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An Email I received...
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Jun 22, 2007 6:49 pm
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I received an email from someone on this site who actually understood what I was looking for. Too bad he is so far. His email was definitely different from all of those, "I want you to do me with that thing" emails I usually get. I have reposted his email, with his permission, however I omitted his name as per his request.
"Until a recent experience I had always considered myself to be dom.
I recently was made aware of the fact that I enjoy being a sub and quite frankly it was one of the most hottest moments ever!
I find myself fantasizing daily about being someone's sub.
However for me, it has to be more than sex. I need a connection outside of the bedroom. So there needs to be some compatibility on a intellectual and emotional level.
I am very masculine on the outside, I don't think anyone would ever guess I have these desires.
This is somewhat difficult for me to accept but I am quickly realizing there are some strong desires.
I have never had a bi experience but the thought of giving up control and having a domme command me to do things I have never done excites me tremendously.
Therefore, as difficult as it is to admit, the thought of being told to get on my knees and being ordered to please another man is a very hot thought.
I know distance is an issue and I understand how you feel. I'm not expecting you or asking you to make an exception.
Perhaps then, as a compromise we can chat from time to time and I would at least have someone to share some of my fantasies with." Author Anonymous
I thanked him for his email and told him that I was completely impressed by it. A lesson for other men, don't send a HEY DO ME email, it won't get you anywhere.
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What I like and WANT...
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May 7, 2007 4:00 pm
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I have been seeing some terms used on this site that describe what I like and things I am looking for:
Crossdressing - I prefer a "boy in panties". I love thongs, garters and thigh highs also. The attraction for me is a masculine man in lingerie. Means no wig, no makeup, no lipstick etc... No taping or tucking! It is the male body in panties that makes me happy.
Body Hair - I prefer naturally hairless or shaved/waxed men. Must be at least trimmed very low to the skin. Facial hair and head hair shall be groomed at all times.
Bondage - Any restraints will be used on YOU! Never on me. However nothing can take away view or access to your manhood.
Abuse/Humiliation/Pain - I will never do anything that would make you uncomfortable. Anything done or said to you, will be decided ahead of time. Although I may and will improvise as I see fit, nothing will harm you. No permanent marks. No public humiliation, or at least none that others can see. Could be lingerie worn under your clothes, could be something much more.
Slave/Sub Men - I am not looking for a slave, more of a submissive care giver - someone to make sure I am happy in every way. You will be the object of my sexual amusement and any other person(s) I deem fit. You will perform sexually on command. You will pamper me as I see fit, in whatever manner I demand. You will be expected to try to anticipate my needs and wants. You will be rewarded when correct.
Dominant Men - You are still required to pamper and take care of me at all times. I will NEVER sub to you, however you can and will top with other men of my choice (you will have some input in my decision). Any interaction with other men will be in my presence and with my permission.
Bisexual and Bi Curious Men - I prefer a straight guy who craves sex and oral with men. I expect you to be at the very least bi curious! Or open to bi play. This can be something you will for my enjoyment or something you have always wanted to do, whatever your reason is YOU WILL DO IT. Minimum would be oral - and there is no limit on SAFE bi play. All actions and selected partners will be pre-approved by ME and will happen in my presence. You can top or bottom with other men, or both depending on the partner selected. Threesomes and Moresomes may be possible. On a rare occasion, you may be required to service another couple MF. Again it would be my decision.
Anal Play - Will always be on YOU, and sometimes on me if I demand it. Toys and Strapons will be of a size that you can handle. I am not into fisting or extreme objects, a stretched out partner is NOT HOT to me. Tighest is a turn on and will please me.
ABOSULTELY NO DRUGS, NO POTTY GAMES, NO BLOOD!!!!!!!!!! These would be a dealbreakers for sure!
Can you handle this? If so, send me a wink/email or post your response here and I will get back to you. I hope to hear from someone.
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Are there any SINGLE bisexual Men in SI?
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Aug 21, 2006 7:09 pm
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I would love to find a steady bisexual guy that I could play with. A real gentleman when we are out and about but a little freak when we are in. An alpha male, very masculine on the outside but willing to experiment with me in the bedroom.
I would like my steady lover/partner to have the following qualities:
1. A few extra/Average to Athletic, Muscular is a plus
2. Trimmed or shaved body hair and the face must be groomed as well
3. Very masculine, Alpha Male with the outside world (likes sports, hanging with the guys etc...) but he likes to give up his man pussy to me and maybe another man that I bring in
4. Likes to dress very masculine in the street, but won't mind putting on that special garter and thigh highs under his suit or jeans when we go out for the evening
5. Be close to my area (Staten Island, Brooklyn, Jersey)
6. Being single and willing to have a relationship is a definte plus. I do get more comfortable with those I trust and care about.
7. A dominant male in the work force, amongst his friends and family, on the football field but still likes to be my little bitch once in a while
8. would be willing to sub for other men that I bring home or DOM with other men - all depends on the other parties involved
Just a few things I am very interested in. I am totally attracted to a strong minded alpha male for a loving relationship but it would be a huge plus if he was a little submissive at times in the bedroom. So that is a few things I want in my man. All are not necessary but would be great if they were.
MUST be SINGLE and looking for a Long Term Relationship in and out of the bedroom. NO MARRIED/ATTACHED MEN and no COUPLES until I find my steady partner.
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