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What I want for myself, and everyone else on the planet, are sexual experiences that, way more often than not, bring joy, affection, intimacy, pleasure, loving communication and touch, warmth, laughter, perhaps an orgasm or twelve, contentment, bliss, and maybe even a few moments of ecstasy into our lives. Love, as someone once said, comes when manipulation and definition stops.
I want these experiences, these feelings, for any woman I'm fortunate to be with, and the person she's fortunate to be with (that would be me), whether our relationship lasts for a few hours, for a decade or for a lifetime.
~ Joani Blank, paraphrased
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I will go anywhere and talk to anyone for answers to questions, absorbing what I find useful and after satisfying questioning my Self, will disregard anything that seems irrational. *Shrugging*
With freedom, I’m simply compassionate, empathic, pragmatically optimistic, friendly, hedonistic, fortunate man-hoe, and Unafraid of taking risks.
Welcome to the Well.
If you can imagine a place where everyone is encouraged to listen to and value ideas and comments made from perspectives that are different than yours, then you might also concede that we can all share in a gracious atmosphere here at the Well.
Breathing Deeply is a requirement in here – drama/bad theater Unwelcome; all else, optional.
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Essential, this; it is a vital part of Who I Am: The Covenant (Reprise) 
Draw freely.
Peace
DOXOS/DOXFAM
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When You Share Your Birthday, Sun-Sign, or Say Hello...
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Apr 28, 2008 1:31 pm
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...I invite you to notice that you can relax here ~ you don't have to like a person that avoids having a judgmenta attitude...but, if you were to value such a person, then welcome to the Well.
As you just say 'hey' ...or
Introduce your Self...
or say whatever you want ...
Whenever you want...
how ever you want to ~
imagine that you will always be welcome here.
If you WANT Me to provide a zodiac synopsis/astro-thingy, please ask.  Shall we begin?
FYI, I am a quintessential Sagittarius (with Gemini Ascendant, Venus in Aquarius, and Moon and Mars both in Scorpio, as it turns out) born Dec. 18th.
Breathe Deeply ~
Peace
Doc
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Pride...
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Feb 21, 2012 6:20 pm
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California, Texas, Pennsylvania, Ohio, Iowa, Minnesota, Wisconsin, Nebraska, and North & South Dakota
have the largest numbers of citizens of German origin or descent.
Imagine if their state flags looked like this:
OK.
I was just looking at state flags on a site that cited flag half-masting (concerning the furor of NJ lowering the flag in Whitney Houston’s honor) and took note of Mississippi's -
- which still incorporates the confederate battle flag, and of course, Florida and Alabama still have the 'X' shape, but without the familiar stars within.
Seem many instances fall short of the standards/criteria some feel disqualified Whitney.
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BHM Fun Facts Inside
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
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The (E)scent(s) of a Woman
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Feb 21, 2012 12:44 pm
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I'm here to talk about why and what about women that I like and love .
‘What is it you like about women’, she said.
(I immediately thought about the question a newscaster asked Teddy Kennedy during his run for Democratic nominee in? 1980 (‘Why do you want be president?’) and poor fellow seemed unprepared to answer - utterly stumped. It hurt his chances, no question.)
Well, I don't just like women. I said, 'I love women'.
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But wait.
Why do women think men love them; what about them is it women think men love?
I’ll come back later with the whats and whys of my Own should there be any interest...
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
...maybe ask what it is about men that women love next...
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I See...
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Feb 21, 2012 11:42 am
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Father of Fallen Soldier, Burns NJ Flag to Protest Whitney Houston Tribute
(ASHLEY JENNINGS,Good Morning America)
A Michigan man whose son died in Iraq has burned the state flag of New Jersey after New Jersey flew its flags at half-staff in memory of Whitney Houston last week.
"They're watering down the term of what a true hero is these days," John Burri told ABC News. "I thought it was offensive to every family's fallen solider out there, and it cheapens the meaning of lowering the flag."
The 60-year-old's decision to torch the New Jersey flag on his Wyoming, Mich., patio grill came after New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie ordered flags flown at half-staff to honor the singer Whitney Houston, a Garden State native who was buried in her home state on Sunday. Burri believes flags should only be lowered for those who died serving their country.
"My intention was not to hurt anyone, especially the residents of New Jersey," said Burri. "My intention was to show Gov. Christie how offensive it was."
The governor has defended his decision, calling Houston a "cultural icon." "Her accomplishments in her life were a source of great pride for many people in this state and for the state as a whole, and so on that basis I think she's entitled to have that recognition," Christie told reporters last week...
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Of the over 7,000 comments, the majority agreed w/ Burris that Houston as a drug addict and just a singer, ought not to have been honored this way.
Federal law gives governors of American states power to have flags lowered for residents or state officials. There is no law requiring that person to have served in the armed forces [to have been a hero, a role model, on equal comparative footing with previous honorees, drug free, or any subjective standard].
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Suppose it's true that this means that people can be so honored - even when some feel it's undeserving or inappropriate? Where in the world are these feelings - and the dogged determination to express them - coming from?
Does anyone ever get the sense that there’s an attitude some have that suggests:
if something [esp. state/federal government-wide] exists that doesn’t address or benefit them personally (or doesn't in a way that they think or believe is appropriate), that it shouldn't exist at all?
There are some things that I may NEVER understand.
Even So -- Happy Black History Month, Happy Weekend!
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
img: ew dot- Whitney in the midst of the first Gulf War, the singer appears at Super Bowl XXV in Tampa, and, backed by the Florida Orchestra, performs what I believe is the most stunning rendition of our national anthem ~ ever!
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We Have The Right To Express Our Opinions (or, ‘Over-Fed Hedonism Necroses,’ OK?) :)
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Feb 17, 2012 11:08 am
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Yes. We have the right to express our opinions. 
A Friend reminded Me of that recently, and, without confirming if how it sounded (to ME) was what she meant - it SEEMED as if she felt I was suggesting that she had no such right of expression. If true, that was simply inaccurate. I’ll ask her soon.
We have the right to express our opinions.
Back to opinions. Some say that – like Feelings - they can't be right or wrong. I don't know.
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So.
To what ends do expressing ones opinions go - especially when either the speaker knows or discovers later that their free expression is hurtful? We have the right to express our opinions.
Do we ever need to weigh the entitlement with the implementation of it? And what if anything does a person need to consider? We have the right to express our opinions.
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But first, different subject -- this Pragmatically Affirmative PSA for that wrestles with recurring, destructive, invasive, thoughts or memories~
Did you know?
· That the memories from your past that used to make you angry, depressed, annoyed or sad can be changed?
· That those memories could now trigger good feelings?
· That our inner mind will find the old emotions, find the positive lesson in that memory and create a connection with that memory that holds the new emotions?
· That thinking in this way is a form of self-hypnosis?
· That 95% of people can hypnotize themselves, and that people with higher IQs are usually more hypnotizable?
It ain’t never necessary that you believe Me immediately, but, when you use it/do this, this is a tremendously beneficial experience, and a very uncomplicated way to let your mind be free of the pain and judgment of the past.
Let’s just say that Simplicity – which I strongly, strongly advocate -- is wonderful ~ when we let it be so.
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You deserve the good weekend that’s coming, yeah? Work it right!
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
img: orig. art
More (tons more) about that ‘opinion thing’ Inside.....
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BHM (Black History Month) (3) Fun Facts – More Evidence Against State’s Rights...
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Feb 15, 2012 4:37 pm
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(From BHM (Black History Month) (2) Fun Facts – Virtue’s Thunder)
Not Slavery - as the Main Cause of the Civil War...
Again, I give you the Cause of the Civil War, as stated in writing by the secessionists themselves.
BTW, note that – as someone once said, the circumstance of White Supremacy does not require racial hate. It only requires a presumption of white superiority.
This assumption rarely took on meaning within a Constitution, but it frequently was written into local laws.
The issue is critically important for teachers to see clearly. Understanding why the Civil War began informs virtually all the attitudes about race that we wrestle with today.
The distorted emphasis on states’ rights separates us from the role of slavery and allows us to deny the notions of white supremacy that fostered secession.
Anyway, back to our Month....Black History FunFacts inside:
Going!
Happy Black History Month!
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
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Valentines.....
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Feb 14, 2012 8:16 am
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The Day's Sweetness & Happiness to ALL –
an Intriguing aim.....
Love to the Un_one and to some (from your secret admirer)
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
And
Love
A Woman’s Hangover
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