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Mountain man
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Aug 26, 2010 11:44 pm
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Beautiful people, inside and out. Some of the nicest people you could ever want to meet. And terrible things happen to them, things certainly not their fault. And they look at the road ahead and all they see is black darkness.
I have looked down that same tunnel and saw that same darkness. While there may have been those thoughts, I always continued down that path. I am stubborn like that. Literally a decade + later, slivers of light could be seen. Took a long time. To the point where I stopped looking ahead.
The light isn't exactly bright but, I can at least see it. And I can see it in others also. My challenge is to get them to see what I can easily see. Maybe I had to take that path so that I could show others. Like those mountain men who trekked across the west, giving tours and helping those who chose to relocate in the wilderness
They would tell of hot springs and geysers (Yellowstone) and no one would believe them. All of nature's wonders. I can see the wonders of life in the eyes of my friends who are in pain.
I just haven't learned how to convince them that its there.
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Its all about me
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Jul 29, 2010 11:30 pm
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Too many times at sites like this we see profile after profile telling what we want, our hard limits, goals and all that good stuff.
But, rarely do I see anyone list what they have to offer to the other person. How they can become a value to them. And that's about as important as anything else I would think.
If you really want a relationship to last, you have to think of the other person as much as you think of yourself. You have to make yourself valuable to that person. So that a break up would mean he/she would lose a lot. And miss you.
If its only about him doing things for you, in time he will tire and get bored. Because nothing is coming back his way. People like to be cared about, thought of. Know that they matter in your life. And when they don't they lose the reason for being in a relationship.
Maybe freedom is best for some. If they don't have it inside them to care about the partner. Maybe they should be free ?
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Sometimes enough is enough
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Jul 26, 2010 12:42 am
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Sometimes two people can try and try and it just doesn't work out. Effort simply isn't enough.
Maybe its best for birds to be free no matter how badly they wish to be caged. Maybe its just their way.
When your world is spinning a million miles a minute, its not easy to focus. But, without that focus, what is left for the partner ??
I do know a relationship is like a flower, neglect it and it will wither.
We'll have to see...
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Not cruel enough ??
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Jul 11, 2010 10:28 am
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This is what someone said about me.
I thought it was quite funny actually. As if I have to portray something on a computer screen that can only happen in real life.
One cannot see body language or facial gestures through words on a screen. I guess doimg some sort of cyber would be helpful but, some of us simply aren't into that.
I never really thought about it. How would one "prove" cruelty ? Not that I care one way or the other about proving anything. But, how does one accomplish that ??
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Cage Rattling
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Jun 21, 2010 12:09 pm
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Many times we do things and don't even realize why we do then. They just seem natural to do I guess.
I know I have to be the one to rattle the cage, poke a stick in there or something. Even if I have to put the person in that cage so I can mess with them  .
I need them to struggle, fight back. I love the challenge of it all. I can't stand a cold fish or what they call the "doormat". I have met slaves as submissive and docile as one could imagine yet, there is a level I can reach with them where even they think twice.
Or I can see the look in their eyes that says "I'm doing this but, I don't like it!" Knowing they would resist if they could but, they are resigned in the fact they can't and won't and I do have the ultimate control over them.
But, in the meantime, expect me to be a bit....difficult !!
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Mind , body and soul
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Dec 5, 2009 11:56 am
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I have found its quite difficult for the body to heal itself when the soul is poisonous. And as hard as we may try and as much help from the outside we may have, it just doesn't work out.
Cleanse the soul, clear the mind, and only then does the body have the room to grow and heal.
We can be a stubborn as we wish. But, some laws of nature simply cannot and won't be superceded.
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You know what they say about curses
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Nov 18, 2009 8:53 pm
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When you use them for evil, they come back threefold...or something like that.
I am willing to bet that if you use it on an innocent person or on false charges, its probably worse.
There was a time when a simple apology was enough. I fear that may no longer be the case. It certainly is out of my hands , I had nothing to do with it.
I just know right from wrong. And its a shame it has to be this way.
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More stars in the sky tonight...
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Nov 6, 2009 12:08 am
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This is a sad day as we lost some very brave men needlessly.
In my own life I lost someone who was also brave.
This man served at D-Day through Korea till the early parts of Vietnam. Retired from there. Found a job and retired there also. He was the father of a very good friend of mine.
I knew him through that friend and always respected him. But, one of the things I respect him most about was that he left all things in order for his family for when his time came. All bills are paid. All arrangements are taken care of. When his health failed he has a wife to take over and do what was necessary.
He wasn't into bdsm that I know of. But, he was as much a Dom as anyone on this site. People talk about 50's lifestyle, they were there. He woke up, dressed sat at the kitchen table. Food was presented to him each morning. He never told her what to cook. She never asked. After 50 years together, I guess she kinda knew.
He just walked into a room and any fighting stopped. He rarely raised his voice. Wasn't a wild partier. But, when it was time to travel, he made it happen. Emergencies pop up, he took care of them. He was calm, cool at all times...at least I never saw him panic.
He was a man I admired and looked up to. He never had to tell you how he was. He just was himself and showed it to you. He was a real man ! And I will miss him.
God bless his soul...
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