirely different animals, and the best way to ensure a lasting relationship is to take your time with the transitions and each have your own personal home bases before making the final leap.


~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


DancingDom 74M
22529 posts
5/4/2015 4:33 am

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Well if you move and it does not work out. Come visit Wisconsin,we don;t have beaches like Florida to flaunt your body though.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


silvermuse 53F
366 posts
5/4/2015 9:32 am

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It's a constant 24/7 with real life considerations. We have children, so although he's always in charge,he doesn't undermine my authority with them.

I'm a creative, so although he sets goals ( so many words and so much on artwork each day) on work there, he doesn't tell me exactly what to work on.

We own a business together, with another business partner, and I have equal say in decisions - which means there are times I sometimes vote against him.


DancingDom 74M
22529 posts
5/4/2015 1:50 pm

Pulling a chain is more interesting than a string. I am not adverse to ogling some cuties in swim wear, However I avoid the sun like the plague, so can I have a very large umbrella to keep me from turning into a lobster?

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"



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