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steelwand 56M  
171 posts
10/26/2016 9:41 pm

I am not sure you are a pain slut.....I agree pain does lead to excitement but is it the pain or is it the submissive nature of the act that makes you wet. I have found over the years that different scenes like being submissive to a domineering woman turns me on a lot but if I am getting spanked or cbt or any forms of punishment ,it is also the thought of humiliation and the thought of really pleasing my dom that makes me enjoy the pain and be turned on by it. I sometimes want more pain to please my dom to show her I can take this punishment for her. You might enjoy the pain but I also think that there is a little of enjoying the submissiveness and enjoying pleasing your partner by taking the pain for your partner makes them happy thus increasing your excitement. I guess I am just saying be careful think about what you actually like the pain itself or the total act of the scene. Maybe this way you will be more turned on by the scene then taking all of the pain/abuse if they keep making you use your safe word. Just my thought on your question......other people might have different feelings. Take care and play safe

You seem to live close by where I live in Pittston and it says you are in Scranton.....so if you ever want to talk and get a coffee just let me know. It would be nice to meet someone close by that enjoys this lifestyle


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
10/27/2016 4:34 am

Since your two guests before me seem to have adequately answered your question, let me suggest this thought . .Perhaps your just a regular slut!

Sorry, I couldn't resist that.

Happy journey!


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bdst1 63M
703 posts
10/27/2016 11:18 am

After a while on this site I think (for me anyway) people try too hard to put themselves into a box. Surely it is about doing what you enjoy, within the confines of what you and your partner at the time want to do? There is definitely a pleasure/pain continuum, and where you enjoy v don't enjoy on that continuum varies not just for different people, but for the same people at different times. OK, so if the line goes from 1 to 10 and I define pain slut as someone who enjoys more than 7, so what? At 6 you're not, at 7 you are? At 8 you really are?

Maybe what you're experiencing is sub drop (look it up if you don't know). I think the same issue arises with giving pain incidentally; you want your partner to enjoy themselves, they enjoy pain, you inflict it, but you don't really like the idea of actually hurting someone unless you're a true sadist. What you realty want to do is to inflict pleasure. So there is a conflict, and you might still feel in turmoil later even as the perpetrator.

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