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What I want for myself, and everyone else on the planet, are psycho-sexual experiences that, way more often than not, bring joy, affection, intimacy, pleasure, loving communication and touch, warmth, laughter, perhaps an orgasm or twelve, contentment, bliss, and maybe even a few moments of ecstasy into our lives. Love, as someone once said, comes when manipulation and definition stops.
I want these experiences, these feelings, for any woman I'm fortunate to be with, and the person she's fortunate to be with (that would be me), whether a relationship lasts for a few hours, months, years, for a decade or for a lifetime.
~ Joani Blank, paraphrased
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I will go anywhere and talk to anyone for answers to questions, absorbing what I find useful and after satisfying questioning my Self, will disregard anything that seems irrational. *Shrugging*
With freedom, I’m simply compassionate, empathic, pragmatically optimistic, friendly, hedonistic, fortunate man-hoe, a humor-finder, and Unafraid of taking risks.
Welcome to the Well.
If you can imagine a place where everyone is encouraged to listen to and value ideas and comments made from perspectives that are different than yours, then you might also concede that we can all share in a gracious atmosphere here at the Well.
Breathing Deeply is a requirement in here – drama/bad theater Unwelcome; all else, optional.
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Essential, these; they are a vital part of Who I Am: ((LINKS))The Covenant (Reprise) [post 896665] 
Draw freely; come.
Peace
DOXOS/DOXFAM
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Moments (9): When I Recognize?Keep Company with Women Who ...
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Nov 22, 2011 3:43 pm
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love sex all the time, from the very thought of it - to the afterglow – is invariably a MOMENT for Me.
These women thrill their men to the core.
Using all their senses – they make our imaginations into a reality, not into a frustrated yearning. Even if they aren’t or think they couldn't possibly be in the mood - they Get There.
If they're exhausted, sex rejuvenates them; if they're frazzled, it soothes them; and if they have a headache or a bout of the blues, they'll go for that orgasm remedy. The women know how to use their bodies & minds concurrently to arouse themselves as well as their partners.
It's a Moment for Me when I encounter (or control or be at the mercy of ) such a woman - women of power and sensuality. Momentous Women who've come to see that sex can touch a chord severely - and it can profoundly heal - that through it, aside from the pleasures, it drills for that erotic element like oil, that resides in every emotion.
Yeeees, every emotion.
Women who love sex -- all the time (or willing to entertain a good attempt) - to meet them? Know them? Is a Moment not just for Me, but many, many men... A Moment: to have them look at you – and they look like an animal...simply gorgeous.
I wonder if you recognize your addictive, Moment-Inducing Selves. You make us feel as gods...and so we reciprocate.
Knowing such women - Yet another Moment, then?
I wonder If I see you...
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
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(filler 2) Two-ness
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Nov 17, 2011 9:15 am
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...On a deserted section of interstate, the woman unfurled an enormous quilt in the middle of the median.
She chose a shaded spot beside a thicket of trees around which the road made allowances for, and had started setting up for her picnic atop the luxuriant manicured carpet of grass at the foot of the biggest tree.
Placing a wooden cutting board in the center of the throw, she fished out the contents of her cooler and picnic basket and positioned the cheese, bread, and wine. She propped her wristwatch against the picnic basket, and switched up the volume on her iPod. Del Ray’s ‘Video Games’ drifted out,
...Tell me all the things you want to do
I heard that you like the bad girls
Honey, is that true?
It's better than I ever even knew
They say that the world was built for two
Only worth living if somebody is loving you...
fast becoming her favorite song.
Like a gas, one could imagine that the inspiring but melancholy strains tried to fill up the air as passionately as it tried to fill her emptiness.
There was an unshakable sensation of Two-ness inside Liza Bruckner, and she believed this feeling of duality was more a conviction than intuition.
There was the feeling of being the person she thought she was, or wanted to be, and also of being that person that others thought her to be, or expected, or wanted, or needed her to be.
Two persons inside the same body –
(cont. inside)
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
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WOMANKIND
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Nov 16, 2011 2:51 pm
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There’s been a lot written in magazines and on the Internet about how to understand womankind.
I still don't understand...
Maybe, in order to understand womankind, we have to look at the word itself.
Womankind.
Hm.
In essence, it's made up of two distinct words: 'womank' and 'ind'.
But what do these words mean?
It's an incomprehensible enigma, and maybe that's why womankind is as well.
~Unknown
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
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Moments (8): The First Time I See Her...
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Nov 14, 2011 3:16 pm
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... squirt.
Good Goodness. **shakes head, smiling in awe & appreciation**
Actually
Every Time
I see a woman squirt is a Moment for Me.
Especially arousing when she’s never done it before...orrr
Never done it with Me.
The latest occurrence (– after several orgasms & where gushing was never a 'goal' –) it was a spectacular and awesome damned (experience) surprise for us both. And I confess the temporary, post-spurting self-consciousness was also a treat for Doc_Demented.
A Moment, for sure.
Any experience(s) or love for this uber-sensual phenomenon?
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
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PVS Hopes
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Nov 14, 2011 2:32 pm
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Decidedly Un_BDSM (& Sentimentally Hopeful)
My sister (who was actually a first cousin that Mom raised along with Me), Dot was in a coma /PVS for over 30 days after a subdural brain bleed years ago. She regained consciousness, but was never her pre-stroke self. She died a few months later. She was 54.
This came to mind today because of an article I read, excerptedin the comments section below. Anyway, I had felt that those in a PVS were, of course, not conscious or aware...that they could not know what was happening to them.
Why?
Because for me, the alternative
(that they WERE aware of being imprisoned within their unresponsive bodies - aware)
was unthinkable.
Well, this could be good news. Unsure...
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(- WEDNESDAY, Nov. 9 2011- HealthDay News)
Brain Study Suggests Some Vegetative Patients Are Aware
(in comments)
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I wanted a reason to write about Dot, I guess - My Last Great Champion - the last of My Beginning Women, those familial Women of Power...
I wonder if you, like Me, have ever lost someone dear – and if you also can get the eerie sensation that they’re still alive...just – that you’re in between calls or visits?
Happens a lot with Me, and it’s a comforting illusion. Most of the time .
BD~
P
img: braininjurygroup dot
“Every dog has its day, and good dogs have two or three...check your faith, hear?”
~Dot MacLandon,
quoted from Isebone © 2010 D_S
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(Filler) Isebone: I Come When You Call (Excerpt)
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Nov 12, 2011 5:25 pm
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Suppose, as p3blogger stated, that
“...your Inner Authority creates your individual boundaries?
Truisms:
We are all unique.
One person’s boundaries around sex (and what makes them feel safe) and their sexuality will be different from another’s.
Supposing you could engineer the will to throw out all those rules that were constraining you from others - or by society?
What if you decided it was time to go on an Inner Authority Mission, where you trusted your self instead of outside influences to direct you in what makes you feel good, feel safe, feel joyous and to feel proud?”
To paraphrase her further:
Let’s say that many if not most of us have been wounded in some way during our lives.
And if that’s true, then how true is it that we also accumulated some healthy does of shame around our sexuality, our responses, our senses of appropriateness, how others might think of us, and significantly, what we tell ourselves about the above?
I am fascinated at how our minds, bodies, emotions and spirits have survived our fate - by how we've created intricate coping mechanisms - how we've altered our thinking.
The intelligence that exists in every human being needs to be honored. We don’t react or create patterns in our lives because we are delusional. We have created patterns to work with our previous and current reality.
If we are distrustful, it is because we have lived in situations throughout our lives where people WERE distrustful.
If we fear rejection, it is because we have been rejected over and over in our lives.
Eventually, we find that these coping mechanisms and patterns are no longer acceptable to us. They are messing with our lives in a way that brings us shame and guilt.
And Natalie Geld says “Communicating our sexuality is a constant challenge and often a profoundly confusing area of life. Most of us know more about our cell phone plans than we do about what makes us tick.
And many women feel isolated, especially regarding our most intimate concerns. It’s downright daunting and we often have a tough time talking about sex, usually feeling the need to hide our proclivities, our curiosities and innermost frustrations and desires.”
And so, I end up where I began: Supposing you could engineer the will to throw out all those rules that constrain you - from others, and your inner brakes, and from society?
And imagine that, if you couldn't – just 'couldn’t' – that someone could do it for you... which, is the inspiration for the excerpt inside.
(cont. inside...and - it’s long.)
Excerpt: “Isebone: I Come When You Call”
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
img: composite of Me & an Un_attributed web image 'Perception'
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We Owe Them Our Gratitude
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Nov 11, 2011 9:29 am
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Whether in peace or at war, the important role of our veterans cannot be denied. They are men and women from all walks of life—some young, some old; some ordinary, some famous. But they share one thing in common—a love for this great country.
In return for their many sacrifices, these brave individuals ask very little. And thus, it falls to an indebted nation to meet their selflessness with thankfulness...on this Veterans Day, there is much to commemorate, and much to be thankful for. It is true that America is strong and free. But we would never have come this far without the heroes we call veterans.
Today we have the privilege of honoring this very special group of Americans, whose service spans every decade of our country’s existence. We owe a great deal. First and foremost, we owe them our freedom. And today, especially, We Owe Them Our Gratitude.
-AMVETS
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...This is the tale of our brawn and our blood, side by side, in making and remaking a nation, pulling it westward, pulling it skyward, moving it forward again and again and again. And that is our task again today.
...This is a country that inspires the greatest things...Your best days are still ahead. Our greatest triumphs in America...are still to come.
And if anyone ever says otherwise - if anyone ever tells you
That your problems are too big, That your challenges are too great, that we can’t do something, that we shouldn’t even try, Think about all that we’ve done together. Remember that whatever hardships winter may bring, springtime is just around the corner.
And if they keep on arguing with you, just respond with as simple creed: Yes We Can - Yes We Can.
For you that have contributed to the character of the United States of America, and to the spirit of the world...
Ninety-[three] years ago today, the battlefields of Europe fell quiet as World War I came to a close. But we don't mark this day each year as a celebration of victory, as proud of that victory as we are. We mark this day as a celebration of those who made victory possible. It's a day we keep in our minds the brave men and women of this young nation -- generations of them -- who above all else believed in and fought for a set of ideals.
Because they did, our country still stands; our founding principles still shine; nations around the world that once knew nothing but fear now know the blessings of freedom.
That is why we fight -- in hopes of a day when we no longer need to. And that is why we gather at these solemn remembrances and reminders of war -- to recommit ourselves to the hard work of peace.
-President Obama
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That oaken, triangular display case...so many of them in our homes...
May we honor
and
Help those Vets that return...
‘Nuff said
Breathe Deeply
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Heavy D, Heavy_Doc...(in Threes?)
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Nov 10, 2011 7:47 am
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Had I waited another day, I could've included Heavy D in my tribute post to Joe Frazier and Andy Rooney.
Seems Life reminds us all the time, whether we wanna' hear it or damn not:
Ain't no 'Tomorrow'; don't sweat the small stuff; keep it simple; “So, live
Because ‘I’m coming,’” death says with compassion) -
And do it now.
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(T. Rees Shapiro/wash. post-November 90)
Dwight Myers, the charismatic and rotund rapper known as Heavy D who had chart-topping hits in the 1980s and 1990s before embarking on careers as an actor and influential record executive, died Nov. 8 in Los Angeles.
He was 44...
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BD~
P
img: bladerunnaztv
(Cont. inside)
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Joe Frazier...Andy Rooney
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Nov 8, 2011 8:37 am
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I admired and liked both these men.
They’re both are dead now, and for me, the world’s a little dimmer because of it. Suppose that these men ‘seemed’ so different from one another is a distraction rather than the point?
They both inspired and moved many of us. And - I'll miss them...
[Image]
(Joe Frazier/Andy Rooney)
(Cont. inside)
Breathe Deeply~
Peace
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