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Nov 3, 2007 8:00 am
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I didnt bother to put my suitcase away after unpacking last weekend. Why bother? I just needed to pack it again today....
While putting things together the other evening, I looked in the bag to see what I had left in it. To my surprise, I found some presents that had been left for me! They were the little sparkly foam ball toys Smooches loves to carry around.
Now I have to wonder who left them there and why.... Was it Smooches? Did she want to let me know she would miss me? Or was it Smokey? Was he trying to tell me that Smooches should take this trip?
If only they could talk....
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that funny story i owe you....
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Nov 3, 2007 5:47 am
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A couple of months ago, I said there was a funny story I wanted to share with you. Im finally getting around to posting it!
One of the guys I work with, J, may have an idea that Im kinky. For years, weve teased each other about our relationships and sexual behaviors. Ive told him that there are photos of me in compromising dress or positions and hes jokingly asked to see them. Other times, Ive made remarks about being tied up when hes called and how much I enjoy it. Part of the fun is that HE is the one who blushes every time these topics come up.
When I tried to go back to the office in September, I went over to his department to catch up with everyone. He walked out of his office and was admiring my choker. Walking around behind me, he lifted my hair and said, I dont see the D-ring for attaching the leash. There were a couple of snickers to be heard from his staff members. I calmly looked at him and said, Sweetie, thats what the ring on the front is for!
J started blushing furiously, his staff began laughing, and I just stood there with a smile on my face. If only they knew!
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Bollywood and BDSM....
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Oct 30, 2007 3:54 pm
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MasterSpanker33 did a wonderful posting about Bollywood (**DARK EYES AND FORBIDDEN**) which got my mind spinning. That posting was the topic of a fantastic conversation with TCGuy58. Things finally came into focus for me while talking about it. Alas, when I got back to my hotel, the blue screen of death showed up on my laptop and that coherency flew into the ether....
The allure of Bollywood still fascinates me. I think its because I see so much of that same eroticism in D/s relationships. Its the unknown, the fantasy, calling out to the participants. With Bollywood, the sexual tension is raised and minor glimpses are given via dream sequences. Because of the taboo nature of public expression, the mildest of scenes leads to explosive imagery. After all, who is to say where that kiss will lead? What follows is limited only by the imagination of the viewer.
I find that same erotic tension even in simple day-to-day actions with Sir. When He uses my nickname or has THAT voice, it creates a flare within me. There is that same dream-like quality to the moment. Where will He take me? Are we going into those forbidden realms? So many activities that society has deemed perverted are explored and reveled in. Is that part of the excitement of going there? Because we know it is dark and dirty?
I love the way MasterSpanker33 describes Bollywood with his erotic scale schematic:
Forbidden = Quadruple the excitement
Exotic = a new treat, never opened
Repressed Sexuality = A need to release theirs and, by extension, our own
Foreign = Ecstasy never before experienced
The scale would be my own for a D/s relationship. Exploring the forbidden, which is more exotic than the norm. A release of our repressed sexuality in order to meet societal norms leads to foreign emotions.
Thank you, MasterSpanker33 for such a powerful posting. It is one that is still tumbling around in my thoughts....
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on the agenda....
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Oct 29, 2007 2:55 pm
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Well, I have another trip to Chicago all planned. Ill be heading out there on November 4 and returning home on the 14th. Watch out, Windy City! 
I think this is going to be my routine for the next few months. While Im not thrilled about being away from Sir this much, I also accept the fact that I have to be in two places in order to get my job done. Its difficult. I have friends in Chicago and I ADORE spending time with them. But I also have Sir and my life here and I ADORE being home. When are they going to perfect that cloning technology?
When I get home from this trip, I think I have almost two weeks off for vacation. This was supposed to be for my annual trip to the UK. Unfortunately, my back problems have forced me to cancel this year.  Im trying to look at the positive side, though. Ill have time to help Sir work on the house and also have time to work ahead on school assignments. There will also be plenty of opportunity to cook meals for Him and fill His freezer. Am I a bad girl if I wish Sir would be laid off for a couple of days while Im on vacation?????
(Just kidding!)
(Not really....)
Ive got a new laptop, so I should be able to keep up with everyone a little better on this next trip. No more blue screen of death! YAY!!!!!
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foot fetish is getting worse....
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Oct 28, 2007 6:30 am
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A couple of years ago, I wrote about how my little Smokey has a foot fetish. Ive had to accept the fact that it is now worsening....
Sir caught him trying to crawl into one of His shoes the other night. Last night, I caught him lying on Sirs shoes, with his little head lying right over the opening....
*sigh*
Is this a hint for me to leave out a pair of shoes for him when Im away?
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a perfect moment....
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Oct 27, 2007 7:12 am
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Ive been sitting here this morning, drinking my coffee, reading blogs, listening to the rain pattering on the gutter, and hearing those soft snores coming from the next bedroom....
Its a perfect moment for me.
Im living the fairy tale I dreamt of. He is here. Everything is quiet. No noise from the neighbors or the parking lot. Its easy to imagine being on an island. Just us. Well, us and the cats....
I wish there was a way to take a picture of right now. Instead, I have to try to remember how content and at peace I feel.
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life challenges....
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Oct 24, 2007 4:14 pm
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Life just seems to have a way of throwing challenges in your face when you least expect them. My challenges over this last week plus?
1. My laptop is dying. And it's not going gracefully. Instead of just rolling over and staying dead, it's teasing me.... The blue screen of death seven times in a row at the hotel, but starting up just fine when I get to the office. Right now, it SEEMS to be working, but I don't know if I will actually get this posting completed.
2. Sir is now working evenings. *sigh* I was looking forward to my warm welcome home tomorrow afternoon.... Guess it will have to wait until He gets off work, now.
3. I get to convince a group of people (who don't want to be convinced) that moving to a new process and structure is a GOOD thing. My skill at diplomacy is low to begin with. So this ought to be fun! Especially since this group of 20-some people decided long ago that none of the system changes had anything to do with them....
4. I'm stuck in a rut with the data at work. I can't do anything until other people fix the mistakes they made. And I just know that everyone is going to scramble to fix all their mistakes tomorrow with the misunderstanding that I can get all their data in on Friday before uploads are scheduled. I'm not looking forward to the outcome this week....
The curve balls are coming in from the right and the left. But I just keep dodging, jigging, zagging, and doing my best to keep up. I'm actually sitting here with a smile on my face, because I know that very, very early Friday morning, someone will wrap His loving arms around me and make it all better.
I miss Him....
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today is the day!
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Oct 19, 2007 3:58 am
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I get to meet someone after spending the last couple of years getting to know him....
Tonight I'm going out with TCGuy58!
YAY!!!!!
This trip has been so busy I haven't had a chance to keep up with anything. I'll spend the weekend working on work stuff, polishing my final paper for this term, and hopefully catching up on everyone's blogs! 
And I get to see that gorgeous slavekat69 while I'm here and meet her King!
The only thing that would make it sweeter would be if Sir could be here with me....
(I miss you, sweetie....  )
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lucky me!
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Oct 14, 2007 6:12 am
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Ive been in a frenzy the last few days trying to get ready to go to Chicago. This trip will have me there for ten days. Guess what? This lucky girl is going to get to meet another new blogger! (Not someone who is new to blogging, but a blogger I havent met yet....)
YAY!
Why is it that the new system transition has to happen at the same time I have to complete my final term paper? Combine that with the back problems and you can see that I have a mess on my hands.... *sigh* It will all get done eventually. Sleep is NOT a requirement, is it?
There was originally a series of trips planned, with the first one scheduled in mid-August. At that time, I was a bit uneasy with how Sir and I would handle the separations. It wasnt something I could verbalize, because I didnt really understand why it was creating anxiety for me. In a way, it was a blessing to go through all these issues with my back. I learned so much about Him and His commitment to me. Weve had some conversations that were eye-opening for me. Some of those demons that have haunted me were put to rest because of those discussions....
Two months ago, I was dreading our separation. Today, I can look at it as a necessary evil that is part of my job. He accepted that fact when He collared me. Im finally coming to terms with the separation anxiety I was feeling. I just wish I could figure out why I had been feeling it and hope it doesnt visit me again....
So, watch out, Chicago! The WistfulWench storm is heading your way....
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