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Insight of reality

Insight of the normal and the extreme.

We all have normal lives, but some of us pretend we do not.

We all have laundry, we all have jobs, we all have friends, but do we all enjoy ourselves ?

it's a strange world ...
Posted:Oct 4, 2015 1:27 pm
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2024 2:54 am
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I have recently been contacted by a very old play mate, it was fun at the time but I know we have both moved on, and I very politely declined with that near exact wording. I have seen her playing over the last several years and I know some of what she enjoys is not my taste, especially with what I would consider a new play mate given the time between our last session.

Her response was a little disappointed but I believe she took it well, until I received several pictures with comments similar to 'Look at what you could have done with me'

I am not the jealous type and the pictures were ok, but safe to say I made the correct call.

Perhaps some of the subs out there can tell me why someone would do that ? as it certainly does not make me want to respond/play any more than I did before.

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Just one of those days when ...
Posted:Sep 8, 2015 7:13 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2024 2:54 am
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A long, slow, play session would be wonderful ... instead I have people who believe they are sooo much better than they are, arguing amongst themselves. Office politics, joy!

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Hand job or blow job ?
Posted:Aug 17, 2015 3:22 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2021 2:05 pm
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I was talking to someone today and we had a wandering debate about which is better and for what reasons.

I personally prefer a mix of the two, but the discussion did raise a couple of interesting points

- good hand work is a definite skill and should not be considered easily achievable
- ending with a warm mouth teasing the end of a cock is preferred
- a bad blow job is a turn off
- providing too much encouragement during a bad blowjob just makes it worse

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It's just one of those days where ...
Posted:Jul 31, 2015 7:53 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2024 2:54 am
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I would like to be in a room with a sub and tease her both gently and harshly for several hours ..... just watching her body move as it betrays her

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Flirty flirty ...
Posted:Jul 15, 2015 1:52 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2024 2:54 am
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I am back in an office I havent been to in a while. She noticed my arrival immediately but tried to be very off hand about saying hello.

I settled into a nearby office.

She has just walked in and announced she would be working late, that in itself generally a good hint, but placing her knickers on my desk suggests I know what I'll be working on this evening.

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Just a little rant ...
Posted:Jun 29, 2015 4:02 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2022 6:56 am
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I have not had much time until recently to catch up with some of the blogs/discussions and it seems most people fit into 5 or so categories

i) Post bombing - There are primarily 3/4 posters who do 8+ posts in a row. Really, you can not structure your post to encompass it all into one, or perhaps they so unsure about themselves they have to make sure people read something they post ?

ii) The complainers - How they *have* to post because - Either they want a free 6 months so they have to post once a month (seems to be a theme), or, how they feel that all the fakes are after them, or , 'its not fair' as they can not find what they am looking for ( but of course do not really join in ), or or or - too many to continue.

iii) The regulars - Semi insightful, but 70-80% just day to day observations. These can be amusing but on the whole just a reflection of their life. Some people quote poetry (pass it off as their own!), some people wax lyrical how their life could be different (but isnt) and some are just happy.

iv) The wannabie, could be, might be , alas never will be. This fits some of (ii) but also adds a slant of one up man ship. These are generally chat room monkeys and no matter what anyone else has done, not only have they done it but put your effort to shame. This also encompasses the fools who kick people out of chat rooms (you know who you are) when they do not get a response they like.

v) Experienced and subtle - These people come and go. They may visit every day but are confident enough they do not need to share every detail. They may play RT and/or/both online and share just enough. In most cases they are still learning, experimenting and completely open to suggestions about things to try.

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Simple testing ... interesting reactions
Posted:Jun 21, 2015 2:03 pm
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2024 2:54 am
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Over the last several months I have had several conversation with supposed subs for a variety of reasons, possibly play, conversations on where to explore or just a little flirting.

I always test the conversation in a variety of ways, ie. don't give me crap, I'll play a weak scene to see how they react, i'll play 'never heard of that' to see where it goes.

I have blogged about testing before but I still find it quite interesting the reactions I have got, mainly from the supposed 'experienced' subs, rather than additional questions or further discovery either

a) block
b) can not continue the conversation and start rambling
c) actually become a little rude (which is always amusing)

Of course any response to a,b or c then it is certainly a non starter, but from newer subs there does seem to be a much more open stance to push beyond.

It has happened this evening. I pulled the weak scene stance, wanted to see their reaction and it went to (c). I suppose a semi interview it might be called. A shame as I thought it could be something longer term, but given the numbers of 'supposed' players certainly does stop the time wasting.

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To display ...
Posted:May 18, 2015 3:16 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2017 1:04 am
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We have known each other for a very long time, play now and then, and we had been discussing her desire to something a little more (quite a lot more really).

She wanted to be shown off, nothing public, and within the confines of only me playing with her.

After some discussion, she would be dressed initially in a basic corset, unclips from the back, stockings, knickers, high heels, small collar and a robust but simple event ball mask. Her hair would be up and she wanted to be chained so it was obvious who she belonged to. We are both aware of the idiots at some of the clubs - people are told NOT to take pictures inevitably some do, some would be 'Doms' can not control their desire to spank/hit on/assume some kind of right to play with subs unless there is a very obvious link, the guy in the corner waiting for his chance to 'jump' in when things do not go as planned and 'show you' how it *should* be done - I have seen them all and for her it was going to be a relatively new experience and wanted it to go as smoothly as possible.

The club was relatively quiet, a little early 9pm, but some very nice people, several couples and I have to say but her at ease very quickly. I had already arranged a display session with the club and I went with an open position, removes the possibility of lurkers in the corner and I could walk round her to keep potential 'feeler steelers' from being a distraction.

The position was a good height for her, legs spread well for the width and with her arms spread in a couple of positions above her head. I waited for there to be 4/5 couples ready to watch before beginning. As much as it was going to our session she wanted to be watched.

The initial position presented her bottom to the crowd, but those on the other side could see her front no problem. I unclipped her chain and hung it to one side.s

I began with a semi soft spanking. I did have to laugh a little inside as she responded a little louder than usual but as the audience began to feedback she relaxed and really go into her zone. I generated several loud responses by moving to the back of her legs. This was quite a short intro, 10 minutes or so, and while I paused I unclipped her corset and pulled it off her, exposing her back, a little delight from the crowd.

I began to flog her back. I was light to begin with but soon wound up to a much harsher stance. I did move around her, both to keep her focus and also make sure all of her back was being used.

I cut off her knickers and played to the crowd a little as I teased them from between her legs at which point I moved in to tease her clit with my fingers. I whispered to her to come, which she did and it left her breathless as I went back to flogging her lightly. Her body showed she was in her little zone.

I gagged her with a head harness and then put on her a full hood with only a small opening for her mouth. It was enough for her to breath, she wasnt too happy. I untied her arms and legs and turned her around so now her front was exposed to the crowd, and I then strapped her back in to position, but this time fastening straps to her knees to make sure they stayed open.

I whispered to her how wonderful she looked and how large the crowd had now got, at the same time again I teased her clit and told her to come, which she did.

I used a crop across her nipples and when she was sufficiently vocal through the gag applied large nipple clamps, which I can safely say if she wasnt strapped down would have caused her to jump a mile.

I moved to cropping her pussy. This generated sounds from her and the crowd. A varied pace and varied strength she was absolutely focused. For the next 20-30 minutes the cropping alone with forced orgasms she let herself go. She was loud, she squirted, she bucked, it was a pleasure to watch and I know the crowd were equally mesmerised.

It has been about an hour and it was time to wind down a little. I took off the nipple clamps, caressing her nipples and let her recover . I ungagged her, took off the hood, standing in front and putting the mask back into place. As I stepped away I let her see the number of people watching, a good 20-25. It was funny but she blushed but they were all smiling and I continued to unstrap her.

I told her to take a bow.

I had a coat ready for her and she put it on we just hugged.

We stayed in the club for another hour and throughout I had hold of her chain and she very obviously hung on to me. She received many compliments and several couples wanted us to play with them, we'll see.

A good night and what a sight ....

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To be exclusive ...
Posted:May 5, 2015 6:22 am
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2015 2:29 pm
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If you have read my blog long term, or even my profile, I am looking for a long term sub and with that, can come exclusivity. It does of course take time, like any relationship, but throughout my experience the better you know someone the better play can be.

If a sub is looking for exclusivity and they are someone I enjoy and believe will work long term then to me it is one of the negotiation points and I am happy to give that one up. Before anyone jumps in there are many points to be negotiated in a long term relationship. I do enjoy different people and different types of play, however when exclusive it just means you get to explore them with the same person.

A short correspondence with someone who ask this question and I had no hesitation to say no problem. Until that time however I will play with anyone who wishes to!

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Just an experiment
Posted:May 5, 2015 3:16 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2015 1:24 am
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There are many posts where subs outline how they are bombarded by Doms, either with stupid one liners or potentially over and over to try and get a response. I have also talked to many subs about how when on IM they get alot of requests to chat.

As an experiment I thought I would spend the morning on IM requesting chats with available subs that appear on the list. My approach was a simple 'Are you available to chat?' one line. I did make sure to check their profile first.

I wanted to see

i) If any of the subs responded

ii) Their response

I only did one approach per potential chat.

The results, well, in my opinion Doms get a bad reputation for their approach as subs could also be nicer.

I have never been a big user of IM as I prefer email/real meetings but it did make me realise everyone could be nicer.

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