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Are there any real Domminas on this site?
Posted:Oct 14, 2017 1:01 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2017 3:54 am
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Further adventures of a new old sub.

The simple answer to the question, "Are there real Domminas on this site?", is YES.
The hard part is finding one.

You learn fairly quickly how to spot the scammer, they usually demand for your email address before they will talk to you, or direct you to a different pay site.
I've met quite a few, but I've also been fortunate enough to meet some amazing people on this site.

Just be realistic, if a stunning 18 year old "Domme" sends a random message to a 54 year old sub, there's a good chance that she's not after you body. I'm not saying it can't happen, after all we all have are own different kinks, just tread with care.

I've made friends here who I know I'll never meet, but enjoy chatting to (or at least are good enough to listen [TS]) and some from the local BDMS scene, that I'll meet in the future.
I've messaged women who've replied and shown interest, sometimes leading to virtual play and occasionally to real meets.
All the meets so far have gone fairly well, even if they haven't all led to play.

But best of all, I met an amazing Dom/Switch and spent several wonderful months in her company.

She taught me so much about myself; and my true BDSM nature.
Fantasies became realities.
New kinks were explored between people who knew intimately how the other persons body reacted and were enjoyed in a way only a real relationship can provide.

What did I learn about myself?
I'm not slave material; submissive definitely,
but I do have and enjoy my Dom side if it's required.
I enjoy a female led relationship, but on a parity as an equal when not playing.
I'm not a pushover but can be tamed by just a look or a knowing smile.
It pays to be open and honest.
Confidence in yourself can be a real turn on for both yourself and your partner.
Being in a kinky relationship, really is eye opening

Sadly the relationship came to an end, which is why I'm back. The search is back on, but I know there could be the right person out there somewhere.

I've just got to keep looking.

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