Thunder in the Mountains!! Denver Here i come !!
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Apr 16, 2012 5:04 pm
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I am sooooooooo stoked!! Thunder!! one of the most awesome BDSM events....Its going to be great fun! im going with a super close friend, i have known her for many years and she lives there so that's bonus too! hang out and shop and then event time  I can't wait! soooo are YOU going?? it would be nice to meet my acquaintances from alt at the event. It's going to be fantastic fun *all smiles here*
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What i won't settle for.
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Feb 7, 2012 7:52 am
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It was time to update my profile and since not all viewers are able to see profiles i decided to post a blog.
It has always been my hope and desire that a Sir will come along and decide i am what he desires and wants to have and own to enhance His life and thus my happiness in my destiny complete in Your ownership and service.
What i decided is to list just what won't work for me concerning ownership to a Sir.
First and foremost, IF any Sir or Man takes an interest in me first it means taking time to actually know me, know me in my everyday life, including past/present that makes me who i am just as that would apply towards myself knowing You in order to bring You happiness and pleasure. These are essential before i will ever submit or obey a demand, command or task You decide to request of me. In other words, Foundation before the home.
Things that will not work with me:
1. No, i do not want to have to train the Man i be with how to be a Sir.
2. No, i do not seek a Sir that swings both ways or lists curiousty in T's, Tv's, cross dressers or any trans gender. (If you don't get what i mean ask.)
3. No, i do not seek a Sir that can not respect me, care for me as his or that does not consider me anything more than a piece of furniture.
4. No, If you can not hold a job or have goals.
5. No, If you are married or have a girlfriend.
6. No, if you are not thoughtful about your hygiene, decent appearance are grossly hairy or obese. (not to be crude here but if you are less than average as in very thin or small endowed) hmm well....(sorry but a mouth doesn't replace a nice cock.)(Thick is a bonus)
7 No, if you only desire fantasy on line cyber, post rediculous pics of your naked parts! We see and learn from our original selves first, clothed and sincere.
8. No, if you demand i be bisexual (I bond with females that are sincere, fun, and genuine, in a friendship setting, not sexual.)Not all of us enjoy loving it up with another female.
9. No, I'm not looking for anyone for fantasy cyber or just a cyber fling/good time. The instant online only cyber Guy isn't going to work either.
10. No, i am not desiring to Top/switch with my Owner, a girl can speak respectfully and with permission and still be intelligent which does not mean she is trying to be the boss. You know?
11. No, I do not seek to be in a poly oriented household or relationship
12. No, to any type of feet play, sucking, fucking etc. I am not a bacteria lover.
Please, lets be real? if your head is semi balding and you have that god awful strip of hair you are hanging onto for dear life? just shave your head for god sake! bald is sexy!
I would hope to find a Sir that cares about the important things. Yes we as a submissive find it very important to do and give all we can to bring You happiness, pride and comfort but we are also human and long to be loved, to know you care enough to teach us, guide us and discipline us if necessary.
If you do not desire Your girl with You in a LTR built on the dynamics of love, mutual respect and caring, ideals and goals well then you are not for me.
Now i realize nothing is perfect or set in stone but all the basics have to be there although there will always be things that are not necessarily inclusive.
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Anti Female? This b,s. of Death to Females, Really??????
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Sep 15, 2011 11:46 am
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You know i have been around this site a long time and within the lifestyle many years, yet never seen pathetic young punks that don't understand the dynamics of Man and woman, Male/female.
The interactions and places we fill within a lifestyle that is precious for some of us (apparently), and for some that just do not have a freakin clue and never will. Little boys trying to be Men and don't have the vaguest understanding about respect or the meaning of Man/woman and dynamics of D/s or BDSM.
I have absolutely no respect for any Male or female that believes females are less than and i know you get my meaning! If its that you really don't get it? that you truly can't see? are blinded by stupidity and your own self importance? well, i guess it shows how little you really know and considering it was a female that carried your pathetic self within her womb till birth and raised you with love and care. Get the picture?? Get a life little boys and girls.
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Dominant, are you, or are you Not?
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Jun 25, 2011 1:24 pm
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I am opening this as a Blog post for anyone to post ideas on the topic I'm going to discuss below.
During my time both r/t and here online I was trained in a lifestyle group that is both pan-sexual, S&M and D/s. I was trained to Top and also as i am now a submissive and then as a slave. My training was structured and took a couple of years just to learn is it truly a part of me or just a kink or fetish phase. I was also taught to keep an open mind.
My point here is more and more online and in Fet and Y and a few other forums, also some r/t i see more and more that there is Men that claim to be Masters/Doms but all of sudden i see a flux of them switching or bottoming.
I guess I don't understand this, A Master/Dom is just that and true to the nature of a Man like this or Woman, they don't switch.
If you are a switch then yes, as a switch you can Top or bottom. So in truth If in my mind a Master/Dom/Domme is truly that then they don't bottom or sub to anyone, anytime. This is what i firmly believe and how i was trained.
I realize a lot here in cyber online is nothing more than fetishes and fantasy and sought out kink or fetishes a person for whatever reason cant incorporate into there r/t lives but it just really makes me wonder every time i click on a profile and it is a supposed Master/Dom all of a sudden wanting to sub or bottom.
I actually spoke to someone in a discussion about this, the person stating they are Dom but desiring to bottom as he says for his submissive side. He said her firmly believes all Master/Doms have a submissive side and desire to serve. I do not mean this to offend anyone but i had to laugh and call bull chit! I know a few r/t Master/Doms that never ever would sub to anyone and certainly wouldn't serve.
Thoughts and comments are welcome by E/everyone.
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Here is to Life! Hopes and Dreams, Whats Your Dream?
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Jun 4, 2011 9:07 pm
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I recently reflected, my heart hurting over another parting and so it goes. Whoever said this lifestyle was easy? or that things always went well? or even that we would just know things are right without ever questioning? that the O/one we hope to belong to or with is just around the corner?
I myself have found it to have been a long hard journey, more painful than otherwise, yet, change it? change my course? .....not in a million! because even though its been full of disappointments and heartache i continue to learn and grown with each experience.
I think, maybe, just maybe its to help me for the day i finally stumble on that One Sir that is willing to take me as His.
I have a few thoughts and sayings I'd like to share and they are what i feel and think;
Everyone wants happiness;
No one wants pain.
But you can't have a rainbow;
Without a little rain.
Through my eyes they will tell you the story of my life, if you only knew how to read them.
We may not speak in the same language, but sharing love, understanding and "FRIENDSHIP" knows no languages.
Thank you for reading this, hopefully its something that will help you reflect on the blessings of today and tomorrow.
I actually decided to write all this due to some memories that were brought back to me and yes i cried because they were days i was carefree, days i never thought of that would be gone or that we would grow older and those that were part of our life then are gone, and so i cried.
So take heart, we can hide and run from pain or those that hurt us but why?, each moment counts, each memory should be treasured for tomorrow its gone and the sorrow within our depths can be paralyzing to our soul.
We cry for our lost youth, the past days that bring tears to our eyes now because we passed the chance to treasure that moment which is now a distant memory. You will look in a mirror one day and say; why didn't I dance, smile and continue to love even though the rain clouds were bursting.
Your thoughts are welcome if you care to share *smiles*
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Interupting a Scene
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Oct 10, 2010 8:33 am
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You know its pretty bad when a room Owner/Mod feels its okay to come in their room and interupt another persons scene just because they are the room owner or mod.
Anyone in the lifestyle r/t has been taught proper manners regarding this topic.
In a room regardless that this is cyber online, manners still go a long ways. (Be here as you would in r/t)
Would we do that r/t? just for that persons own interest? absolutely NOT!.....
Then be threatened to be banned because my focus was on my scene and not the person interupting??
Well have a care when you are in Useless fuckmeats room since apparently they do not care about others during scene or not.
Here is the lovely email i recieved from the room owner and one interupting during my scene with Dakota Sir;
ignore us again in our room n u r banned understand.answer mail saying u understand
theMaster n Jen
Now isnt this nice? Whats your thoughts?
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All in the name and flavor of bdsm
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Aug 26, 2010 8:43 pm
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Okay, yep that big deep sigh and the blast of; If i see one more fat ass, exposed cunt, filthy open ass, fat hanging tits and everything obscene we see on this site one more time!!! lol!!!
I have to say come on people!!! do you really think it looks good? that people really care to see your nasty thangs?....it gets very ugly and very old, the old adage of once you have seen one, you have seen them all. Sooooooo true!!
Folks!! your obscene pics are NOT about bdsm or M/s or D/s, get a clue!It only shows you are a piece of meat up for the taking and that isn't lifestyle oriented.
Anyway, just had to do the rant on this cause it seems with time that things get uglier and more vulgar and obscene.....most i find without taste and certainly not appealing.
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