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exhibitionist38 45F
1 posts
5/30/2016 10:03 pm
Am I a Sub? Maybe


Am I a sub?

Not really. Why? Because dominants fuck up too and what a "sub" does can be the result of a dominant's actions or in actions. Giving feeble excuses or invalidating a "sub's" feelings makes them try to find other solutions (i.e. taking their concerns into their own hands) as a solution to the "dom's" in actions. But yet many "dominants" think they are above being "punished" when they should be for fucking up. So I can be into being spanked but ONLY for play, that is it!

So I ask you this. Are you a worthy dominant that can actually own up to your mistakes and try to work on becoming a better person or are you going to be a hypocrite and expect the submissive to compromise 100% when you yourself won't budge? In other words, are you going to be a typical "dom" and hold your sub to a much higher standard than yourself? Why do you think this is okay?

DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
5/31/2016 2:44 pm

Dominants, who want a successful relationship, admit mistake and realize respect goes both ways, as does communications to allow for a truly trusting relationship which inspires submission.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"



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