Male box
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Dec 6, 2010 5:24 pm
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Just couldn't resist the misspelling of mail box in the title for this blog.
Being a standard member I thought I would open a blog where other standard member or for that matter any other person can leave a message should they so desire.
I check my blog daily so if you want to contact me I will get the message and we might be able to communicate.
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Pondering life
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Apr 8, 2012 5:54 pm
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I was born gay in an era where gays were not accepted and perhaps to a lots of people and religions we still aren’t accepted today. I remained in the closet all of my life even moving away from my family so I could have some sort of a life.I missing out on having a family and they missed out knowing who I really was.
My parents were always worried about what the neighbours might think so coming out was virtually impossible. Stupidly I respected their feelings. Actually for all intent and purposes I am still in the closet,leery of who I befriend for fear of rejection. To late I realized that the rejection of people who couldn’t accept who I was would have been a blessing and being with people who accepted me would have been a God sent.
Straight people I have trained myself to avoid for fear of discovery about my sexuality and gays were avoided because I lived in a closet for such a large part of my life and was in constant denial.
I was well into my thirties before I allowed myself to explore my sexuality as I was brain washed by my family’s feelings and my religious upbringing.
The work place was also a place where one sexuality had to be kept a secret although everyone has to have figure it out when you are in your sixties always, attending company function alone. Don’t ask don’t tell doesn’t only apply to the military believe me. Making friend was also something I always avoided for fear they might find out I was gay.
The first thirty years of my life were wasted. My life thereafter might have had its moments but it lacked in lots of areas. Companionship when not in a relationship is non existent because of my closeted life. I have had to suffer through the loss of two of my life partner without support from friends or family. Secretly mourning their loss and putting on a false front to the world.
As I move into the last phase of the life cycle I have lots of time to think about life and how we quite often get the short end of the stick For the most stupid reason imaginable. The culprit being other people’s feeling
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Some time saner minds do prevail
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Dec 2, 2011 2:07 pm
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My condo corporation had it’s annual general meeting last night and I was happy to see that saner minds than our elected council prevailed.
Three years ago we raised Twenty nine million dollars to cover an exterior envelope renovation. I still question if it was actually needed or if preventative maintenance would have sufficed. Anyway we all bought into the project and now most of the owner are carrying a second mortgage of one hundred thousand dollars that carries for approximately five hundred dollars a month on top of our mortgage payment and another five hundred for maintenance fees. Owning one’s home is starting to be get expensive. Some people are unemployed, other are fearing cutbacks in the near future. The economy is in a near recession, living costs are escalating and most people are cutting back trying to keep their heads above water and not have to declare personal bankruptcy.
We have been experiencing a number of leaking pipes in the complex which we been coping with, then we lost our property manager and replaced her with a new one. She managed in a period of two month to convince the council they should be proactive and simply replace the piping at a cost of three million dollars claiming she knew a good company to do the job. I asked myself what her connection to the company was but I am a crotchety old man. The council bought in and decided to raise the funds over a two year period by special levy at a cost of five hundred plus dollars a month per unit.
I was scratching my head and starting to get ulcers just wondering where I could find an additional five hundred plus dollars a month, not an easy task when one is retired and living on a fixed income. Fortunately I wasn’t alone and there was a near riot at the meeting questioning the validity of the piping problem. When the special resolution was brought up it was unanimously voted down. Not a single person voted to pass the resolution . I would have thought the council would have at least voted to approve the project but then again saner minds prevailed . The owners presented a united front and peace and quiet has returned to the home front while we study and contemplate other solutions to deal with the plumbing.
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