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is He a reflection of me....
10/9/2007 4:35 am Last Read: |
_Chris made a posting, [post 373444], that I really struggled to answer. I know that I didnt word my response well. (And guess what! Im going to blame it on prescription medications! lol) When I look into the mirror, what I am seeing is a reflection of myself. My right arm is on my right side, my left on my left side, and it all makes sense, right? But, as anyone who has ever had to pluck a hair or grab that *right* hank of hair for a curling iron knows, those reflections arent exactly what or where you think you see things. What you see isnt always what you need.... A healthy D/s relationship is always going to be one party as a reflection of the other. The need matches the desire. The yin meets the yang. The lid matching the pot. (Need I go on?) You cant have one without the other. It is easier for me to find the words to describe why I try to be a good reflection on Him. How to describe how He is a reflection of me.... His strength is a reflection of my weakness. His understanding and compassion is a reflection of how stubborn I can be. His importance of balance is a reflection of how I can get so blinded by the details. The limits He sets are a reflection of the restrictions I need. Is He a reflection of me? I like to think so. Because I truly want to believe that the man I adore, the one I trust so deeply, and the one person I cant imagine not having in my life is a TRUE reflection of my deepest need and desire. |
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10/10/2007 2:48 am |
Aberfoyle4, welcome to my blog! What you are saying is what I was referencing when I said it's all yin and yang. The question _Chris posed was how does my Dominant reflect me? Reflections are always two sides, so I was posting where I felt He was my complement. We all have areas of weakness, and I feel fortunate to have found someone who fills mine so well. I like to think that I fill His well and that it is part of why our relationship works.
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10/11/2007 2:10 pm |
Doesn't he, though? 
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