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domming the dom? part two  

WistfulWench

8/30/2005 1:49 am

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8/25/2007 9:11 am

I was a bit vague in my original question a couple of days ago. It was not intentional, I just hesitated to be too specific in my question. There were some wonderful answers posted, but most asked for additional details. These are the two situations that caused me to ask if the sub was domming the dom.

One situation was social. It was a dom and a sub who are not (to the best of my knowledge) in a relationship with each other. The dom should have been aware of appropriate public behavior, but followed the instructions of the sub. This led to a significant amount of controversy and questioning of the dom's character, as many felt his actions were inappropriate in multiple ways.

The second situation was a sub instructing her dom in a specific sexual activity. I'm not certain what the experience level was for either party. (Everything was presented by the sub on a thread I was reading.) My curiosity was aroused as she was very explicit in her instructions, which left me feeling as though she was the one managing the scene.

Thank you, again, to everyone who responded to the first question. Hopefully the specifics of the situations I've seen will aid in answering my question.

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