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Submission
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Jun 13, 2006 3:22 pm
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Violently once asked:
Submission is on your terms or mine ?
Which is an interesting point to consider.
Bodski once wrote:
The difference between bottoming and submission is not whatever you want it to be
Which is the sort of shit I spout from time to time.
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Are You A Jedi ?
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Jun 7, 2006 4:44 pm
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For those in the UK, a census was taken in 2001, I am not sure if others are taken in all countries but I do know that they are taken outside of the UK.
One of the questions was: what is your religion ?
At the time there was much hype about this question because if enough people answered a religion that was not already acknowledged then this new religion would be officially recognised. e-mails circulated, rodio shows and TV shows discussed it and the idea was to answer the question JEDI.
If enouhg people did it then it would be an official religion. If it was an official religion and you had described yourself as a Jedi, then you were - officially.
I did it, I'm trying to find out how many other people did but whenever I look at the statistics information, the page seems to freeze.
Oh well, patience I must show. Be a Jedi overnight will I not.
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Polyamory and D/s
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May 25, 2006 2:20 pm
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There are a number of polyamorous Dom/mes within the blogs but I haven't noticed so many poly subs.
Is this simply a supply / demand situation or is there something more deep rooted ? Or am I simply making a nonsense observation ?
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Why Bites Are Best
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May 20, 2006 4:32 am
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A number of Dominants recently answered what is their favourite toy. I didnt take part at the time. I wont deny that toys are fun, great fun in fact. Last weekend for example I took delivery of two floggers. One was a small rope flogger, much more sensual than painful (great fun for hitting really hard with - it doesnt really hurt). The second was suede, somewhat more stingy, but still quite sensual used the right way (great fun for hitting hard with - it does really hurt ! ).
I recall in the past that a number of Dominants commented that their favourite toy was their brain. This to me is the only real answer. It is with my mind that I can understand what truly excites you, scares you, makes you tick, etc.
In terms of a favourite toy to administer pain, then mine would have to be my teeth. There are many ways to use your teeth. You can gently run them across your partners skin whilst kissing her body or face, or softly close them over a large area of skin to give the sensation of a light pinch or gently pull on a quivering bottom lip during a kiss..... many ways indeed.
The gentleness (or viciousness) of a bite is not determined simply by how hard the teeth are pressed together, in fact, exactly where the teeth are placed on a subs body has much more to do with how much and what type of pain is involved. The great fun is finding how each type of bite is received by her and in particular where bites are most effective.
There is a huge difference in sensation between a large snarling chew on a shoulder or back and a tiny nip around the inner thigh or tricep area and or course, as everyone is different, what one partner hates, the next may enjoy.
The bruises left by bites are not the marks of a flogger or whip, however well crafted, they are an imprint of your own teeth.
That is why bites are best.
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Poly
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May 4, 2006 9:59 am
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Found on LiveJournal:
"Polyamory is to relationships what UNIX is to operating systems; infinitely configurable, poorly documented, and not for everyone."
(actually, I found it in a  ' blog).
I like to take ownership of such things and explain what they mean to me, so here goes.....
I suppose that I should start by saying that it isn't necessarily always going to apply. I still hold out hope of meeting 'the one', falling in love and living happily every after. That said, maybe there will always be a poly element ?
What polyamory is not is probably a good place to start. It is not sleeping around, cheating on your primary partner, etc.
What polyamory is is somewhat confusing as the above (geeky) definition highlights. What it is for me is as follows:
1. Being able to manage more than one relationship.
2. Being open about the fact that I may from time to time have more than one relationship.
3. Allowing / encouraging my partner(s) to have multiple relationships.
4. Not prioritising one relationship over another.
5. Seeing relationships as just that, relationships, not a series of one night stands (although I do nto rule out the possibility of a one night stand in the right circumstance).
It really isn't for everyone. It requires a huge amount of openness from both parties. Consider how difficult it is to manage one relationship and then multiply it by the number of poly partners you may have and then factor in the fact that poly is not for everyone so there will undoubtably be further confusion.
That's all for now folks....
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Musical A-Z Part 5 (R-U)
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Apr 12, 2006 9:57 am
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Musical A-Z Part 1 (A-C)
Musical A-Z Part 2 (D-G)
Musical A-Z Part 3 (H-K)
Musical A-Z Part 4 (L-Q)
Radiohead
Rainbow
The Ramones
The Red Hot Chilli Peppers
Otis Redding
R.E.M.
Lou Reed
Damien Rice
Lionel Richie
Smokey Robinson
Tom Robinson
The Rolling Stones
Diana Ross
The Rubettes
Run-DMC
Carlos Santana
Joe Satriani
Savage Garden
Scissor Sisters
The Seahorses
Seal
The Searchers
The Sensational Alex Harvey Band
The Sex Pistols
The Shadows
She Wants Revenge
Showaddywaddy
Carly Simon
Paul Simon
Simon & Garfunkel
Nina Simone
Frank Sinatra
Skunk Anansie
Slade
Slipknot
Sly & The Family Stone
The Small Faces
Elliott Smith
The Smiths
Soft Cell
Soul II Soul
Space
Spandau Ballet
The Spice Girls
Spinal Tap
Dusty Springfield
Bruce Springsteen
Squeeze
The Squirrel Nut Zippers
Edwin Starr
Status Quo
Stealer's Wheel
Steely Dan
Cat Stevens
Sting
The Stone Roses
The Stranglers
The Stary Cats
The Streets
The Strokes
T-Rex
James Taylor
Tears For Fears
The Temptations
10CC
Thin Lizzy
Travis
The Troggs
UB40
Ultravox
U2
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Musical A-Z Part 4 (L-Q)
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Apr 2, 2006 11:10 am
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Musical A-Z Part 1 (A-C)
Musical A-Z Part 2 (D-G)
Musical A-Z Part 3 (H-K)
KD Lang
Albert Lee
Peggy Lee
Led Zepplin
John Lennon
The Levellers
Jerry Lee Lewis
Little Richard
Lynyrd Syknrd
Sarah MacLaughlan
Paul McCartney
Kirsty MccColl
Madonna
The Magic Numbers
The Mammas & The Papas
Manfred Mann
Manic Street Preachers
Bob Marley
Dave Matthews
Me First & The Gimme Gimmes
Meat Loaf
John Mellencamp
George Micheal
Mili Vanilli
Kylie Minogue
Joni Mitchell
Moby
The Monkees
Matt Monroe
The Moody Blues
Gary Moore
Morcheeba
Mckinlay Morganfield
Alanis Morisette
Van Morrison
Motorhead
The Move
My Life Story
Willie Nelson
New Order
Randy Newman
Herry Nilssen
Nirvana
The Nitty Gritty Dirt Band
No Doubt
Oasis
Ocean Colour Scene
Sinaed O'Connor
The O'Jays
Roy Orbison
Pearl Jam
The Pet Shop Boys
Peter, Paul & Mary
Tom Petty
Pink Floyd
The Pixies
The Pogues
The Police
The Polyphonic Spree
Iggy Pop
Portishead
Elvis Presley
The Pretenders
Louis Prima
Prince
Prodigy
Public Enemy
Pulp
Finlay Quaye
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Musical A-Z Part 3 (H-K)
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Mar 24, 2006 3:03 pm
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Musical A-Z Part 1 (A-C)
Musical A-Z Part 2 (D-G)
Half Man Half Biscuit
The Happy Mondays
Ed Hardcourt
Steve Harley
Ben Harper
Rolf Harris
George Harrison
Isaac Hayes
Hayseed Dixie
Bobby Hebb
Jimi Hendrix
Benny Hill
Hole
Jools Holland
Billie Holliday
The Hollies
Buddy Holly
John Lee Hooker
Hot Chocolate
The Housemartins
The Human League
Janis Ian
Ice T
Billy Idol
The Indigo Girls
Insane Clown Posse
INXS
The Isley Brothers
The Jam
James
The Jacksons
Jet
Billy Joel
Norah Jones
Tom Jones
Janis Joplin
Scott Joplin
Joy Division
KC & The Sunshine Band
Kasabian
Chaka Khan
Johnny Kidd & The Pirates
Killers
BB King
Carole King
The Kings of Leon
The Kinks
Lenny Kravitz
Kula Shaker
I await your suggested additions.
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