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check out betty67's blog....
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Aug 16, 2005 9:49 am
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....especially if you are someone who has engaged in or seriously considered Play that involves as a component. I am not an abuse survivor. betty67 has bravely shared some of her process in considering play. If you are someone for whom this issue resonates, please visit her blog and participate in the discussion. The post date is August 12th, 2005.
Thank you.
Mollena
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Hey diva....you CAN listen to the MAX online :-)
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Aug 14, 2005 5:12 pm
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go to
aitch tee tee pee, double slash, then
957maxfm
dot
com
slash
new
JUST so you know how big a geek I am, check out their last 10 song list and know that I was into them ALL!!
NEW ORDER - "BIZARRE LOVE TRIANGLE"
ROLLING STONES - "BROWN SUGAR"
CARDIGANS - "LOVEFOOL"
VAN HALEN - "JUMP"
ELTON JOHN - "GOODBYE YELLOW BRICK"
TOMMY TUTONE - "867-5309 JENNY"
SPINNERS - "RUBBERBAND MAN"
MICHELLE BRANCH - "ARE YOU HAPPY NOW"
MADNESS - "OUR HOUSE"
DOOBIE BROTHERS - "IT KEEPS YOU RUNNING"
PRINCE - "1999"
Pretty groovy.
Now, excuse me...I had some crazy idea that cleaning up my office would take me about an hour and be a piece of cake. Bzzzzzt!!!
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prayer? meditations? light a candle? chant?
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Aug 14, 2005 2:07 pm
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Whatever you go in for, do it.
For the families who lost loved ones in the airplane crash in Greece...
For the people who are in the Gaza Strip....
For the Mom staging her vigil in Texas....
For the people starving to death in horrid condititions in Darfur concentration camps (yeah, I said it.)
I was supposed to have a whole day planned, but it is so heavy in my brains today.
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who the hell....
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Aug 14, 2005 5:35 am
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...pulls an all-nighter wanking?
Holy cow it is late.
I had no idea 'till a moment ago what time it is......OK. I sleepy now.
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Ren and Stimpy and La Blue Girl
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Aug 14, 2005 5:24 am
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There is something extra nasty about lounging on the couch, blogging from my Trëo and alternating between my Ren and Stimpy DVDs and La BlueGirl .....shit.
I am so tired I'm hallucinating....but I am on a masturbatory roll....who can resist SPACE MADNESS after viewing an hour of brutal tentacle action?! No one, I tells ya.
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QUERY: Does learning from a submissive make one less dominant?
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Aug 13, 2005 2:36 pm
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No, not that you perverts.
But I have come across a few submissive women who have said they would have a hard time "training" a fledgling dominant, if they'd met someone who was interested in a relationship, but had less practical experience than they did.
I personally feel it is a great way to remind yourself what submission can be about...patience, humility, service. my stupidexboyfriend, The (not so) Vanilla Pizza Guy, was the beneficiary of some of the more subtle means one can use to approach helping a partner transition to a more dominant headspace.
If viewed as a service to the dominant, and the service being having them come to their own, I think it would be an amazing way to grow close to a new partner.
SO, for the submissives, is it really that you'd not be able to help a dominant to grow without feeling that their dominance was conditional? And for dominants...those among you who have had the (as I see it) benefit of learning from more experienced submissives, did that somehow diminish your feeling of being grounded in power?
I mean, back in the day, masters had to earn their leathers...and no leatherman was ever diminished for having bottomed and served. To the contrary...that was what they DID to earn their place. I kind of think that was a Good Thing.
{=}
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Shopping sulking schmoozing
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Aug 13, 2005 1:10 am
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Now, if I were ACTUALLY cleaning, I'd have license to remove the Pathetic Bitch sticker from my forehead.
But, OK, yeah, I still have that "Friday night and I should be doing something which is ridiculous, because this has been a long and bloody week (period of doom, anyone?) I did have a rocking dinner on Wednesday with my friend Keith. I broke his Tapas cherry.
And, it isn't as though I haven't done anything. I did get started on cleaning...I have SO much recycling to do it ain't funny.
I have also done some researching items I'll need for my trip. In retrospect, I am kind of glad I've stayed in a Hostel during that miserable trip back home a few years back. I now know that there are things ya NEED when traveling like that.
~ Those quick dry underwear (just ordered 2 pairs)
~ A lock
~ slippers
~ Satin sleep sack (found 'em hella cheap on e-bay)
~ Something comfy to sleep in (got some on-sale silk thermal stuff, perrrrrfik!)
~ A well-organised toiletry case (still looking for one of those)
~ EARPLUGS!(got high tech pluggies)
~ EYE SHADES!!(still lookin'; as a lens wearer, I need ones that have space to leave the eyelids free)
I've also scrounged some awesome bargains on travel stuff, like a good backpack (I sought all over the %$$#@ 'net for one with a detachable day pack that wasn't gonna cost an arm and leg, finally found one on sale...yay!). It has a special line for a camelpack with a tube that runs up the strap and allows you to hydrate while hiking about.
Hydrate my ASS.
I'm filling that puppy up with cheap local booze.
OK, so one of the sites I just ordered from (while they DO have cheap travel stuff....really reasonable...) but they are all preachifying jesus and crew on their site too. I mean, your religion is fine, but when I am shopping for travel panties with quick-dry wicking action, I don't want that, you know.
But I got them back.
I used the e-mail address that has kiss-my-big-black-ass as its center.
I hope they drop into a prayer circle on the spot when my order gets pulled.
Prince just came on the radio. There's this kick ass new station that is basically the radio equivalent of putting all the pop music from the past 40 years into an i-pod shuffle and letting it run. They guarantee 24-hour no repeat, and I think they could probably go for a week if they tried.
What happened to Prince...he user to be so...so... so totally kick ass.
OK, Kung-Fu Fighting just came on!!!!!! I love this station.
OK, gotta run....Khloe_p and  are on yahoo chat...gossip time!
hah...I Want Candy just came on the radio....last time I heard that was me singing it in out production of Charles Mee's version of Trojan Women. I played Helen. She wasn't nice.
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....The gold stars go to......
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Aug 12, 2005 9:16 pm
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 , curvysaffy , deathsmaiden and JCNs_imp get gold stars. I did wind up watching DEMON BEAST INVASION to whack off. Yay!
But, well, to be honest, r_diva, MystrssAshley mikayla and MASTERZZTOPP get silver stars, cause I was bored and not sleepy and whacked off again.
Then I checked my blog this morning and what the hey
I tossed one off for the Honorable mentionees, poshraver79 and _Mike_
Yay, and thanks for playing!!
And thanks to ME, for playing with ME!!!
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SOUND OFF: WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU!?!?
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Aug 11, 2005 7:03 pm
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Back in the day.....well, many moons ago, t'was a kick-ass thread about how the hell we all came up with our handles. Now, som'ya olde tymers might remember the stories we got, and I was pining for those days when we could read everyone's blogs on a daily basis.
I see so many new faces...and I have lots of new friends... I'd LOVE to see people share the origins of their names... Mine? Not all that obscure. I have, since childhood, been fascinated with the worship of goddesses, and how even the goddesses of destruction and death have their place in this eternal cycle. And.....plus.... I am tired of goddess energy being the realm of dominance. We who submit have our place in the sky, no?
So....what means your name to you?
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