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so, so many thoughts running around in my head.....  

WistfulWench

12/20/2006 1:44 am

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2/14/2007 10:42 am

I’ve had so many great conversations this past month with people I truly respect. There are so many snippets and remarks that continue to run around in my head. Defining a BDSM relationship was a subject that brought out some great statements. While we all agreed that each relationship is different, we also recognized that there are some things that just ARE. Whether the relationship is M/s, D/s, Top/bottom, or called something else, the real crux of it comes down to an acceptance of a role. The definition of that role is agreed upon by the parties within the relationship.

There’s a part of me that wonders if attempts to explain a personal definition to others only leads to more confusion overall. Or does it create an environment where all the participants are on the same page?

More thoughts to come....
tigerdickaches4u
3044 posts 

12/21/2006 1:32 pm

If you think too much, WW, you are bound to get a headache!

Merry Christmas to you, sweetie!

WistfulWench
3812 posts 

12/23/2006 5:01 am

Tigerdick, is that what's causing those? Seems to be an ongoing problem for me....

Merry Christmas right back at you!

zigzag12
1973 posts 

12/23/2006 6:24 am

I think to share with Oothers is beautiful as I believe it creates an atmosophere of openness and understanding and the realisation that Wwe are all in this together yet Wwe all have the freedom of choice to see what is right for Uus as an individual no matter what role Wwe choose and that to Me is beautiful and then to accept all those around Uus and learn what is right for each of Us too.

wishing you and loved ones a very happy Christmas WW, and a happy new year!!

big hugs for you...

~Gavin

kkosRho78
6526 posts 

12/25/2006 4:01 pm

Merry Christmas .....

I wish Y/you to be as more healthy as possible, to be happy and may all your wishes come true...

Eagle


*Ask me if you don't know and i will ask You if I don't know*

WistfulWench
3812 posts 

12/26/2006 10:50 am

Gav, having you as part of that conversation was wonderful! I learn so much from others and it's so much easier to throw all those thoughts on the table when people WANT to be open about the topics. I had a wonderful holiday and hope yours was amazing!

Eagle, thank you so much, sweetie! Hope your new year brings you much joy and prosperity!

zigzag12
1973 posts 

2/11/2007 6:12 am

...Adding onto this train of thought, I feel that as long as the individual is always on the same page consistently then they will have peace with themselves

Wishing you and Yours the best WW!

~Gav xx

WistfulWench
3812 posts 

2/14/2007 10:42 am

Hey, Gav! I thought I was supposed to get YOU thinking, not the other way around!

I love the way you stated that.... Wonderful!

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