The edge of a bliss
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Jan 1, 2011 3:10 pm
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excepted from my Collaborator's Adult FriendFinder profile, October 2010:
I actually get turned on at the thought of pleasing a woman for hours and NOT cumming. It's almost like an aphrodisiac. It builds over days so that in a week my horniness, testosterone and cum has reached unbearable levels.
And then maybe there is the girl who can give me the slow caress of shaft and balls, who pushes that pent up orgasm to another level of "almost there". Don't let me cum....take me to the edge just like I did you......feel me and know when I'm right there.....and then back off.
When I did this to you, I could hear your breathing stop...you held your breath and your eyes glazed over and rolled back into your head. You wanted me to go faster and let you have the explosion, but instead I slowed, and kept you there. And when you finally took a breath, I resumed the pleasing and slowly brought you back to the edge over and over. Where does this skill come from? I'm not sure.
So few people have it, I've found one woman who could feel her partner and know when was enough, too much, and not.
[Note: Confirmed he was writing of me before posting; to do otherwise would be an assumption of vanity]
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The Tormentor
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May 15, 2010 9:07 pm
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My Results from a 4-Variable Kink Test
Dominant, Accomplished, Sadist, Psychological.
You are: The Tormentor. . Remember that old joke? "What did the sadist do to the masochist? Nothing." You are the sadist in that joke. You know that some folks need some pain in their life to feel right about their place in the world, and you've come to excel in giving them that pain. It's not about sex at all, unless messing with their genitals is what will make them suffer; it's about the understanding that there are people who would rather be humble than arrogant, and who feel the need to have someone keep them in line so that they don't get happy enough for it to go to their head. You know that sending certain individuals into "subspace" with a proper regimen of abuses does something for that person's psyche that they need as much as more conventional individuals need love or sex or any other form of self-satisfaction. You take great pride in their ability to get them there, and would never squander your gift by using it on anyone who didn't deeply need and desire such treatment.
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Two Guys (for every girl) by Peaches
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Jul 13, 2009 8:04 pm
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Come over here hot boys don't you worry i'm nice
have you ever heard of the woman named heidi fleiss
i got a lusty proposition that i know will suffice
let me lay out this condition that i know will entice
i wanna take you home get you satisfied
drugged out sexed up however you fly
just one thing i can't compromise
i wanna see you work it guy on guy
i wanna see you boys get down with each other
i wanna see you do your lil nasty brother
just one thing i can't compromise
i wanna see you work it guy on guy
two guys for every girl
once you boys get started you'll be at it for hours
come on boys i know your not damn cowards
just remember an ass is an ass
so roll over have yourself a blast
don't get me wrong i'm not afraid to lap up the venus
don't get me wrong i'm not afraid to fill up my back
don't get me wrong i'm not afraid to be a wet freak
but its time for the brothers to take a pass
two guys for every girl
working both bones and i'm not in the set
i'm waiting while white your lickin suckin getting a sweat
just when you realize there's nothing left to regret
move on over number one's about to rock it
i'll slink in when you boys are in a french knot
we play a game its like your gonna get caught
that's the time you're gonna get so damn hot
you wanna see my pussy pop pop pop
i'll be hitting bottom you'll be blowing your top
hittin bottom blowing your top
hittin bottom blowing your top
hittin bottom blowing your top
two guys for every girl
no no no baby i ain't carrying mace
did you feel something just spraying your face
he's covered in marmalade
he's covered in marmalade
he's covered in marmalade
he's covered in marmalade
slappin your dicks all over the place
rubbin that shit all up in your face
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I saw Peaches at the Henry Fonda Theater, June 6th 2009
what is Peaches?
prior to seeing the show, i would have said, a musician.
(i had heard some of her music but wasn't familiar with "her.")
having been i can't tell you what peaches is, you'll have to see/hear yourself.
from wikipedia (a first step in knowing something but not the last word in knowledge)
Gender identity is one theme of Peaches' music, often playing with traditional notions of gender roles representation. Her lyrics and live shows consciously blur the distinction between male and female
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Vanilla with Kinky Sprinkles
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Jun 12, 2009 12:41 pm
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Originally posted to my adultfriendfinder blog May 12, 2009.
Vanilla sex.
People write about it, they complain about it, they're tired of it. They don't define it.
Based on what i've read, it means "the same ole thing." It refers to activities that become routinely regular, often regulated, and feel restricted. Vanilla is "two people having sex/making love" and one of them is bored.
BSDM, "alternative activities," groups, public, threesomes, anything; can, over time be as limiting and lust-less as what the majority of people classify as "vanilla."
It's not the lack of variety in positions, clothing/shoes, number of people, location, toys/props, orifice choice that make sex bland.
Sex becomes or is boring when people are limited by what they think is possible to achieve WITHOUT those.
Vanilla is delicious soft served, hard-packed or twisted. and ultra decadent when it's French. Sprinkles are festive and colorful; they aren't very tasty by themselves.
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"My other daughter is a sub."
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May 10, 2009 4:47 am
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This post title is brought to you by the memory of last year's Mother's Day conversation.
I obligatorily phoned my mom to acknowledge the Day set side for Mother's, without knowing what to say, [what does "Happy _______(anything)" really mean after all?]
I don't mind recognizing/celebrating holiday and other "special days," deemed "special" by others. Baptism, Bris? sure. Maid of honor? plan the bridal shower, pay for travel and a dress? of course. ♥ halloween? I deplore it, and i'll be in costume at the party you invited me to. It won't be "sexy," that's for everyday.
Calling attention to the event is easy, it's the Obligatory conversation that ensues i can't abide. I say, "mom, i hope your day is happy or will be for a few moments before it's over. How's it going so far?"
She says, "it's all good, just sitting here."
That's my clue to ask if my siblings called and what they spoke about.
Last year, I beat them to the phone. Mom, really was, "just sitting there."
I decided to tell her I'd be visiting Las Vegas again soon. She knew about the earlier trip of the person (alt member) I saw for 6-weeks in the beginning of the year. 2008 was looking, to her; the Year of the Date.
She said, "You seem to like this one okay. Where did you met him, on-line?."
"Yes."
"Match or one of those dating sites?"
"No, not quite. I'm exploring some ideas about sex that aren't mainstream. At their core, all adult social site are about finding someone's whose your "match" for whatever the reason. What's weird is that on match/harmony sites sex is hardly mentioned and the site i'm on, people seem to think kinky sex transcends liking or knowing the other person."
"I don't know, what are you looking for?"
"Well, mom, actually my interest is specific. Have you heard the terms B/d or D/s? BDSM? Kinky sex? Fetish? Or of women that take the lead, sometimes called a dominatrix"
"I've seen some of that on the TV. Not my thing, me and your dad are just fine."
"Ask dad, maybe he'd like to be finer. Anyhow I am not what you seen on TV. I don't carry a whip or have slaves. Remember when I wanted to be sex therapist? I'm still interested in those things."
"Well, you always were bossy."
"Bossy? Why bossy, why not willful and determined? I think you say bossy because I'm female. Anyway, i was thinking you might like 'My daughter's a Domme' t-shirt for mother's day. Would you? Would you wear it?"
"No thanks, that's okay. This call's enough."
END OF MOTHER'S DAY 2008
MOTHER'S DAY 2009
I reminded my mom of last year and offered her the alternate t-shirt; "My other daughter's a sub."
Luckily, she declined the gift because I neglected to run it by my sister.
Is my sister a sub? I couldn't tell you, and neither could she. As she said after reading my profile, "you always were confident. it's cool you're doing this and meeting people. You know, I don't think too much about sex or much of it either."
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Safe, Sane and Co-creative
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May 4, 2009 3:41 pm
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SOMEONE ASKED ME THIS QUESTION:
When the doors are closed, and you are alone with someone, just where are your limits?
MY ANSWER:
Standard rule is his limits are my limits. Standard rules are for ordinary times. Exceptions are allowed for the extraordinary ones; when we're creating something that has no name, because it had no form until then.
You can't put limits on things you didn't know existed. I'm not pushing his limits/boundaries, we've soared above them. It behooves me to think outside of my box.
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Jockey retired/Unicorn seeks Pegasus - (updated profile)
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Feb 22, 2009 1:01 am
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POSTED SPECIFICALLY FOR STANDARD MEMBERS.
STANDARD MEMBERS, my blog is your entry portal. ALT shackles all but the most headstrong, wily standard members into submission (of a credit card), simultaneously pressuring metal (Au/Ag) members to "permit" (pay for) standard members' messages.
I did the math, and reworked the equation.
Standard (or any) member if you comment on THIS post, it will be private. It's the same as emailing me, except free for both of us. If you, Standard (or any) member, are reading this, and smiling; we might have something in common. The joy of figuring out how to succeed by playing within the rules; often coming from behind to take the lead AND keeping it.
Not only can you write me, via the POST A COMMENT function, you can also attach a photo. Comments and photos are private (or should be, if the blog options are operating correctly). You may want to post a test comment first.
Now everyone has the same opportunity to separate him/her/TV/TS self from the herd.
2.21.09
NO LONGER Jockeying/Unicorn seeks Pegasus
Those are mythical creatures. That is a fantasy.
My profile is about an idea I want explore (again) with another person. (not a FWB = "I fuck a stranger, frequently/regularly").
I do not consider myself a DOMME starlex "term me on" which means i don't think of my partner as a sub or a slave (happy 200th birthday President Lincoln).
I'm not the ride, fellas. You are. I don't take you to FantasyLand, we're travel partners.
Long Ranger and Tonto, Silver's ancillary.
(Colt translation: Batman and Robin, Batmobile's ancillary).
*Fan colts: May 1939, Batman with "the car," April 1940, Robin.
It's 2009, this is my version, not Mr. Nolan's. Keeping the 'mobile, Robin's riding shotgun.
will i be gentle? why I won't fuck you, even if you ask real nice FAQS on Phallus info sheet (coming soon!)
starlex is loaded with answers and PHOTOS.
Want to join my network? Kudo me. Or write a note and include a photo of your face. Either, or. One is compulsory. Instructions were in my profile, at the end. Subs/slaves that respond to or understand verbal commands only are grossly under qualified to serve in a wired world.
Or write html to help me format - ALT's is broken (again).
The profile (post: MY PROFILE ON THE OPEN RANGE) is (still) accurate as well as misleading, dense, complicated and lengthy. A few thousand of you said it's a good read too, thank you.
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Poetry in Motion
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Nov 11, 2008 2:37 am
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If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.
IF your wish was my desire, i'd give you a try.
meeting openly, not on the sly.
mouth hunger swells, unbuttoning your fly
feel my cock against your thigh?
grab my ass to urge me inside,
rock hard and horny, every thing NOT shy
we blend, we reform, hover above high.
a place of being, without the why.
i'm writing poems
not riding ponies.
THUS
your wish to try "IT" is NOT reason (enough) to ride you.
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Archived Auto Reply (9.18.08)
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Feb 21, 2009 11:52 pm
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(Auto reply typed on 9.18.08 retired on 2.21.09)
hi,
i look forward to reading your note and learning about you. i will reply if i think you understand what I'm seeking, and that you're applying for a possible available (grimace) opening. i know where i stand. On retrospect the title, "jockeying for position" is misleading, gives the impression i'm racing forward and knocking aside the other dildo-wearing mistresses to get at your sweet hole. that's not really the case, is it?
if i haven't replied within 14 days, your email was crass, riddled with typos, a form letter and/or you didn't read, understand or dismissed the qualities i seek in a partner or failed to understand "whip, slick and dick" ditty means I don't "hook up" for NSA or the proverbial "fun time."
Reaching out to a stranger is gutsy, not receiving a reply is rude, continuing to plead your case unacceptable. Recycling the note you sent previously, thinking i won't notice or you can't recall who you've written (or spammed) is lazy and laughable.
proofreading and editorial comments accepted without bias.
happy trails.
ps.
If you've invited me into your network please include a note and a face photo.
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My PROFILE on the Open Range
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Sep 2, 2008 10:01 pm
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Jockeying for position behind or above you/WHOA there
Updated 9.15.08, rev. 6 scroll down
You are feisty, hard-to-train, hung like a human, never been broken or ridden hard but never well. I'm confident, articulate, toned-to-muscular depending on the part, witty, professional (oops, employed), candid and thorough. Several years ago I was in a long term relationship that included fucking my guy and other activities -- usually described by consonant clusters.
Subsequent boyfriends were not interested or willing to let me mount them. Felt that it wasn't reasonable to insist because its primarily a mental turn on for me, one that can fuel my fire not light it. Currently, I'm single and ready to giddy up.
I think describing strap-on in equestrian terms is a fitting analogy. The thought of "making you my bitch" - tough, defiant, assertive (too much so) is a phrase that's never felt natural. I looking for a "mount," not a goddess worshiper, bottom, slave; slut is optional. Horsey stuff is much more tasteful and has potential to move beyond dildo, ...crop, reins, gelding, blinders, bits ....currently, ass play, taking the lead on the d/s trail is my foremost interest.
This post is about my desires, other activities do not stimulate me like this one does. Willing to consider your preferred training methods, if they coincide with my end goal.
A note on safe sex: "sometimes" comment in profile. If I'm cantering along the mouth-to-rear trail, it's usually bareback. Reversing the route requires the proper tack.
I strap on a cock, I don't think with it. My mind makes the decisions, not my groin. Compulsion to whip, slick, and dick it; eliminated. Make a note of this distinction before your penis volunteers your ass.
MY IDEAL PERSON:
In my fantasies the man has the body (penis size optional) of gay porn star with a little more hair on the chest and legs.
I'm attracted to intelligent, witty, compassionate passionate men. Muscles are appreciated, facial hair isn't... lean, tall...are you a model with a Mensa card? A water polo player with a published novel, or a blog on Slatecom? It's what works for me - the team captain/commander of the battalion/fireman/construction worker masculine type.
A guy who's confident enough to let me do my thing without doing anything to me. One that is able to admit his desire to have his butt slammed until the finish line. A gent who realizes it's not humiliation, it's pleasure.
If he's hetero, he's secure with his sexuality, won't be compelled tell me he's not gay. I'm wiling to throw a leg over gay, bi males, straight men who play with guys, straight men that like women who were guys, and men who prefer ladies with ovaries.
I tend to be drawn to colts. It's exhilarating to teach them to take the bit, understand the subtleties of reins; then, and only then, break them into the rhythm, without breaking their spirit. I like their friskiness, tight, hard bodies and curiosity about the trainer.
Concessions have to be made to accommodate reality, and the reality is mental and physical attraction are crucial. I can't do you to do it, it must be rooted in desire. You should be attracted to me as well, not just my cock or my ability to use it. Don't lower your standards to get your ass filled, it's really not a compliment to either of us.
Yes, personality counts. If your photo adds 10 lbs, a weird shadow and shallow skin, then flaunt your stuff (not your cock) on your profile, AND/or email.
If you write to me, please make sure your profile is filled out or contains more than two sentences. If it doesn't, then describe yourself to me in your email, flesh yourself out. Wanting to serve is not a description, it is a desire. A list of adjectives isn't a definition; use them in sentences. Why do you think we might we get along?
I wrote a short essay, I won't reply to haiku.
Enclose a face photo, you've seen mine, well I hope you did, it's located north of my cock.
Maybe I'll see you on the track.
UPDATED 5.17.08
Based on the number of responses received, I've struck a nerve or a gland previously ignored, forgotten or newly discovered. Knowing my profile left an impression, is a compliment to my writing skills, or perhaps it's the topic itself.
Clearly, posterior play would benefit from a marketing campaign. Ass does NOT mean gay. If that were true then men who have or fantasize about having anal sex in a women must be gay - why chose the bum over the puss?
MANIFESTO:
Should I probe your rear I won't assume you're queer.
Lacking a prostate gland, mine is no man's land.
I don't sport f***and try to resist the temptation of trophy f***ing. The typical rules apply - attraction, shared interests besides this one, ability to communicate off the keyboard; a connection of some type. A "serious" relationship status is not required for me to strap in, however, i'm seriously selectively in choosing partners.
No married or attached or involved men. My definition: You have a valid marriage license. You live with a woman, share a bed. You are engaged. You see the same woman/ts/man once every 10 day or less, and have done so for at last 3 months.
You should have some experience (self-exploration counts) with ass play - your own that is. Know how to ensure it's good CLEAN fun.
Currently i'm riding my photographer - the better photos are his work. He posed and shot me for 10 hours, strenuous but fair; i posed him the previous 6 days - away from the camera.
My collaborator lives in Vegas; I'm either under exercised or overdoing him. I considered myself a one mount per season jockey.
Willing to explore stabling a local stallion without the desire to prove i can. This Southern California-based creative collaborator possess the fundamental ability think and converse on subjects in addition to our cocks and his desire. He uses spell check.
Revised 09.15.08
If you found my pictures to be "an outstanding contribution from a community member," say it with KUDOS, click KUDOS up right on my profile (naturally, this option is not available to standard members) and follow instructions. I'M NOT SOLICITING FOR COMPLIMENTS, i am recommending a delivery method.
If a picture is worth 1000 words, then my Profile is worth 2 photos, if you read it more than once KUDO it, if it helped flesh out your fantasy, KUDO in accordance to effectiveness.
Give your kudos away to those you think deserves them. Don't squander your votes (on Alt or in Nov.), make them count. Why not play it forward? Kudos will catch her or his or their attention. It's a positive proactive gesture, eclipses the "flirt" and stimulates the alt-economy. Bucking convention is only slightly less empowering than fucking unconventionally.
This clue was buried in my profile for 3 months. I thought it'd be shortcut to identify those that i thought best understood what i wanted.
I'm wandering off-profile. I've lead you to my cock, can i encourage you to think? i'll be at starlex playing with ideas, letting them run free.
*if you have standard membership, send messages through blog comments, they are set to private.
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