RTFM or RTFP!
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Jul 26, 2010 11:20 am
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Why do so many people not even bother to read a profile? Time to change Read The Fucking Manual into Read The Fucking Profile!
I'm submissive but no slave. So I'm looking for a Dom who wants an equal relationship in daily life but will take charge sexually. Love the experiences I had with shibari and want more of that.
Although I like to be spanked and (fire)flogged, I'm not very maso, the fear for or the suggestion of pain is sufficient most of the time. At the other hand as I'm not very disciplined myself I do need some discipline from my partner. I like teasing and being teased.
As I need a lot of attention, sharing my Dom with other subs is not an option. Hopefully we'll meet in time to start a family!
Besides BDSM I like lots of different things oftenly changing with the seasons and/or my moods. Reading, writing, gardening, dancing, swimming, carving soapstone, knitting, drawing and other krafts.
For now I do not have the intention to relocate to another country.
Sorry but I only respond to mail if I'm interested.
In my blogs I write down things I find interesting or beautiful and want to share with others. Sometimes I write about my own experiences: Vileine You are very welcome to visit and comment.
No!!: scat, water sports, permanent injuries, blood, one-night-stands, play dates, discrete relationships (so not involved with someone else or not over your former love yet), couples.
My ideal person: The man I could submit to has to be someone I can look up to. So he has to be clever, creative, mentally and physically strong. And he needs to be open-minded, talkative and have a good sense of humor.
He is a non-smoker! has the wish to have children, respectful, dominant man, intelligent (IQ > 111), fun, caring, creative, D/D-free, looking for a serious relationship, is willing to send a picture of his face, single, attractive, a shibari artist or willing to become one, hetero-sexual yet not homophobic.
Not interested in penis-pics nor other nude pictures
so thanks but no thanks!
It would become really perfect if he's born between '66-'77, outgoing, educated, has more than a year of experience in BDSM, no children or at least not living permanently with him, normal to athletic body-type, 1.80m-1.95m, a normal to long, thick to very thick and circumcised penis, no facial hair nor a very hairy body, is a light to social drinker and someone who likes dancing and would like to learn to tango with me or teach me.
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Nickname Vilaine Laferoce - Vileine
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Dec 4, 2008 10:46 am
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vilain
aanmatigend, aanstootgevend, aanstotelijk, amoreel, banaal, bandiet, bliksems, boef, bokkig, boosaardig, boosdoener, booswicht, bot, dorps, ellendeling, futiel, gekruid, gepekeld, gepeperd, gezouten, grof, guitig, hartig, immoreel, indiscreet, klier, kreng, kruidig, laag-bij-de-grond, lomp, mispunt, morsig, nietsbetekenend, nietszeggend, obsceen, onbeduidend, onbehouwen, onbelangrijk, onbenullig, onbeschaafd, onbeschaamd, onbetekenend, ondeugend, onelegant, ongegeneerd, ongelikt, onhebbelijk, onopgevoed, onverlaat, onvriendelijk, ordinair, onzedelijk, onzedig, plat, platvloers, pikant, pittig, rakker, ranzig, respectloos, schalks, schavuit, schelm, schelmpje, schobbejak, smeerlap, schoft, schofterig, schuin, schunnig, schurk, slechtaard, slonzig, slordig, smerig, smiecht, snaak, snoodaard, stouterd, triviaal, vies, viezig, vlegelachtig, voddig, vuil, vulgair, vunzig, weinigzeggend, zedeloos, zout, zoutig
feroce
bandeloos, beestachtig, blindelings, dolletjes, enig, in het wilde weg, kokend, lukraak, ongetemd, ruig, ruw, verscheurend, verwilderd, wild, woest, ziedend
Ik vertaal het graag met leuke alliteraties zoals:
Boefje de Beestachtige
Rakker de Ruige (of de Ruwe)
Bandietje de Bandeloze
Schelmpje (Schurkje) de Verscheurende
Ondeugd de Ongetemde
Zedenloze de Ziedende
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Info: BDSM-logo based on triskele/triskelion and/or gankyil - Wikipedia
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Jul 19, 2008 10:48 am
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A triskelion or triskele (both from the Greek τρισκέλιον or τρισκελής, for "three-legged") is a symbol consisting of three interlocked spirals, or three bent human legs, or any similar symbol with three protrusions and a threefold rotational symmetry.
Origins
The triskelion symbol appears in many early cultures, including on Mycenaean vessels, on coinage in Lycia, and on staters of Pamphylia (at Aspendos, 370�333 BC) and Pisidia. Celtic influences in Anatolia, epitomized by the Gauls who invaded and settled Galatia, are especially noted by those who theorize a Celtic origin for the triskelion.
Kneeling clockwise is the correct symbol as it is said that bent or kneeling in an anticlockwise fashion signifies aggression in heraldry (see Swastika).
Celtic / Gaelic Triscele
The triscele has been used since ancient times in Celtic culture to symbolize the cycle of life. It has also been a symbol for the trinity since post-pagan times and medieval times in Scotland, Ireland and parts of England and Wales. As with many of the pagan myths and stories that changed during this time period so did the pagan symbols that were once part of the culture in an effort to convert the entirety of celtic culture to Christianity. The triscele also was a symbol for the three goddesses of Celtic mythology (also found in Greek mythology). There is also some debate if it came to be a symbol for wise men, leaders, scholars and people of the arts among the druids an ancients celts alike. Origins of this can be found in Brigid daughter of Dagda (Brigid is one of the three goddesses). When looking at the symbol it is clear to see that spirals move inward therefore also beinig cited that each spiral symbolizes strength, honor & fortitude.
Spiral triskele
The Celtic symbol of three conjoined spirals may have had triple significance similar to the imagery that lies behind the triskelion. The triple spiral motif is a Neolithic symbol in Western Europe. It is carved into the rock of a stone lozenge near the main entrance of the prehistoric Newgrange monument in County Meath, Ireland. A variant of the symbol is also found, carved into the wall in the inner chamber of the passage tomb. Because of its Celtic associations, it is also used as a symbol of Brittany (alongside the hermine).
A possibly related symbol of Germanic origin is the valknut, and the Celtic and Germanic triquetra.
The Neolithic triple spiral symbol.
Spiral triskele, found in Celtic artwork, used by Celtic Reconstructionists and occasionally as a Christian Trinitarian symbol.
"Horned triskele", rendition of three interlocked drinking horns, from the Viking Age Snoldelev Stone, in Denmark.
Modern uses
BDSM
A form of the triskelion has been proposed as a BDSM Emblem by some BDSM groups, partly based on a description in the Story of O. The specific emblem design is meant to be shown with metallic spokes and circle, and three holes (not dots) within the design.
Reconstructionists and Neopagans
The triskele, usually consisting of spirals, but also the "horned triskelion", is used by some Polytheistic Reconstructionist and Neopagan groups. As a Celtic symbol, it is found primarily of groups with a Celtic cultural orientation and, less frequently, can also be found in use by some Germanic Neopagan groups and eclectic or syncretic traditions such as Wicca. The spiral triskele is one of the primary symbols of Celtic Reconstructionist Paganism.
Celtic Reconstructionists use the symbol to represent a variety of triplicities in their cosmology and theology; it is also a favored symbol due to its association with the god Manann�n mac Lir.
Wicca is syncretic in nature and often aesthetically adopts symbolism from various cultures, particularly Celtic symbolism. It is less commonly used amongst Germanic Neopagan groups due to the non-Germanic origins of the symbol; use by Germanic groups may be due to confusion or association with Norse symbols with triple symmetries, like the Valknut, the Triquetra, or the symbol found on the Snoldelev Stone.
Gankyil
Nomenclature and etymology
Gankyil (Tibetan: dga' 'khyil, equivalent Sanskrit: ananda-chakra), pronounced "ganshey" or "ganshee", is formed from the words dga' ("joy, elation, rapture, bliss, ecstacy, beauty, total happiness" i.e. the opposite of dukkha) and 'khyil ("swirling; circle, ring, bracelet, coil, a place where water flows"). Thus it might be translated as "bliss-whirling" or "wheel of joy".
Exegesis
In addition to linking the gankyil with the cintamani, Robert Beer makes the following connections:
The gakyil or 'wheel of joy' is depicted in a similar form to the ancient Chinese yin-yang symbol, but its swirling central hub is usually composed of either three or four sections. The Tibetan term dga' is used to describe all forms of joy, delight, and pleasure, and the term 'khyil means to circle or spin. The wheel of joy is commonly depicted at the central hub of the dharmachakra, where its three or four swirls may represent the Three Jewels and victory over the three poisons, or the Four Noble Truths and the four directions. As a symbol of the Three Jewels it may also appear as the 'triple-eyed' or wish-granting gem of the chakravartin. In the Dzogchen tradition the three swirls of the gakyil primarily symbolize the trinity of the base, path, and fruit.
Het Trinity-symbool is een symbool dat in meerdere culturen voorkomt.
In de Keltische cultuur is het de Triskel(e), het symbool voor de drie-eenheid in de mens:
Annwn - het onderwereldgebied, het verst weg van God, de duisternis kosmisch symbool: de maan
Abred - het niveau van beproeving en het stoffelijke bestaan kosmisch symbool: de aarde
Gwynvyd - de geheel ontplooide geest, de toestand van liefde, in harmonie met God kosmisch symbool: de zon
In de Tibetaanse cultuur wordt het teken van de drievoudige spiraal de G�kyil genoemd, het 'Rad van Vreugde' dat door een proces van zelfbevrijding uiteindelijk verwerkelijking voortbrengt, en het symbool van oerenergie die in wezen een geheel is.
In de Aboriginal cultuur staat de drievoudige spiraal voor de Nautilus-schelp, een spiraal rond een centrale, maar niet zichtbare as. De Aboriginals geloven dat de schelp het geraamte van de ziel is, die toebehoort aan Alinda, de maan-man, die iedere maanmaand vanuit de hemel in de oceaan stort.
Bij de christenen staat de drie-eenheid voor: De Vader, De Zoon en De Heilige Geest.
Bij de Wicca staat de drie-eenheid voor: Maagd, Moeder, Oude Wijze Vrouw, de drie fasen van een vrouwenleven.
Bron: Wikipedia
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The Usual Suspects
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Sep 23, 2010 8:11 am
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Event
The Usual Suspects
“A kinky unconference”
General info
start date: Saturday, October 09, 2010 10:00 AM
end date: Sunday, October 10, 2010 01:00 PM
where: COC Amsterdam
address: Rozenstraat 14, 1016 NX Amsterdam, the Netherlands map
cost: Conference: €25 at door, €20 in advance. Party-only: €10 at door. Combination ticket, advance only: €25. Register at http://usualsuspectsconference.com
Information and tickets to the event:
http://usualsuspectsconference.com
Check out The Usual Suspects group on fetlife for questions, announcement and discussions.
The Usual Suspects is a one-day unconference on BDSM and kinky sex, held in Amsterdam on October 9th, 2010.
This event has sprung into existence for somewhat selfish reasons. In May of this year, I attended what I can only describe as the best kink event I’ve ever been to – a conference in Toronto called the GRUE. It was an event unlike any other I had attended in Europe. I had some experience with self-organizing events, but the way the unconference model worked with topics around BDSM and kinky sex simply blew my mind. I left the conference with only two slight regrets:
1. It was over;
2. All my kinky friends hadn’t been there and should have been 
And thus inspiration was found to organize a small Kinky unconference in the Netherlands.
For this event, we (the organizers) hope to attract kinksters in the area around (and including) the Netherlands. We have friends in Belgium and Germany that we hope will come and join us!
Since the Unconference concept seems to be relatively unknown in this area – possibly to its great distance to the bondage capitol of the world, Madison, Wisconsin – a short explanation might be in order.
The model aside, we intend The Usual Suspects to be an opportunity to share information and experiences, to hang out and to have fun with kink in a setting other than a play party. An opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in an atmosphere that encourages open discussions and interaction. And to learn about (or hey, who knows, acquire? invent?) new fetishes you may not have known existed.
Hope to see you in Amsterdam on the 9th!
Spicy & Nachtschade, Organizers of The Usual Suspects
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'Banking'
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Jul 24, 2010 6:16 am
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I got myself a very special debit card. My bank allows its clients to design their own card. The design should not be alien to good morals. As I figured they wouldn't recognize a triskele as a logo with a specific meaning I've submitted.....
the BDSM-roses-logo. Today I've received my card. 
If you'd like to know more about the background of the triskele you can read about it in my blog 'BDSM-logo based on triskele/triskelion and/or gankyil'. It's very interesting as it occurs in several cultures. It's always a symbol for a trinity.
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It's my party..
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Apr 1, 2009 3:40 pm
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It's no joke: the first of april is the day I quit smoking a year ago. So there's my first celebration of this week. April 9th I'll celebrate my 37th birthday. So this week is my party!
Whish all of you a smashing spring!
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