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JEALOUSY IS SUCH A POINTLESS FUCKING EMOTION...WHY NOT GIVE THANKS FOR WHAT YOU DO HAVE? THANK YOU!
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Nov 22, 2006 3:59 pm
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THANK YOU'S AND GIVING...
GIVING THANKS FOR WHAT YOU HAVE AND NOT BOILING IN THE CAULDRON OF HATE OF THOSE WHO POSSESS WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAVE...BUT DON'T.
JEALOUSY 101
We all deny being jealous most often.
We all agree it is a petty and destructive emotion too.
We all shake our heads and agree it is such a waste of time and makes one look very small as a person.
It accomplishes nothing and only brings about destruction, of either the originator of the jealousy, the person the jealousy is about, or the union of two people.
An entire nation can be jealous over the prosperity of another nation and wars can occur.
A thief is jealous of what another has and steals. This thief is not willing to work for the same material possessions, and therefore, takes the easy way out.
Taking away or the ruination of another entity, no matter which method they may choose, they permit jealousy to RULE them.
They are, or become insecure with themselves and seek to destroy the very thing they wish to have. This makes them feel better, I suppose.
When someone is in a position of having to share a person or object, and they wish for all of it, they seek to destroy the entire object or person, rather than be happy to possess a part of it.
Greed yes, greed is jealousy's friend for sure.
More, more, more, and what you have, what you may originally have thought was good enough, is never enough.
Instead of trying to achieve the same, or be happy with what we have, we destroy with acts born of jealousy.
So, you are successful in destroying or taking that which you did not work for, or what does not rightfully belong to you. Then what?
What does this make you?
What kind of person, or nation of people are you?
Do you even know?
Look, we are all guilty of jealousy at times. It is all a matter of how we choose to allow it to affect us.
Does it rule you or can you be genuinely happy for another's success?
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Let us look at the concept of the poly relationship.
For those who do not know, in the lifestyle this means a Master or Mistress having more than one slave or submissive.
What many fail to understand is that there are many purposes and roles a slave can fill. Just because a Master or Mistress owns and loves one slave does not mean their capacity to love is peaked.
Many times, one slave can not provide for all the needs of a Master or Mistress.
Very often, there are different mind-sets and different "types" of slaves, such as cuckold, chastity, houseworkers, sexual and pleasure slaves, etc.
There are times when one slave may not be able to, or enjoy the levels of pain a Physically Sadistic Dominant may need to express.
While you may say, this is simply the greed of One, wishing to have many cakes and eat them too, but the truth is, there are far more submissives than Dominants.
Each submissive must be cared for by the Dominant, each with their own set of needs. Attention to each must be appropriate to care for them and provide them with the "completeness" they seek.
This is certainly not a relationship arrangement many can live with, but it is far more prevalent in this lifestyle.
Sure, there are players out there, but when you have harmony within D/s, it works very well.
Jealousy, however, is often an unplanned emotion on the part of a submissive and can be a huge problem for a Dominant.
I would like to make it clear that these intentions of a poly household or arrangement should ALWAYS be made clear to the submissive, prior to even a first "scene". This is essential, and is required of a Dominant with integrity.
This is such a delicate topic and subject to so many variables within each relationship. The dynamics will never be identical to another poly relationship or among any gathering of slaves owned by One Dominant.
It is, however, a problem, when a Dominant HAS made this clear and the submissive agrees to become a part of this family, and then later exhibits behavior that is undesirable to the Master or Mistress.
This occurs very often when complete surrender is professed but not present in the relationship.
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Introducing a new submissive into a relationship should, whenever possible, involve all of the existing collared slaves.
No, the Dominant is not required to do so, but it really does save headaches later on. If part of the responsibility of the decision is given to the submissive, and they are permitted to assist in "choosing" the new submissive, it will always work out much better for all involved.
submissives are human beings. Jealousy is a human emotion and is unavoidable at times. Small incidents are to be expected and it takes a good and caring Dominant to administer the correct responses to these insecurities within the slave. Again, this is not always an easy task.
It can be a most beautiful and fulfilling experience to own several slaves that "play" well together and have genuine love for each other.
Some of the most erotic experiences I have experienced have been with two or more slaves. It adds so much to the realm of possibility in activities within the lifestyle.
The possibilities become endless because, within each submissive there are different levels of assertive tendencies. Hierarchy is also most important and again, knowing one's role and one's place within the relationship is crucial to success.
For example, I love to have a female submissive assist Me in the domination of a male submissive, and, I daresay, I have never had one complain about it.
Humiliation, as a group activity can be delightful.
Torture by multiple individuals or focusing on even pleasuring one submissive by several is really neat!
Sometimes I just like to watch. I like forced bi, in males and females and I love to simply give direction.
So no, no formulas here. It is all individual and specific to the parties involved.
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So what does this have to do with giving thanks?
Well, sometimes, we need to consider what life would be like without the things we now have or remember what it was like BEFORE.
This brings us back to when we wished we had something, when we did not, and now do, and it makes us appreciate the here and now, much more.
Wasting time, wishing and resenting individuals or entities because we are not willing to do what it takes to equal this for ourselves is just pointless.
Little victories may be had, and perhaps some can look at themselves in the mirror every day but I would venture to guess they exist as more of an empty shell than anyone of any substance.
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