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maletramp 64M
2092 posts
8/28/2016 12:59 pm

Hopefully, the pain has callused into valuable experience. Your story highlights: The most important thing you will ever find here is someone you can trust. Ethics, honor, morality, nobility, decency, respect, are all still relevant, no matter how much the hedonist wants to ignore them.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
8/28/2016 2:19 pm

A slave is someone to be cherished, not something to be abused.

namaste~

Dreamcatcher__


ryanmeg 57F
540 posts
8/28/2016 2:59 pm

Ok...this is probably going to ruffle some peoples feathers but i actually detest the term *slave*...noone should EVER be anyone's slave surely...Christ people fought hard back in the day to get the whole slavery thing abolished...So why are there so many Dom/Dommes still feeling the need to FEEL that they have a slave...JEEZ you want to control someone full yer boots...but does the submissive one need to be called a slave and while im at it WHY the collar ? Now that i have probably pissed off quite a few dominants with all of the above...i would like to explain why i feel NO need whatsoever to have the titles...toys...to humiliate and belittle...i have never needed any of these things to be a competent Domme...there are ways of controlling and dictating with merely a commanding natural dominant personality....which i have had since i was a little girl...almost every adult around me would try to say quietly but i would always here *christ why is she so bloody bossy...and worst part WHY do we all bloody do what she says* None of them understood WHAT it was but BOY did they all FEEL what i was and WHO i was...I can start a new job...nothing managerial,,,just average jo like all the other average jo's...but you can bet your arse within the space of one day even the Manager is asking me for tips on how to run the *ship*...it's just *there*....and i love it *just being* there...i don't need to think about it...or struggle to keep it up..it's always there and never needs to be adjusted up or down...the people around me just do as i say...no matter what i ask.,,,but when not behind private closed doors..we are equals...because i do not deem myself any better a person than them...there is nothing that MAKES me a better person than them,,,,we are just two different type of animal...they like to DO...i like to TELL...i am aware that during the course of a normal day in my company...ME


ryanmeg 57F
540 posts
8/28/2016 3:32 pm

shit,,,i pressed send before i finished ffs .......so to continue....

the ME they spend normal uneventful days with...every second of that day i KNOW they hang on my every word....they look at me with adoring admiring eyes....when i am not even trying...or making any kind of role play effort....the best example i can give is this....most people are shorter than me..i am 5ft 11 in bare feet so would be difficult to be TALLER lol....but anyone i have had playtime with...usually are around 5ft 8 or 9....always tell me they feel 7 feet tall walking along side me...now THAT wasn't dragged out from deep inside them..i didn't DEMAND them to feel that way....they just DO...as i just be the usual ME...it's effortless...it's who i am...and for adoring me there is NO way i will treat them badly...they get treats and spoilt...but always knowing everything is MY call...it's never questioned or challenged...without collars and whippings...them giving me their total devotion i see in their eyes starts the very second they look into my slate grey/dark blue eyes....i see it...feel it...and an unspoken beautiful beginning has already begun...everyone has their own technique and most have a more extreme way of being a practicing Dom/Domme...but MY way works for ME...it's so natural....it's so gentle and sensual because there is no harshness to it whatsoever....why ? Because with me....they just DO and DO before they are even told to DO....Which is why i always adore them as much as they adore me......it's as simple as THAT


ryanmeg 57F
540 posts
8/28/2016 3:39 pm

OK so a TAD confusing as it looks like its been thrown on the page by a blind chimp but its kinda obvious...read the SECOND paragraph FIRST....i think i am all blogged OUT ffs


ryanmeg 57F
540 posts
8/28/2016 3:41 pm

SOME need to pay attention to THIS little gem

.....and the prosecution RESTS


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
8/28/2016 5:17 pm

I am here for the cookies, after all it is supposedly the dark side. All kiddin aside, it offers a sense of community.............at least it was better in years past. Is it a place to find like minded partners........yes. Is it successful for most.....probably not.

I have met and become involved with women from here. I also have made and maintain friendships with folks here.

You are more skilled after your time here and after your considerations from the sabbatical. I suspect you can find a good partner.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"



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