The Corners of My Mind

An attempt to begin expressing my views.....maybe ending in self enlightenment.

Resolution Oct 31, 2006 2:12 pm
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I havent posted in a long time, but I've been playing with this idea for a 'theme' of posts for quite some time.

Im doing a presentation for my Psychology class on Fetishism......and I'm having a LOT of fun with it.

With the sources at hand, I decided to offer a new item for your viewing pleasure every few days. It may be a description of a fetish....or a sexual term.....in alphabetical order.

Hope you enjoy and learn !

Red
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Wish List Sep 8, 2006 12:07 pm
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Recently.....I was shown a decadent flogger made of fur quality fox tails.
Many are made with only one tail......this had four long silky tails.
Made with navy blue leather and silver fox fur....I instantly was smitten with it.....thinking of how it would feel.
He has offered to make one just for me....red leather and black fox tails..... delicious and sensual.
My only regret is it's out of my price range......$150........well worth it.
Would anyone care to indulge me?
This well made toy would be a wonderful addition to what I currently own, and would be a cherished gift.

(picture shown of silver fox tail flogger)
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Taking a trip into the Twilight Zone May 24, 2006 11:23 am
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Well tomorrow I finally leave for the Gulf Coast of Mississippi, to visit family and friends. The main objective is to let my oldest and youngest daughters visit with their father and 2 siblings that reside with him.

But I feel nothing but trepidation, my Ex is capable of huge amounts of drama, one of the reasons I am no longer with him. The woman he is with should be declared insane, and locked away, she is a nut.

I can give a brief summery, and hope fully no one will think it reflects on MY judgment, considering I am no longer with him.

He became involved with this women soon after we separated (it will be 4 years come September) and its been more 'on' then off'. SHE.........is married, to a plastic surgeon who lives about 3 hours upstate and they have 2 small children together (under age 10). She would frequently come and live with my now ex, and MY children, without her own, and stay for weeks at a time, while her husband's money supported and paid the bills, and my ex would even be driving hubby's Navigator. She'd go back and forth, depending on her husband's mood, and at one point, not quite a year and a half ago.......MY EX MOVED IN WITH THEM BOTH (and yes.....my other 2 children as well).

Isn't that insane?

Now mind you, Ex has moved out (approx. 4 months ago), glommed off his mom for a while, and now he and crazy lady have a house on the coast with HER kids and are avoiding hubby (but still using his credit cards) and the paperwork he's trying to serve on HER. Rumor has it that they are accusing hubby of sexually molesting his own children (and yes, my sleep is disturbed by the fact my 14 y/o was living there if this is true) but I find it unlikely, as "Bonnie & Clyde" would in all probability be lying about this. Compound that with the new rumor that they got away with Ex living with them by telling hubby Ex is GAY!

Now add to this he called me on Valentines Day of THIS year, it was SO yuckey.....fucked up my WHOLE day.

Can you see now why I feel like I'm traveling into a major shit storm?

I haven't even LEFT yet and I'm already looking forward to the trip home.......sheesh.
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Why are SOME men so lazy? Apr 13, 2006 1:41 pm
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I've been around the Adult FriendFinder/ALT sites a while, and I've recently noticed a 'pattern' in men's profiles lately.....
"I'm the type who's rarely the first to make a move, but once things are moving, I'm really something else. I'm your typical free spirit, single and unfettered and roaming the Earth at will. Hey there! I'm a regular fellow, a little on the quiet side, but I thaw fairly quick once I get to know you."
I have seen this exact set of phrases in multiple profiles....and I'm not suggesting they are the same person...not at all.
Obviously these are being used at large by men who are not creative enough to make their own.

Men, call me crazy, but even if you ARE just looking for sex, my guess is you want to stand out in a crowd.
So blending in with all the other men and offering nothing for originality.........is NOT the way to go.
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Omaha Erotic Art Show, 4/1/2006 Apr 3, 2006 8:39 pm
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It was brought to my attention a few weeks ago that Omaha would be having an Erotic Art show, the first it's had in 10 years, with many pieces being brought out of storage since they were banned some time ago.Culture of most any form is interesting to me, and I enjoy Opera and chamber music as much as a dimly lit blues bar and the Smithsonian.

Admittedly my expectations were high, as a friend and I took the time to find parking Downtown and were caught in that oh so lovely hail we had that night. We had already spent a few hours as spectators at the Shark Club where an AdultFriendFinder's gathering had been planned, which we crashed accordingly while it was in full swing. This had made us fashionably late as we arrived at the Magic Theater off of Harney and 16th around 11.

Walking in cold and soaking wet, we paid our cover and ordered our drinks at the almost depleted make shift bar, the rest of the area reflecting the thrown together look of the event, in some areas looking as if it just been recently vacated by squatters. Immediately we noticed the age of the majority of the people present were in their young 20's, many in black regalia and swatting each other with various items of impact equiment, laughing uproarously. While the work on the walls was worth comment and I saw a few pieces I would have enjoyed owning, the interpretive dance left much to be desired. Im sure nubile young ladies in underwear and 'wife beaters' appeal to some, but it was more of a 'go and gyrate for the nice people'.......then anyone actually attempting to SAY anything with their movements. The lifestyle themes scattered here and there only seemed present to lend additional naughtyness to the atmosphere, rather then challenge anyone to take it seriously. In an attempt to be edgy.....I feel they overshot their goal and hit closer to borderline ludicrous.

Hands down I was disappointed by this exhibit, and perhaps my expectations were unrealistic. We actually entertained thoughts of going back to the Shark Club to watch the conclusion of the feeding frenzy, as it had a higher entertainment value then what we had viewed downtown. I have hopes that in the future they try for less of a Bohemian approach, add a smidgen of class and throw in maturity for good measure.......stir.
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Who needs thorns when you can have THESE? Mar 29, 2006 3:18 pm
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Just a brief little something about one of my new toys, my new crop, a pierced leather rose.
Custom made in my signature color, it is wrapped entirely in supple red leather.
It is perfectly balanced with the exact amount of weight, and hits with a delicious thud. The rings of metal piercing each and every petal giving the impact a trace of sting.
I especially like this toy when used on my pussy, well placed thwaps just above my piercing.
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Saturday 11th --- Slosh...& GroundHog Prom Mar 12, 2006 9:50 pm
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Just thought I'd write a few lines about the great time I had over the weekend.
First......the Slosh had moved to another place other then Clancy's.....we gathered at Gilligans in the Old Market instead. It was a tad cramped, and a few unpredictables, but it was great seeing everyone and talking.
I HAD planned on making those bells hang from a chain from my new clit ring.....but it just didnt work as I wanted.
SO....instead...I had a FemDom friend stitch them into the skin of the nape of my neck....on either side of my new tattoo....LOVED it....lol.
Everytime I moved my head......I could hear them.

We left the slosh with additional people (not dressed in costume) and made it to the MidAmercia Center.
The costumes were AWESOME!!
Fetish wear was EVERYWHERE!!
We went as a group of schoolgirls and priests....we had a Cardinal and the Pope with us...lol.
I would love to see the people in the lifestyle attend this in the future....we had a great time perving the outfits...and enjpying the company of other kink friendly people.
And we now feel challenged to come up with fun, kinky new costumes.
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Pushing myself once again....... Feb 20, 2006 11:50 am
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I got my first tattoo this weekend.....after doing tattoos on other people for years.
The symbol you see that accompanies my post........is the kanji symbol for menace.
And its in red.....hense......a red menace.

Its on the back of my neck....and the pain....while slight....was distracting.

This area is a MAJOR erogenous zone...lol...and I couldnt allow myself to get aroused, while my brother put ink in my skin...lol.
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GroundHog Prom Feb 14, 2006 3:35 pm
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Some of us in the lifestyle will be attending the GroundHog Prom....this will be my first....and Im sure we will have fun.
Im going as a schoolgirl.....short plaid skirt......knee highs......perhaps ponytails....or braids.....not sure yet. A slight goth twist..but not overbearingly so.
But when I woke up this morning......I had the most wicked thought.
I never wear underwear......even with short skirts.
So I decided I'm going to get a small, short, slim chain....with a small (weighted) red bell...to attach to my new piece of hardware.
I want it where it's just BARELY hanging past my 'lips'.
(smile)
the wieght.....the movement......the posible 'noise'....all should lead to some titalation during the festivities.
I'm just not 'wired' right......lol.
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Embracing the Pain Feb 9, 2006 9:13 am
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Well......I bit the bullet.......and got my clit pierced.
And no....it wasnt a hood piercing.....or a labia piercing....it was an ACTUAL honest to GOD clitoral piercing.
It looks smashing....hurt like hell.....and im looking forward to seeing what the end result will be.
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