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Third Time Lucky
Posted:Aug 24, 2018 5:21 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2019 3:43 am
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Yep, same old alt. Nothing works...this is the third attempt to create and save a blog...let me see if this time it wants to play....
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Here again
Posted:Aug 23, 2018 5:46 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2019 3:43 am
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Well, back on alt after a long break. Started the blog yesterday but it didn't show up. Hotlisted someone but that didn't show up either. So Count this blog entry as a test. If it gets saved then I'll start the blog in earnest. T.
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Here again
Posted:Aug 22, 2018 6:13 am
Last Updated:Jan 4, 2022 4:34 am
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Indeed. I gave up on alt for a while, partly because I had some good relationships going RT. But sooner or later all ships sail - and all storms pass - and whilst we are grateful for the memories we need sustenance on a daily basis.

I will try and find things of interest to talk about here later; for now (and if anyone is reading this) I am open to new friendships. I accept the challenges of experienced subs who expect creativity and a change of pace. Equally I am intrigued by nervous newbies, who desperately want to test the waters but are scared that all Doms are hairy brutes who will steamroller over them. I am neither hairy nor a brute; I can sit and talk over a coffee as easily as I can bind you and beat you. Sometimes we just need to go slow.

More later if I'm encouraged. Feel free to drop me a line on any topic. There are no dumb questions.
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The sickening factor
Posted:Mar 1, 2015 6:57 pm
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2019 3:43 am
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I am fond of the notion of using the 'sickening factor' in extended sessions, though in truth I have used it only occasionally. The sickening factor; specifically of putting the sub into a stress position - standing with her hands tied above her head, or kneeling with her hands on her head - and telling her she will be there for two hours. Give her a clock to watch, it's surprising how slow those hands will move when you watch them and, of course, she cannot help but watch the clock. At the two hour mark congratulate your sub, tell her what a good girl she is, then tell her she will remain in position for another hour. The sickening factor.

On the issue of the clock, I tried to make a clock that ran slow - for example, every five minutes the clock would only show two or three minutes of time had passed. Imagine your sub watching the clock, again in a stress position, and the time seems to go forever. But I couldn't find a way to slow the clock. I thought I could simply adjust the electric current but apparently not. If anyone knows how we can achieve a slow clock let me know.
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Boy from the North country
Posted:Nov 21, 2014 4:49 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2019 3:44 am
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Several things conspired tonight to move me in a different direction. A girl from Malaysia, an Irish girl in a beautiful pleated skirt, a conversation with erotically inclined.

Time to go down the mine....

I am an angry man. I credit - or discredit - a working-class youth, north of England, and a social system that tried at every turn to remove the rungs from the ladder of opportunity. Which might - or might not - explain my fascination with power. Power overcomes social systems, it overcomes everything. I do so love power. Power allows you to be kind, power allows you to be generous. Power soothes the trouble breast, makes the angry man calm. When you have power you can be magnanimous. You can control brutality, aim the whip, encourage endurance. Brutality without power is destructive. Brutality with power productive.

I was thinking of androgenous youth tonight, I think it's a phase I'm going through. Andogenous youth, denim skirts and ankle socks. I seem to alienate myself every time with this ankle sock fetish. I'd like to say I don't care but I do.

T
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IMAGINARY COLLARS
Posted:Nov 20, 2014 2:38 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2019 3:45 am
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Here's a quickie. I'm often in meetings with lots of people, usually quite boring events, and I often while (or wile, as is your want) away the time (when there are attractive ladies present) imagining them sitting there wearing a collar with a chain reaching somewhere beneath the table. The game for me is how they might handle the situation; one the one hand trying to participate meaningfully in the meeting whilst, on the other hand, being so obviously subjugated and contained.

It sure beats listening to the shit that most people are saying....anyone else got games to get you through those moments?.....

T
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The joy of flying....
Posted:Nov 14, 2014 2:54 pm
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2014 2:05 am
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I’m sitting in an airport again, early morning; plane is delayed again, and I’m thankful for my s-pen tablet so I can draw me manga. And whine on the blog. Actually not a whine, just an update, to keep the blog current (and to kill some time).

So, what have I done since crashing and burning in Shanghai? Well, my little spanking virgin lost her spanking cherry on several occasions though, maybe just for now, we don’t do sessions any more. But we have become good friends and meet almost once a week for coffee and some very delightful - and, yes, erotic - conversation. Typical Tawse odd behaviour but thoroughly enjoyable.

I have also rekindled a friendship with a girl who just likes a bdsm session every month or so. No sex, just creative scenes, some bondage and some fairly intense whipping with an array of implements. I enjoy thinking up challenging scenarios and being inventive with restraints, punishments, and punishment implements. it’s quite surprising what can be improvised from finds in a regular supermarket, and a hardware store - oi vey......My next blog I intend to start listing some of my scene ideas, used and awaiting use, and to show some of my finds from the supermarkets and hardware store. I think Home Depot could put together a pretty good bdsm section just using stock items.

And just in case I seem to be...flitty...with girls, let me be clear in what I’m (still) looking for. I would dearly like a regular affectionate relationship. I had hoped my Shanghai girl was going to work. If that relationship provides my bdsm needs then I would be content and would be loyal to the relationship. Until then I am more than happy to have sessions with people who want those casual rendezvous, and to enjoy conversations with interesting people here.

So if you want conversation, write me. And if you are in Hong Kong and crave some bondage, a spanking, or a little humiliation, write me.

T
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In touch with his feminine side
Posted:Sep 29, 2014 5:44 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2019 1:45 am
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The Korean spankee. I revisited fetlife after a lengthy sabbatical and saw an ad from a Korean who was going to visit Hong Kong and wanted a good spanking. Not one to shirk from a hard day's work I volunteered to attend to said backside. She had various faceless photos on her page; she was very Korean, slim, boyish, and she responded positively to my offer of chastisement. We must have exchanged four or five emails about the how, the when, the where, when I suddenly noticed not only was she young - 26 - but male - 26M. Something of a quandary. I didn't want to offend, but I am not interested in males. Anyway I sent what I felt was a respectful and apologetic email and he took it, well, like a man.

Then the introspection. I have been close to several transvestite or transexuals here over the years, and every time I am very attracted to them. But, I think, because they look so beautiful as women. I would like to go with one, but I really can't figure out what I would do with them. Add this to my list of things to do. Once I figure out what to do. On the other hand the idea of a pretty young man dressed against his will as a female is extremely erotic. I'm guessing because of the humiliation present. The universal aphrodisiac. In this case I would take him out to humiliate, then take him home for a whipping. I'm guessing this would work.

The list grows longer...
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Girls in bed
Posted:Sep 23, 2014 6:10 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 12:11 pm
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Well, after all the turmoil and emotional mayhem of the past few weeks I'm back in a warm and fuzzy mood. Still missing my Shanghai girl, but it's getting easier. I thought of her, lying asleep in the bed naked about 4am, and several thinks sprang to mind. First, just how beautifull women are, physically. She lay on her side, asleep, the sheets over her hips and legs, her arms clutched in front of her. No choice but I had to touch, to stroke, to caress. As I reminisced I then remembered my Bicol girlfriend of, oh, two years ago; I would lie awake looking at her too. She often slept in her school uniform (costume, she was a tad older!) but she was tanned, and I would look in amazement at how beautiful she was in sleep. The white of her shirt, the white of the sheets, her tanned skin and her long jet black hair. This is true; this is not a fantasy. And as I thought these thoughts, remembered these moments, it made me realise just how lucky I am, and have been, and probably will be again.

Then - and possibly the real point of this post - I moved into fantasy mode and replayed a recurring desire, to sleep with a naked girl who has her wrists tied behind her back for the whole night. I'm not totally sure, but I don't think I've done this and I would really like to. Like to wake up at 4am and look at her sleeping; in my mind there is something incredibly erotic about a naked girl who could sleep in complete peace with her wrists tied behind her back. Which leads to a question - has anyone out there done this? Is it possible to sleep? Is it agony or no big deal? I was tempted as I looked at my Shanghai girl to tie her wrists (again) but foolishly decided against it.

Just thoughts from my my warm and fuzzy moment. No crucifixions tonight, Josephine.

[mental note: add a post about the Korean spankee....]
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WHEN THE DOM STOPS DOMMING
Posted:Sep 20, 2014 3:07 am
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2014 4:36 am
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So two days with a beautiful and articulate young woman in Shanghai, what could possibly be wrong with that?

Well, Tawse, you blew it.

Yes I did. After 20 years before the mast I went in as a , and I am well-ashamed of myself for it. She had said clearly, she wanted a daddy or a dom, she didn't know which, and she also said that the chemistry would tell. The Great Dom Master All in Big Letters Tawse went in brainless - asking what she preferred, what she wanted, in everything from what to eat or drink to what should we call each other. I know not why. I guess the prize was too great; all I've ever really wanted these past few years is a submissive young girlfriend as a close friend, and she clearly surpassed expectations in every way. She was sharp, and I do so like that. I like the challenge - ordinarily I rise to it but this time I seem to have sunk without a trace. On reflection I should have offered the strict daddy - the daddy dom (du'uh - it was obvious, really...) - but the point is I should have offer, rather than waited. And taken the consequences, as real men would. Now I take the consequences as pussies do.

Why the blog, the admission of incompetence? Probably because alt is so full of confidence and braggadocio I feel a little harsh reality reporting might provide confidence in areas requiring confidence. Maybe so that if I am lucky enough to hook up with another girl she will moderate her expectation (oh...it's Tawse....). And maybe so that some young thing will take sympathy and trot round to offer a commiserating blow job. Ya never know yer luck.

So if you, or a close relative, or someone you know, find yourself in need of a daddy or a dom and are unsure which, call 1-800-TAWSE. This time I will know exactly what to do.
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