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bdst1 64M
703 posts
10/1/2016 4:04 am

Seems over the top for meeting someone for coffee at Starbucks. I'd tend to check that people were who they say they are via social media eg facebook and linkedin, plus google, but I'd do that well before meeting anyway. And always meet first time somewhere neutral, public and busy, with a safe exit. If you intend to play on first meeting then by all means take those precautions and more, but that's really risky either way. Do you really want to be tied up by someone you don't know (except in fantasy)? You maybe forgot to mention the biggest risk most of us are likely to face in reality, ie STDs. Though unromantic it is sensible these days to ask for and offer health checks before doing too much - otherwise play safe.

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sucansee 57M  
606 posts
10/1/2016 4:45 am

When I suggested to someone I was setting up a meet with that she inform someones she trusts before hand, her immediate response was why what are you going to do to me and that was the last I heard of her.

no good deed and all that.

But yes you can't take too many precautions.

live, learn and forget


ZenTiger99 66M  
519 posts
10/11/2016 6:52 pm

Bullshit, only a complete unadulterated moron would subject themselves to that stupidity...



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