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linda39be 51F
9 posts
10/27/2016 9:20 am

People in this lifestyle hide behind a computer and are not really open to conversation, others meet in private or commercial clubs. That means (as far as I think) that meeting someone under 'normal circumstamces' is already in a predefined setting or environment. If you move out of that environment you cannot be sure that the other person is open to it and will not be scared away.
I assume that lovers of old cars will meet people at exhibitions and alike. So I think it is the same thing here. Just the meaning of 'normal circumstances' changes.


1genuinedom2 63M  
51 posts
10/27/2016 10:37 am

Just be honest, and tell them...

Just don't do it until you fuck them vanilla first...

Just say... I like more then I do this sort of thing... If you get the deer in the headlights response then look for another person to fuck first then break it to them because the first on is too fucking stupid to know about "more"... LMAO


kentuckiana 67M
76 posts
10/27/2016 10:52 am

Perhaps it's just a matter of personal courtesy, in respect of others sensitivities. Sometimes a brief, non-threatening, verbal allusion can open the door to further discussion when meeting in "normal circumstances." When meeting a potential partner by accident or arranged; a simple, non-sexual comment can frequently determine their level of interest/participation in the lifestyle.


tim1895 72M
44 posts
10/28/2016 9:01 am

LOL no it's impossible for most that to themselves think they are in this life style but in fact really aren't..... look at all the so called dom's in real life they aren't. they go to work and all but bow and kiss the bosses feet in their 9 to 5 job. how could anyone see them there and ever respect them as a dom..... I'd say the 99 out of a hundred this is just their private fantasy..... their walter mitty life...... for some it's imagining their could be a spy or a secret agent and for some they pretend to be a dom having control over the lives of others..... what a joke or the subs that long and pretend to be so submissive but in real life their a supervisor or manager over people. no in normal life people see them for what and who they really are.



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