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LushiousM 40 F
5 Articles
Score 0.0
True test   1/30/2024

I get a lot of messages. subs declaring undying love, devotion. Quite often wild and unachievable offers. However, the true test is when they don’t get the response they wanted. Many become abusive. Which just reaffirms my initial instinct was correct. When a sub accepts the message they didn’t want to hear, and remains polite and courteous. I feel a fondness towards them. M x


0 Comments, 9 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
LushiousM 40 F
5 Articles
Score 0.0
Alt Flowers   1/27/2024

I like submissive men. I like the power I have over a genuine sub. I like subs to attach flowers when the message me. The flowers generate points so I can upgrade to Gold without having to pay. I’m upfront about this. It’s amazing how many guys then think I’m a scammer. I’m not a Pro Domme, but I like to be spoiled. Where are all the old fashioned subs who understand the privilege of ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
dpdavid 77 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
does this site allow posts for real meets dates   12/3/2023

I want/need a date with a female to go to the theatre to see the chinese show shen yun. in january london am sure if it did it would bring more members in, call it real dates personal meets, am sure some one on alt could it set up, I can, t be the only one, who would like to find a real mate or wife, girl friend, am going to try a post on my blog,


3 Comments, 42 Views, 15 Votes ,0.38 Score
Springfiel117 43 M
18 Articles
Score 0.0
Meh   10/10/2023

When did the messenger stop letting new members message people using points?


0 Comments, 41 Views, 39 Votes
AbstractSkies 55 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Not a date but,   9/17/2023

I saw this article and had to post something aboutone dating experience, I will keep it brief. Some years ago, while enjoying a Jack an Coke at a favorite bar/club I went to. I was at the bar chatting with a buddy who was bartending that night when a petite blonde cam to bar to get a drink, right next to me. <br><br> Surprisingly she started conversation first, " Hi ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 11 Votes ,0.92 Score
Cuminmymouthmmm 55 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Exploring   8/25/2023

Do you want to explore in person or online?


5 Comments, 91 Views, 20 Votes ,0.95 Score
RinBoots 71 F
27 Articles
Score 0.0
Bondage play   8/10/2023

A photographer contacted me and wanted to take some private pictures, he was into leather, PVC, Boots and Bondage. He had seen my profile and pictures so he sent me a request to meet.


0 Comments, 47 Views, 30 Votes ,0.20 Score
tony_blair1000 67 M
3 Articles
Score 0.0
Any romance from here?   7/17/2023

Have any people actually met -- had sex -- and then carried on a relationship from this site? Or is this merely a hookup site?


1 Comments, 48 Views, 35 Votes ,0.33 Score
RockStriker84 38 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
tips   7/16/2023

what are good dating tips?


1 Comments, 31 Views, 26 Votes ,0.01 Score
RinBoots 71 F
27 Articles
Score 0.0
Not dating   7/7/2023

This site not dating just dated and not used!


0 Comments, 34 Views, 23 Votes
Lovemenasis 47 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Looking to get fucked   5/13/2023

Looking to hook up


0 Comments, 43 Views, 16 Votes
doggytreat32 54 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
dirty   4/27/2023

i like to find a mature dirty lady that thinks out of the box and like to get wild and kinky and is looking for what is new.


2 Comments, 37 Views, 28 Votes
Dom4dayzz 42 M
6 Articles
Score 0.0
Awkward date story   11/29/2022

About 15 years ago I was talking to someone here. We had great chemistry online and a lot in common. We decided to finally meet in person at a restaurant. When she got there she didn't say a word the entire time. When we left she immediately texted me and apologized. She said she was too intimidated to talk


2 Comments, 126 Views, 93 Votes
jthpbigck84 37 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
dating   7/13/2022

Anyone have any good date stories they would love to share?


0 Comments, 307 Views, 281 Votes
barryj43 80 M
24 Articles
Score 0.0
Attractions   5/4/2022

Curious what makes you drawn to someone else. There are people into daddy types. Others like chubby types. Other into much younger people or skinny even their personalities. There are many other thing that make one attracted to someone else. Tell us why you are drawn to another person.


2 Comments, 159 Views, 145 Votes ,0.06 Score
VeeElle 51 F
1 Article
Score 0.0
Phantom Hand   11/7/2021

The first time a man wrapped his hand around my throat during sex I had two immediate reactions. <br><br> First, I stifled a giggle. It was a combination of a defense mechanism and shock because this man did not seem like the type to do that. We had not discussed it prior to the act and to be honest, I did not view him as someone who could dominate me, much less someone to whom I ...


9 Comments, 199 Views, 125 Votes ,0.51 Score
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


7 Comments, 700 Views, 632 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


1 Comments, 544 Views, 508 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


3 Comments, 472 Views, 430 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


1 Comments, 397 Views, 371 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


3 Comments, 395 Views, 356 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


4 Comments, 435 Views, 383 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


1 Comments, 377 Views, 329 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


1 Comments, 270 Views, 251 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


2 Comments, 175 Views, 160 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


2 Comments, 172 Views, 157 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


1 Comments, 106 Views, 97 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


1 Comments, 50 Views, 47 Votes
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


1 Comments, 11 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
Boomerbust 55 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
Eye catching   8/31/2021

What kind of picture catches your eye in someone's profile? What features stand out to you?


1 Comments, 10 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
Dominmd115 61 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Catfished   8/29/2021

Has anyone been catfished here? How did it go?


1 Comments, 16 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
Pid4sir 23 F
1 Article
Score 0.0
Fuck meat   7/7/2021

sexy little busty slave for daddys fuck meat and house maid


5 Comments, 56 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
satyrp 76 M
22 Articles
Score 0.0
Isn't It Odd That Nothing's Changed?   5/11/2021

The meat market cruisers still gonna cruise. The one-night standers still not gonna commit. The Lonely Hearts Club desperates still gonna mope and whine they can't find love. WTF? <br><br> Just because you're into kink (or not) do you think real on-going relationships are impossible for you? Are you willing to invest a little bit of real you for some long-time loving? Are ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 39 Votes
JTHPBIGONE69 39 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
DATING and HORNY   4/5/2021

who would love skip all the dating an get right to the fucking?!


3 Comments, 18 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
jtpbigck69 39 M
4 Articles
Score 0.0
horny and looking   2/10/2021

its hard date when ur horny and trying good on the first date lol


1 Comments, 12 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
jtpbigcck69 39 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
Dating   10/9/2020

Any have some good dating stories that led to a good night?


1 Comments, 38 Views, 35 Votes
JTHPBIGCK2 39 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
Dating when always horny is hard.   7/11/2020

For someone like myself who always needs it, is hard to just date without fooling around right away. Do any of you deal with the same thing?


0 Comments, 28 Views, 18 Votes ,1.76 Score
JTPBIGCK3 39 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
Its hard dating now   7/2/2020

Tough times with this virus, what u guys doing in meanwhle?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 8 Votes ,0.93 Score
RTDomDaddy 58 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Why Are There More Subs Than Doms?   4/27/2020

In traditional “vanilla” dating scene women far outnumber men but in the world of D/s the opposite phenomenon seems to exist. Even when comparing pretend Doms to actual Dominant/Alpha males the disparity persists. At the same time, there appears to be an increase in Fem Dommes. So why is that so one may wonder? <br><br> The answer lies in the same explanation as to why women, in ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
QSNmytom69 58 M
2 Articles
Score 0.0
Her Sisters suprise   3/25/2020

So back when I had just turned 30 my company moved me to the office in the big city. I was fine with that my GF and I had just broken up and I hatted my apartment so off I went. I was there a couple of months had not really met anyone yet outside of work so I went to the local bar for a drink one night. That is where I met Steph a petite EuroAsian very attractive and friendly. We sat in a ...


3 Comments, 118 Views, 37 Votes ,0.70 Score
Hhfhhfghh 33 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
How do I get a date   11/8/2019

So my question is how do I get a date and build a relationship with a tranny


2 Comments, 73 Views, 56 Votes
danafina 30 F
1 Article
Score 0.0
My first   11/2/2019

Seeking man for my first bbc


0 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Ainsworth4 30 F
3 Articles
Score 0.0
Fuck & Full Night Enjoy   10/31/2019

Need to change it up I’m getting tired of the same bullshit routine with my husband every day. The , the responsibilities, cooking and everything else. I need it to just go away for a few hours. Anyone want to fuck my brains out and me here? Totally no commitment! Contact me now:http://alt


5 Comments, 46 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
ArtEroticMagic 59 M
2 Articles
Score 0.0
finding a real girl   9/26/2019

looking for a real girl for a live in situation..


10 Comments, 42 Views, 19 Votes ,2.33 Score
strictdom4u22 50 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
Fakes   8/16/2019

Is it me or am i not alone here.... i keep getting female subs and slaves all set to meet and never show up


7 Comments, 120 Views, 80 Votes ,2.04 Score
dog4milfs43 41 M
2 Articles
Score 0.0
looking to meet   7/21/2019

when getting to meet someone in the internet its always good to get to know. what there interest is and what they looking for sex fun or friendship. always always have the date set up have everything plan out for the date, dont expect for her to pay for anything you ask her out you pay. and always make eyes contact with them thats what is very importand for a woman to get to know you by eye ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
jtp8469 39 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
DATING AND HORNY   7/12/2019

Dating while being real horny and want to dominate the fuck out of her!


7 Comments, 64 Views, 40 Votes ,3.40 Score
pdiba123 26 F
1 Article
Score 0.0
i am sexy girl looking for a men   4/16/2019

Hi...iam a sexy girl


1 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Peg_Me_Please89 30 M
4 Articles
Score 0.0
Advice for serving a mistress   11/4/2018

What advice would you give to a sub that wants a mistress? What is the best way to have fun with it? What can I do to please her? Are there many mistresses out there that aren't into financial domination?


13 Comments, 103 Views, 46 Votes ,3.88 Score
billgw31 45 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Dating guide   8/20/2018

Your Ideal Date description is where you can describe what your idea of a good time is. Would you want to go to a bar or concert or meet up in a park and go for a hike? Try thinking about the things you like to do for fun and if it’s something you’d want to share with someone special.


3 Comments, 41 Views, 25 Votes ,3.35 Score
BBCBully1 54 M
3 Articles
Score 0.0
Interracial dating, and the fun within.   4/12/2018

I've traveled the world looking for kinks that I like, and mostly all of them come from interracial relationships. I've even had a sex date that was interracial. All I had to do is show up, drop trousers, get sucked, get pulled into a tight pussy, and get squirted on. Where would I find something like this close to home? Some of the women outside of my race are curious about the size, but ...


3 Comments, 47 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
SwitchnymphoSz 52 C
1 Article
Score 0.0
Found something wicked hot!   3/20/2018

I Never thought I would find such a great positive match as I have. Talk about the odds of finding a compatible switch with a similar sex drive within a acceptable amount of distance who actually shows up to meet and you get along with wow I feel truly blessed. Most of what I have found is subs claiming to be Doms, vanillas pretending to be whatever just for a hook up or scam artists trying to ...


9 Comments, 82 Views, 21 Votes ,5.60 Score
antreas2015 39 M
6 Articles
Score 0.0
hello   2/3/2018

hello


1 Comments, 29 Views, 12 Votes ,1.03 Score
4rwl233 43 M
14 Articles
Score 0.0
looking   1/31/2018

i am looking for someone that is willing to explore and try new taboos willing to do anything and become a slave. i keep searching and every woman is different some its there favorite kink some is just a fantacy some want to explore. i am looking for someone that is willing to try and do kinky nasty dirty thing to try and keep doing it;


2 Comments, 23 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
sexxixslut 43 F
1 Article
Score 0.0
is there any love   4/18/2017

truly master and slave should be one thing of trust, love and care but i do not think that is what we are seeing here, most of the men here are just here for fun and only games , is it that they have been hurt? well who knows, we still keep the search on to find the real ones.


10 Comments, 102 Views, 25 Votes ,4.24 Score
Brandalynna 34 F
7 Articles
Score 0.0
Do Real Daddy Doms Really still here looking for long term.   4/6/2016

I have been on here many years I mean I am not one for games or just sex as BDSM is based on love and trust. I no everyone does things different but respect is one and manners I am just not in to the one night stands may be for others but Us that are looking for long term they need to fix the filter. Alt us to be Different years ago.


17 Comments, 292 Views, 56 Votes ,6.93 Score
slave17xx 74 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
Places To Meet, Cafe's, Pubs, Clubs, Dungeon's, etc.   12/20/2015

Hi there, I was just thinking that it would be nice to have a select directory of places where people can meet and practice their preferred activities together, either discreetly or not. So if you know of anyone willing to rent their playroom, dungeon, garage, garden shed, doggy kennel, stable or whatever, then get them to post it here, for everyone to see.

Post also businesses with ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
TieYouSpredNaked 72 M
12 Articles
Score 0.0
Wearing A White Undershirt On A Dinner Date   11/4/2015

I ate at Applebee's tonight. Applebee's is not an expensive restaurant with a dress code.. But they are not a fast food restaurant. Applebee's is a nice place to take an opposite sex partner for a first date. or many times.

I ate at the bar. like I always do. I saw a couple also drinking and eating at the bar. The woman was dressed well., but the man was wearing a white undershirt. the ...


4 Comments, 144 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
kirstyglave 34 F
1 Article
Score 0.0
kirstygee   10/31/2015

24 36'd's 12 dress average size girls only


2 Comments, 124 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
sexyhotwet3 32 F
2 Articles
Score 0.0
let's hook up   11/24/2014

im sorny right now


3 Comments, 235 Views, 20 Votes ,5.42 Score
SirDDprincess 47 C
3 Articles
Score 0.0
DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE DATING   8/24/2014

JOIN THE NEW DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE DATING WEBSITE ONLY £2.14 A MONTH!!! http://alt.com


0 Comments, 46 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
Tall_Hottie128 36 M
5 Articles
Score 0.0
Long Term   8/6/2014

Just curious if many people find long term lasting associations on here, or if it's mostly flings?


1 Comments, 55 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
SirDDprincess 47 C
3 Articles
Score 0.0
FREE MEMBERSHIP   7/2/2014

http://alt.com DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE DATING FREE MEMBERSHIP


0 Comments, 75 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
moondog22233 64 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
TIED, TEASED AND PLEASED! ANYWAY YOU LIKE IT   7/21/2013

ONE KNOT SNUGGED TO HER RIGHT WRIST ONE TO GO. HER BREATHING BECOMING HEAVY!! NOW THE LEFT IS SECURE, HER NIPPLES ARE HARD AGAINST THE GATOR CLAMPS!! HER PUSSY WET WITH DESIRE. NOW IT'S HER TIME TOO SCREAM OUT IN PLEASURE, TO SHOW HER PLEASURE SHE ONLY DREAMED ABOUT BEFORE!!! BRUNO


1 Comments, 77 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
DCLaxGuy 44 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Catfishing?   1/17/2013

So, with the Manti Te'o thing all over the news (must be a slow news week), the term Catfishing has come to the forefront of American vernacular for the moment. I've met (or really, haven't) several "Catfish" on ALT.

How do you react to these poseurs?


0 Comments, 44 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
6296118 31 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
miss u so much   5/19/2012

life, life, life.ooh i feel like am no where, full of remembrance and dreams.Baby where are you? ooh baby i miss you alot. Every day an night i always think about the treat me, the way you suck my penis, the way i put my penis in your Virgina, miss that all now May i see you again or some one who can treat me more than she doesbhead;


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Brandalynna 34 F
7 Articles
Score 0.0
my new Group Stepford Women/1950s lifestyle any one can join.   5/9/2012

please join and enjoy.



-stepfordbride


2 Comments, 133 Views, 17 Votes ,4.68 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
Seaside Romance   10/25/2011

So this Navy Seal goes to this House in Dan Diego California and get a date with Sunshine. She looks at him in this uniform and asks him what does he want in the mouth in pussy or in the ass, he shakes his head and takes to wet suits out of a bag and says get in his and make he hard and cum.


0 Comments, 36 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
Pretty Boy   10/6/2011

The Beverly Hill Out-Call Dataton received a call from Bill Gillespie f0r an To Knights of Malta Annual Men’s Chief Meeting Convention. He needed a handsome to attend the Secret meeting of California’s highest decorated Police Chiefs at the Beverly Hill Hotel. Gay was thirteen, ID-ed for eighteen, but still looked like he was twelve with a clear complexion; incent baby famine face, golden ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
What Police do while dating   6/9/2011

The Police Academy Picnic was to be held on Fire Island N.Y. N.Y In the Red hot August summer sun, the Aqua waves of the afternoon tide rolled the Silver spray of the salt sea in, as the blenders churned lime Green sherbet and vodka Dacs’ into ice slushy’ as men in Blue stripped to their Black brief swim trunks, stark naked Policewomen adjusted the old Yellow VCR Camcorder down upon ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
Hot Night   5/5/2011

Tony the Marlow, had to fix up Senator Arrowbrim, with Black Bertha, he couldn’t stall him anymore. Black Berther loved his request, however wired it was figuring whitey like that all had to get their little white candles fixed. So that afternoon before leaving she ate fifteen and half, bean burritos. That night Senator Arrowbrim came eight times, as 300 hundred pound Bertha sat on his face and ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
TomBonow 75 M
61 Articles
Score 0.0
Zelda   2/5/2011

Twinkle Toes Officer, what’s my name, I don’t even remember my name, was I good? Honey you were great, you’ll be all right, all you have to do is remember your name is Twinkle Toes! That’s all you have to remember your name is Twinkle Toes! Can I have another drink with you? Sure, no problem. Will you call me tomorrow? Maybe. Maybe, when will I see you again? When I have some time, there ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Mysterious702 50 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
want to meet someone fun   11/14/2010

hi hope this is cool heres call Donny


0 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
saintpj 59 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Am I bi   8/20/2010

Have so many urges to spend time naked with a t/s ladyboy/shemale to play with. Never had a cock before, what is happening to me am I turning bi or what.


4 Comments, 164 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
teachxuk 43 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Trying to fulfil a fantasy   7/20/2010

Though Im generally Im gay and play with guys, have a fantasy which id love to fulfil which may seem a bit weird, but not sure the best place to seek someone to help me with it. I have a straight male friend 21 who shares my playroom facilities when he has a suitable female to play with. Hes switch and my fantasy is to have a domme female to tie him n use him while im tied n made to watch not ...


0 Comments, 112 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
wolverine91183 43 M
7 Articles
Score 0.0
Dating elder or married woman...   3/23/2010

Since 4 years i have been meeting younger girls for having fun and was enjoying too... recently i have met a married woman who is almost 5 years elder to me but very pretty and well maintained. I never got to try any elder woman till I met her. Since she was married for more than 5 years n met lots of guys, was sooooo experienced and wonderful in bed that i never enjoyed so much with younger ...


1 Comments, 226 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
kap55987 41 M
4 Articles
Score 0.0
need misstress   3/13/2010

hi any one give me advise on getting in contact with a misstress that will totaly dominate me and use me like a sex toy


1 Comments, 94 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
bigmac01 68 M
55 Articles
Score 0.0
Response to an 18 y/o guy lamenting that he can't find any older women interested in fucking him.   2/8/2010

There are millions of older women who want to fuck you right now.

A couple of tips - think of them as people with desires and needs, but who have to be somewhat wary of wackos. Don't act desperate, that is a signal that you are dangerous or an incredible hassle, a bundle of problems.

Few peopls want to think that the only thing you like about them is that they are a plumbing ...


1 Comments, 115 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
ajflax25 34 M
1 Article
Score 0.0
Something about women's assholes...   10/25/2009

There's just something that I love about eating a woman's asshole...the taste, the texture, just knowing that my tongue is deep in her ass...

But it's so hard to convince a new girl to try it. Why is that?

If anyone has any tips...please help me out.


4 Comments, 161 Views, 15 Votes ,2.37 Score
DarkRaven92675 48 M
10 Articles
Score 0.0
The Key Rules of Dating   10/5/2009

No one ever said dating was easy. First dates are awkward, second dates are expectant and the dates that follow that -- during which two people really start getting down to the business of getting to know each other -- present hundreds, if not thousands, of opportunities for missteps, faux pas, blunders and mistakes. That is to say nothing of the myriad chances for problems to which you could ...


2 Comments, 73 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
DarkRaven92675 48 M
10 Articles
Score 0.0
Dating and Relationships: A Question of Compromise   10/5/2009

Compromise is undoubtedly the key to many problems we face. We are so set in our ways that only our way will do. And so arises the great problem in dating and relationships. If only we could compromise, then we would be better placed to find common ground and work things out. I often hear people saying that they will never compromise on who they would choose to date, what their standards are, ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 0 Votes
DarkRaven92675 48 M
10 Articles
Score 0.0
Dating Essentials: Making Eye Contact   10/5/2009

Here is a fact, people don't make eye contact. They should and they do look at each other, but they look away when the other person looks back. Look at the commuters on a subway platform or in a subway carriage. They look at anything except each other. They use devices such as ads and books and papers so that they don't look at each other. Why? Because when we look at each other and make eye ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
DarkRaven92675 48 M
10 Articles
Score 0.0
Single Parents and Dating   10/5/2009

This is a complex subject and I can't do it justice here but I offer some thoughts. Dating single parents should not be the problem it is and things are starting to move in the right direction at last. Being a single mother or father has never been easy when looking for a new partner. You are seen to be carrying a lot of baggage that a single person doesn't really have to take onboard if there ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
DarkRaven92675 48 M
10 Articles
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Dating as a Challenge   10/5/2009

For some people, dating is a challenge. It is a conquest, a crusade and a sport. As you are neither a competitor or a prize, don't allow yourself to be come a victim to such players. Dating is an affair of the heart and should be treated as such. It is fun to date but it is also serious business. However, when we date, it is true that we do like a challenge, we like to get the guy, we like to get ...


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wolverine91183 43 M
7 Articles
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will Would u like to have sex at your first date/meet? especially for girls..   6/20/2009

I have dated many girls through online and other ways and most of the times had sex in first meet.. though many girls don't support this... i really love having sex at first date/meet if the girl is enough good looking... But i prefer to get oral first, for eg. going to a movie n doing some oral stuff like pressing boobs, fingering pussy, getting a handjob etc etc.. is really fun.. what all you ...


1 Comments, 86 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
zulkhibry 38 M
3 Articles
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ATTENTION TO MALAYSIAN GURLS!! AND THE OTHERS GURL!!   5/4/2009

PLS CONTACT ME, IF U DESPRATE LIKE ME TO GET FUCK BY MY SUGAR MAMA'S....PLSSSS I'M BEGGING TO GURL NEAR TO MY REGION PLS....




0 Comments, 32 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Mitzykitten 39 F
1 Article
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New game, new rules... can you guys help?   3/8/2009

I am new in this lifestyle, and I recently started seeing a Dom who lives in a town not too far from me. We met up for a drink a month or so ago, having been talking since before christmas, and got on like a house on fire. I love spending time with him, he's excellent company and very mature in his manner, fun and intelligent and honest, and he's also beautiful, which is nice.

We seem to ...


4 Comments, 518 Views, 24 Votes ,4.72 Score
je65pr 58 M
124 Articles
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Anyone else hate mixed messages?   1/11/2009

I met Karen just a few months after my divorce, about 2 1/2 years ago. She was the first woman I had a date with after the divorce, hell, the first woman I had been out with other than my wife, in 14 years.

I met her on another dating site, and we agreed to go out to lunch. When she walked into the restaurant, I was dumbstruck. Damn, she was gorgeous, 5'4", size 6, dark hair, and blue ...


4 Comments, 223 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
activebdsm1 50 M
5 Articles
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any submissive female in cairo?   11/1/2008

I am wondering if there is any female who is intrested to explore bdsm which i consider the dark side of any lady which is insde her but she did not discover yet . several females thinking that being submissive is something not healthy cause her master would be sadist . i wanna say that there r several ways and style in bdsm.


1 Comments, 109 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
kad20072 43 M
179 Articles
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10 Signs that you might get lucky!   4/9/2008

For many men, one of the most complicated things in the dating game is recognizing if a woman is interested. It is very easy to misinterpret a mere act of kindness as being sexually interested. Making out whether or not she is interested in getting to know you, or if you are close to “getting lucky” that evening can be confusing.

How can you tell when an intimate conversation with ...


0 Comments, 165 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
want2be1978 43 M
2 Articles
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Hey Ladies   1/27/2008

I never do it before.But all of us must try all, what can do us a plesure.I WANT TO TRY ALL......


0 Comments, 37 Views, 0 Votes
sloslaveboy 40 M
1 Article
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any dominant Ladys in europe   1/14/2008

iwould like to speak with a dominant Lady who is ready to take her time to speak with me, while i cant find any dominant women near me i seek in all europe


0 Comments, 32 Views, 1 Votes
kad20072 43 M
179 Articles
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Dating in the age of the internet.   1/11/2008

I often find it funny that in today's day and age of the internet, how the social dynamic of meeting has changed dramatically and the differences just a few years can make. Gone are the days of going out to gathering places hoping to find someone that just might be there as well. In today's age of e-mail, cell phones, text messaging and social pages people have completely flipped the biology of ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
angelabrown 64 T
13 Articles
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switch   10/26/2007

steve and sam were watching tv late into the night sam put her head on to steves shoulders and spoke, we have an office party coming up and i wonderd if you wanted to go, its fancy dress and the theme is switch you no i dress as you and you dress as me it could be fun, steve didnt here sam as he was ingrossed in watching the football highlights on tv, okay he said without thinking, the next ...


0 Comments, 163 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
brian1232 54 M
2 Articles
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burlington vt tgirls   8/9/2007

i was looking for advice to start dating a tgirl or better yet i hope to meet on in vt.


2 Comments, 281 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
missprissis35 55 F
7 Articles
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Response to the money, sex, and sub issue   7/8/2007

I found your article very interesting but what I found more interesting is your claims of knowledge about women/females and the bottom/sub mind. You clearly only understand only two sub types ;”the players” or “ minded”. This is evidenced by your list of "non-desirables."

# Psychotic # Drug Addicts # Insecure # Abused as - do you know how to handle this? # Alcoholics # After a ...


4 Comments, 201 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
fxmaster 31 M
2 Articles
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looking for a kinky girl in nottingham   5/17/2007

i am looking for a kinky girl in nottingham and if you are up for some fun and up for new things th


0 Comments, 19 Views, 2 Votes
manchestermale05 37 M
11 Articles
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Fantasy: Initiation   3/23/2007

- - FANTASY - - FANTASY - - FANTASY - -
My mistress had arranged a small get together with some of her friends, two males and a female, to assist with her initiation of me into the household. She left early to meet her friends and I was instructed in her absence to place a bottle of wine and four glasses out on the coffee table and then stand facing the wall, in ...


0 Comments, 336 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
manchestermale05 37 M
11 Articles
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Fantasy: Initiation   3/23/2007

- - FANTASY - - FANTASY - - FANTASY - -
My mistress had arranged a small get together with some of her friends, two males and a female, to assist with her initiation of me into the household. She left early to meet her friends and I was instructed in her absence to place a bottle of wine and four glasses out on the coffee table and then stand facing the wall, in just my boxer shorts with my ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
CrystalBlaze 40 F
1 Article
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Bad date, to try a second or not to try?   3/3/2007

I was recently on a date that I felt went fine. However, it has come to my conclusion that it did not go as well as I had thought, at least not from the other end. This is based upon the fact that he never called back and never replied to my calls...which did not occur until after 1 week from the first date. Not to know if I had done something wrong so that I may understand and learn from it is ...


4 Comments, 333 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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I don't understand...   1/27/2007

Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through an extremely ...


2 Comments, 302 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
manchestermale05 37 M
11 Articles
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Fantasy: A Good Milking   12/14/2006

A fantasy of mine:

I would be blindfolded and lead into a room. Safely guided away from walls and other such furniture, i would be forced to lie on my back.
The ground littered with soft cushions or pillows, that would mold my form and prevent me feeling the harshness of the floor beneath.
Still in darkness, still on back, once the cushions have ...


2 Comments, 355 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
mohar10 44 M
4 Articles
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The "Love Connection" of the '90's   12/9/2006

Gather your rosebuds out there, in the real world while you may, because tomorrow they will be dying!
It's so easy to think about, and indeed wish for Love! We will all admit that it is a wonderful and necessary thing, yet who here agrees on just what it is. Not I, so I'm going to concentrate on the easy question.
I never did like the concept of computer dating or ...


1 Comments, 233 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
waitingforUmytop 72 M
10 Articles
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How do you get a first date   10/28/2006

Help! I must be doing something wrong! I have had a lot of offers but when it comes down to the meeting they never show up. Could it be that I insist on my home as the first meeting place.


8 Comments, 1373 Views, 23 Votes ,3.24 Score
TwistedInstinct 63 M
11 Articles
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Timid touch ... street training young master   9/29/2006

Timid Touch
Your confidence is what realy does it , your inner self I have said many times is the most important aspect . Not your looks not the bait you own ( your car , house job etc) the bait does a great job attracting the girls but will not keep them if the inner you is not the male herr inner self realy needs . And girls need a confident male , over and over that aspect is ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
sex_demon96 43 M
5 Articles
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Dating your ex, picking up where u left off?   9/21/2006

I you begin to see an ex-gf again, do you think it's implied that you pick up where you left off sexually? Or do you think that things should be taken slow as if meeting for the first time?
Granted a lot of relationships are built on one-night-stands in the first place, in that case would you WANT to take things slower the second time round?


3 Comments, 73 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
sex_demon96 43 M
5 Articles
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Ex's new bf rubbing it in.   9/20/2006

So I guess this is sort of a question for the ladies, maybe even the guys to.
I've recently had a very nasty breakup with a girlfriend of a year or so. Things ended very bitterly. It's now a couple weeks later. We haven't spoken and we seem to have gotten on with our lives. I now get text messages from my ex-girlfriends new bf bragging how he's banging my ex gf in an attempt to ...


1 Comments, 364 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
ashanty10002 43 F
1 Article
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i need am man who cares   9/10/2006

i need a man who cares alot a man that is generous hardworkin g and friendly and kind hearthed


4 Comments, 230 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
TwistedInstinct 63 M
11 Articles
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~NICE TRY ~ 5 FT 10 1/2 INCHES OF HUNCH   8/30/2006

~~ Nice Try ~~ 5 foot 10 & ½ inches of hunch
Hunch , the message of your inner animal , the sub conciuos mind speaking based on all that info it gathers about your surroundings … all the things you at your thinking level of mind yu do not see or understand !! as true hunch is just the feeling! It has not words , , if you feel or thnk about words than it is not true hunch , ...


0 Comments, 310 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
cuminme702 53 M
3 Articles
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Where else can meet asian tv's/ts's or cd's in the uk?   8/5/2006

Does anybody know of somewhere either online or in person where i can meet asian/oriental ts's/tv's or cd's in the uk? There doesn't seem to be too mmany on this site! I welcome any advice anybody may have. Many thanks.


2 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Sirus20x6 40 M
2 Articles
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Where are the scar fetishists?   8/2/2006

I am a 21 year old who has been in a few D/S relationships as a Dom after moving away from vanilla, and I have to wonder where all the scar fetishists are? Well besides Germany and Cali. You would think that me being so close to Chicago I could find a good female sub/slave or maybe even a switch who wasn't so put off by them.


1 Comments, 508 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
B1GPKR 33 M
2 Articles
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busty babes enter   8/1/2006

im looking to meet a sexy busty babe


0 Comments, 117 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
pinkpanties4u 68 T
1 Article
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Why can,t I find a sexual partner?   7/11/2006

I have been in Phoenix all of my sexual days, and have been sexually addicted since before I new about G spot, or anal sex.When I firt remember my sex antics were at the dinner table I would prop my fore arms flat on the table were I could slitly liuft my bottom ever so slightly off the chair.Once at this poinnt I would slowly rythymaticaly sway my thighs, round and round then side to side. ...


0 Comments, 550 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
lewy6969 47 M
1 Article
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what women really want ?   7/6/2006

a question to most mens thought .what do women really want , ladies please answer lots of responces from a variety of different ladies will give clueless men some ideas


1 Comments, 224 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
abdls 37 M
1 Article
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Finding a woman whose interested in trying diapers   6/25/2006

If your not kinky, your just plain and
boring. Spice up your sex life with
diapers!
If your a girl who wants a man whose loving, caring, devoted, kinky, romantic, has a positive future , and would enjoy being diapered together then welcome, im Kevin, and I might just be ur man. I'll love u, cherish u, and if u liked, diaper u forever.


1 Comments, 138 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
dom153 75 M
3 Articles
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meeting place   6/20/2006

When ever I have met folk from alt I have always tried to meet in a safe place but they dont seem to worry where they meet folk never seem to be put off by meeting in car parks why so trusting?


1 Comments, 90 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
TheRookie1985 38 M
2 Articles
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Selfish or Performance Preference   6/19/2006

Okay, I’m a 21 yr old male and I’ve always wanted to engage in a 3some with a sexy little woman and a she-male, to experience the fantasy of being with two women at the same time. While also having the pleasure of DP-ing a woman to orgasm, but here is my concern with this fantasy I hope to one-day par take in.
I love to eat pussy, giving oral pleasure is something that I feel ...


0 Comments, 161 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
lovebombaby 36 F
2 Articles
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my difficulty with finding a man   6/15/2006

It's not hard to find a man who'd wanna date on here. But when I'm not here why does it seem a thousand times harder to find someone? Either they wont approach me because i seem 'unapproachable' or I simply decline because of the usual same reasons. When most men try to talk to me, its either A) They have an asian fetish which most of them do and I would know if every other minute they ask ...


1 Comments, 268 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
purgatory666 53 C
7 Articles
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phantom of purgatory ....   6/6/2006

lurking around the mist of time, haunting. writing my opera with gray ink i find my soul wondering why? the mask upon my face to hide from the human race the true creature inside with visual perseption being your first judge.i have to stop and ask why? is the human race so shallow not to see beneath the mask? creature lurking in the shadows you know the one you will not grasp. or is he ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
purgatory666 53 C
7 Articles
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phantom of purgatory ....   6/6/2006

lurking around the mist of time, haunting. writing my opera with gray ink i find my soul wondering why? the mask upon my face to hide from the human race the true creature inside with visual perseption being your first judge.i have to stop and ask why? is the human race so shallow not to see beneath the mask? creature lurking in the shadows you know the one you will not grasp. or is he ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
purgatory666 53 C
7 Articles
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help wanted! and submisives!   6/4/2006

i am in purgatory and need help from the females and male Submissives i am a 35 year old male and find my self lacing in many area's ( i guess I'm to vanilla with as much sex appeal as a candy , my wife loves this lifestyle and needs both mental stimulation and friendship, playmates .Someone see is proud to be seen with at the bdsm clubs some one to feel the needs i can not. so feel ...


1 Comments, 33 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
SW_CPL2 47 C
2 Articles
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Looking for my first master   5/21/2006

Why I get E mails from all men asked me to meet them without panty .I am not that type
why they did not ask to wear sexy one black or white what they like ? do you have the felling that If I do not wear this I will not be hot , I am exicted already from the Idea that I get an E mail from you instruct me to shave and be ready for your ....
any Idea what is the best to wear ...


3 Comments, 267 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
NibblesNLix 47 M
16 Articles
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Who the hell pays these days?   5/6/2006

I have never really been one to go out on dates. Even as a . I only ever really went out on dates with my girlfriend....I have only been on a couple of dates in which the goal to get to know someone better. I also don't usually date girls I haven't already had sweaty jungle sex with! I usually meet girls at parties or cafes or the laundromat (something about those churning machines...) ...


0 Comments, 285 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
dynamitesneonaty 41 M
11 Articles
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Anyone give me the best BROAD SPECTRUM relationship advice?   4/13/2006

I've had two long long term ones back to back, so I'm really out of it. Anyone who wants to give me for assistance would be good.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 0 Votes
jaddedgragon1 53 M
8 Articles
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why are we so closed minded?   3/5/2006

trying to trans-end the bounders of the social order and childish sexual amusements of the opposite sex . is a trifling impossible task in the DBMS life style on a quest for self growth and brighter futures to have something incoming with someone i find my self stumbling and hitting my face , from social rejection with a self exerted , superficial , closed minder to a outsider .who is ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
alcazar15 60 M
2 Articles
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Angel   2/12/2006

Fiona was the most beautiful of all the angels in heaven. she had long, brown hair, a tan body and supple breasts. Fiona was also the most beloved of angels. She had taken a vow of chastity and given herself fully to the Lord. Fiona was perfect. <br> But one day, on a trip to Earth, the devil saw her beauty and kidnapped her. <br> "She shall be mine, " he said. "all ...


0 Comments, 240 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
bubaby6 54 F
58 Articles
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Protected sex   1/29/2006

It's okay to *READ* stories about unprotected sex with others outside a monogamous relationship. But it isn't okay to *HAVE* unprotected sex with people other than a trusted partner. You only have one body per lifetime, so take good care of it!


3 Comments, 287 Views, 16 Votes ,4.89 Score
15575 58 M
2 Articles
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FF   1/18/2006

Looking for Woman, that loves to use a' tight ass + a' lot more.I'm living in Denmark, but do travell a' lot in my Work. Hope you vill write to me !


0 Comments, 59 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
domcouple11 49 C
12 Articles
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DOMCOUPLE   1/8/2006

YOU WNAT PAIN!!!!


0 Comments, 310 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
bdsmnn 53 M
18 Articles
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my   1/8/2006

Happy New Yera!


0 Comments, 67 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
JustTellMe1982 41 F
1 Article
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First Date Sex   1/4/2006

I recently met this guy and we talked on the phone for 5 hours, about regular vanilla stuff. I am attracted to him as a person. He's deep and rediculously intelligent. A bit of a book worm, based on his looks, so I am probably the hottest girl he has ever been aproached by. Our first date was amazing and we ended up in his apartment. His kiss took my breath away, I lost all control, ...


4 Comments, 524 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
suckU1entslave 61 F
4 Articles
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Please date me, I'm a !   1/4/2006

I had a revelation the other day. I was looking in the mirror, and damn, I look like a man in drag. Then I looked down and saw the deformities that some call breasts. I thought about my behavior of late: since I have no class, and no real gentleman would want me, what else could I do but appear naked on this site? And even though I have at home, I thought it was ok to make videos of ...


7 Comments, 736 Views, 29 Votes ,5.45 Score
scotty6976 47 M
4 Articles
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STRESSING!!!!!   1/4/2006

no matter how hard i try, no matter how many winks i send or how many people i add to my hotlist nobody will view me!!WHERE AM I GOING WRONG??!!as a standard member i know that its going to be more difficult getting people to look at my profile but people do manage it.i would put it down to me just being a boring ugly git but as people arent viewing me at all then im going wrong ...


6 Comments, 301 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
stephany1963 60 F
7 Articles
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first meeting   1/2/2006

Ever wonder what goes though a transsexuals mind when they end up getting a date from this site? Well, let me tell ya! First, your mind starts thinking "oh shit, what am I going to wear", then the closer to the meeting time, it doesn't really matter what you have closen because you know it will be wrong. You wonder what will happen or how far will you go on the 1st meeting, will you submit ...


0 Comments, 190 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
mrcleannow 58 M
3 Articles
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No strings attatched sex for honest clean cut guy   12/11/2005

I am a married man who is looking for some extra spice that is different then what I get at home. I just want to be able to meet and make a lady feel very sexy and fullfill her sexual desires without having to answer to a man or have a relationship with one person. I am open minded and looking for some extra spice. Any ladies out there able to give me that extra spice?? Drop me an email and ...


0 Comments, 386 Views, 0 Votes
zjpd02 57 T
3 Articles
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New to this scene   11/18/2005

At heart I am an exhibitionist slut wanting more action. Please look at my profile photos and let me know if I look sexy or should give this up. For those interested I have an album with more photos.


5 Comments, 485 Views, 18 Votes ,2.99 Score
poppylolly 40 F
1 Article
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am i too much?   11/11/2005

i am submissive sexually but have an overall assertive demeanor. i went out with a dom the other day and had a great time but he said that dating someone like me would take though. is there anything wrong with being who you are? note that i do like more along the lines of forced so my demeanor may seem more goaled at that.


3 Comments, 258 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
TawneeKitaen 43 T
16 Articles
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Pumped to Ecstacy   11/8/2005

Oh goodness!!! I just found out recently this month how much sexual stamina my new man, Jeff, has in him. On our second date, he brought me some sexy black silk and lace undies and made me strip off my red satin minidress dress & put on a black satin teddy and garter belt with them. The black seamed stockings he also provided were held taught against my shapely, firm legs by the garters. I ...


3 Comments, 647 Views, 35 Votes ,7.47 Score
willingandable8 55 M
10 Articles
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stood up   11/7/2005

being stood up is a terrible thing you think its no big deal but all your doing is fucking yourself out of fun time and when you say your coming over and gonna call and never do its like telling me im getting some and lieing to me


0 Comments, 95 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
BrattyGRITSgal23 41 F
1 Article
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Never enough Discipline   11/7/2005

I set out of the door for dinner with my date that I have yet to meet in person. I have on my kinky red shoes and pants and low cut shirt. Of course I know he is into rope bondage and spanking. And of course he most certaintly knows that I am a stubborn bratty sub. There will be no skirt the first time, he's gonna have to guess how I look and feel under those pants. We meet and kiss and ...


8 Comments, 634 Views, 21 Votes ,3.13 Score
fucknhorni 64 M
5 Articles
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why   10/23/2005

do women think that we guys are just out to fuck and then forget them ? in my case of late it is true , but in times past i would be a gentleman /use my manners and not be forward i, d wait if i had to but most women never bothered to accept a 2nd date , so i said "fuckem and forgetem" it works for me anymore but with women being born 7 to 1 man you, d think women would ...


0 Comments, 95 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
Nephew2005 37 M
7 Articles
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And the best way to woo women is...   8/31/2005

Forget expensive presents or costly jewelry. Wining and dining is the best way for men to woo women. <br> Researchers at Imperial College London developed a mathematical formula and modeled courtship as a sequential game to find the best way to impress the ladies. <br> Their results show that offering an expensive present signals the man's serious intentions but he must be ...


2 Comments, 220 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
TiggerWMA47 65 M
1 Article
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Transgender Dating.   8/20/2005

I'm out of the Fresno California area and I have no Idea of where to find a transgender friend to have fun with in the local area of central ca. Any advise would be great.


1 Comments, 278 Views, 1 Votes
sandiego92115 59 M
5 Articles
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Local Play Time in San Diego   8/12/2005

Contact me with your interest and all will be given more info on the "Local Play Time" party in San Diego. As far as type of people that will attends, only men looking for men. The rest, well you can look at my bio for an ideal!


0 Comments, 57 Views, 3 Votes
mr_wigglesstyle 41 M
1 Article
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DATING ON ALT   5/29/2005

WHATS THE LONGEST U DATED SOMONE OFF THIS WEBSITE, OR HOW FAR DID U TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP


3 Comments, 357 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
KittyGolightly 46 F
3 Articles
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Assholes   5/2/2005

I may have the answer to the age old question… why do women fall for assholes/only seem to want men they can’t have? Because it’s not a choice. You can’t choose who you love. And oftentimes, men do not reveal themselves as assholes until you really get to know them, by which time, you’ve already been shot by Cupid‘s arrow . Women who are very self aware can realize that they ...


7 Comments, 1010 Views, 34 Votes ,5.22 Score
Maledom52 71 M
2 Articles
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Got past the four messages   4/5/2005

Hello to all there. The new year has been grand, to say the least. Finally got together with the woman who was sending messages. Yes, it seems that there are things that do come up in one's life. And discretion in this lifestyle is definitely needed, and sought! Patience is a virtue they say. We finally met, and let me tell you, shw was worth waiting for. Quite a woman, quite a sub, and ...


0 Comments, 128 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
BrendaB 65 T
7 Articles
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What do you do when it happens (T's)   3/28/2005

The first time I transformed this issue came up my friend who I had know for years made comments about she-males he knew that I was changing one day it did come up sex of course, this was from someone who would never be gay in the usual sense strange but true gays aren't attracted to T's maybe a bi male oddly it is straits who decide they want a T. I guess we are the 3'd sex are not stuck ...


0 Comments, 289 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
Masterx1948 76 M
1 Article
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Please !   2/1/2005

Hi! <br> I beg all of you who receive mail to answer it, even though you not interesting in further contact. Then we got an confirmation that you received the mail. I will also inform you that I still seeking a female slave, a slave by heart. <br> Thanks Masterx1948


1 Comments, 304 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
sweetheart77 49 F
9 Articles
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Watching erotic time   1/5/2005

Does anyone else feel shy about their body, and performing in front of others? Is it something that one gets used to? my shyness is very appealing to my Master and He doesn't want me to lose it, but i wish that i wasn't always that way.


3 Comments, 409 Views, 35 Votes ,3.59 Score
devotenixxe 49 F
1 Article
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Doctors need   12/27/2004

I seek, men who like to be a doctor, who like the sam things, which i need. Its very diffucult to find dominant ore sadistic men, who love medical also.


4 Comments, 560 Views, 29 Votes ,4.44 Score
Scotsmanusa 45 M
1 Article
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Transferring from online to R/L dating   12/20/2004

I believe the online to r/l transfer to be a huge turning point in ones status in the lifestyle. Whether it be B&D, D/s or S&M - coming out of the closet (meaning online to r/l) is a huge step. For one to do this I believe a support group of local clubs, meetings etc. is essential and the support (in my case of local Dom/mes and subs) is extremely beneficial. What do you think about ...


1 Comments, 155 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
sweetheart77 49 F
9 Articles
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Family meetings with Doms   12/19/2004

i have a question about introducing ones Master to meet their family. my Master is such a wonderful loving Man, what if i call Him Master in front of them? Is this a common problem for subs? How do O/others deal with it?


4 Comments, 421 Views, 30 Votes ,3.24 Score
trollboy 40 M
3 Articles
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Searching 4 my 1st mistress!   12/17/2004

Ive been interested in S+M and D+s for a long time. However, being young means i hav struggled to find any mistress willing to show me.i need to see how far i go and wat i can take.im very interested in spanking and strap-on sex.i live in orpington(near london and bromley)and i am willing to travel within london.if u wish 2 contact me, my email is ALT.com im begging you 2 guide me through ...


0 Comments, 138 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
Razorbldromance 37 F
1 Article
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New to the site   12/15/2004

I, sometimes, find dating to be pointless. I am old fashioned in the sense that I wouldn't have "a friend with benefits", yet I hate the title that is added to dating. It only seems to add more complications to a relationship. <br> I know that I could easily have a "Fuck buddy", but I'm not exactly ready to go into that, if ever. I like to know the person and have equal respect ...


7 Comments, 412 Views, 38 Votes ,3.24 Score
mugshaw86 32 M
1 Article
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Looking for a date in holland   12/11/2004

Hey I'm looking for a date in Holland, I'm looking for girls, woman or couples... I love bdsm, so please mail me if your intrested. <br> i'm also looking fot a cyber mistress. So please use me. ALT.com


0 Comments, 63 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
enchanteddreams0 46 C
13 Articles
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Just give up   12/10/2004

Just give up, why try anymore. Ive been looking for that extra somone to add to my life. Where is she. Ive been searching all over this country, from florida to washington state. yet no one. on this and all other web pages like alt.com all there is, is spam, or fakes, somone who wants to play games, or someone who isnt looking at all, but say they are. All I find are people who sound ...


0 Comments, 130 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
sexxyplaytyme 43 F
1 Article
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MEETING THE PEOPLE YOU WANNA MEET   12/7/2004

I HATE MOVING TO A NEW TOWN, THERE ARE NEVER ANY PEOPLE FUN TO MEET. EVERYONE SAYS THEY ARE REAL BUT VERY FEW PEOPLE SHOW THEY ARE. I AM A WHITE FEMALE AND MOVED TO PALM SPRINGS ALMOST A YEAR AGO. I LIKE MY BLACK MEN AND IT SEEMS THEY ARE SCARCE HERE. I LOVE MEETING WOMEN TO BE FRIENDS WITH OR TO HAVE SEX WITH. I AM A HAPPY PERSON AND WISH EVERYONE WOULD STOP PLAYING THESE GAMES. LETS ALL ...


2 Comments, 234 Views, 36 Votes ,2.89 Score
stefany 52 T
2 Articles
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meeting a mistress   12/6/2004

i'm a 33 years old tv from holland are there any mistress who make me her maid/slut i like to wear latex, corsets, short skirts. i'm into forced feminisation. you can mail me on ALT.com love stefany


2 Comments, 442 Views, 35 Votes ,4.30 Score
tom2303us2 63 M
2 Articles
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Older lady   12/4/2004

i would like to find an older lady for sex , not the BDSM sort of thing you see on here every day , but kissing , a cuddle , petting , mastubation , or normal vanilla sex .OK a little bit of bondage or a little spanking would be nice .but mainly i seem to be developing a fetish toward older ladies. now I'm no toy boy (50 next year). are there any older ladies on this site? is any one over ...


0 Comments, 114 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Individuals Who Date Others Who Don't Value Them   11/21/2004

We are all ultimately in charge of how we allow another individual to treat us. If we don't set limits and expect others to honor our boundaries some won't. Relationship patterns also come into play here. If during our cognitive shaping years we live in an enviornment where we are cared for and nurtured we grow up with healthy self esteem and expect others to treat us well. If we grow up ...


3 Comments, 570 Views, 90 Votes ,6.65 Score
DRGINGER 72 M
2 Articles
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re: why women date jerks   11/16/2004

It seems since women (and men) grow up in a patriarchal society (US) that deep down they are taught to expect to be denigrated by men. From personal experience and discussion with a few women they are attracted to men who treat them badly (verbally and physically). Men who are considerate, intelligent, compassionate and basically kind are relegated to be "best friends". Hopefully in my ...


3 Comments, 161 Views, 29 Votes ,5.85 Score
lebaneseslave 44 M
1 Article
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if i meet mistress i will suck & lick not talk   11/9/2004

hello evryone here i ant to say i'm happy coz i be member here in this site.


1 Comments, 200 Views, 33 Votes ,3.88 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Players & The Games They Play   10/24/2004

You recieve an e-mail from someone on alt. After viewing their profile, you determine that they are someone who you have enough in common with to explore the possibilities afforded two people who desire to explore a connection. After answering their e-mail, you get a response back. One thing leads to another and the two of you opt to meet in real time. This is where things get interesting. ...


7 Comments, 209 Views, 80 Votes ,5.05 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Re: "I want to be in Control!"   9/28/2004

If you want to be in control, first you must have control over yourself. As the recipient of one of your name calling smarmy commented letters after being honestly and upfront told that things would not click, you replied with a barrage of insulting comments. He that cannot control himself and was previously told under no uncertain terms not to waste my time and theirs, should perhaps ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 11 Votes ,6.72 Score
S_she_S 54 F
36 Articles
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Re: "I want to be in Control!"   9/28/2004

If you want to be in control, first you must have control over yourself. As the recipient of one of your name calling smarmy commented letters after being honestly and upfront told that things would not click, you replied with a barrage of insulting comments. He that cannot control himself and was previously told under no uncertain terms not to waste my time and theirs, should perhaps ...


3 Comments, 146 Views, 43 Votes ,8.15 Score
withatwist8 57 M
1 Article
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why women date jerks   9/22/2004

can anyone tell me why breath taking ladys go after the jerks who treat them like trash ? anyone


3 Comments, 100 Views, 13 Votes ,5.49 Score
sirhalley 65 M
2 Articles
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Can a dream become true   9/20/2004

Well I am trying to date some asian woman or shemale cause my dream is own a collared asian slave but seems that also if I am pone to recive as guest or I can wait longer periods before ask her to travel to Italy nobody is interested.... <br> can it be a real culture difference or is juts a wrong approach? I wish have some suggestion thank's to all of you especially to who have ...


1 Comments, 194 Views, 22 Votes ,0.24 Score
Aplayisaplay 55 F
2 Articles
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I've got balls   9/18/2004

Alt has been such a sheer pleasure for me to get my jellies off. Most thrill seekers here don’t even know what the BDSM acronym stands for! I have been on a couple of dates and the most impressive comment I got was…I like you because you have the balls to say what you want done to you. I’ve only said a couple of sentences before I was asked to stop because I was giving him a hard on. ...


2 Comments, 230 Views, 26 Votes ,4.10 Score
JakBlak 62 M
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I Want To Be In Control!   9/15/2004

I want or too vanilla for some. I believe there is a Lady on this a relationship where My Woman knows her place & is willing to get in it. I guess that's just plain old-fashioned site for me, that is more "the Lady in the streets" scenario and she knows who she belongs to and is loyal & good opinion is a strong one. obedient also. So I don't think anyone is really trying to put off ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 17 Votes ,0.86 Score
puppet_maser 47 M
4 Articles
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croatian girls   9/11/2004

croatian girls from all over the world should contact me, I, m alfa and omega of BDSM in all of Balcans


0 Comments, 58 Views, 18 Votes
facedownarseup 59 M
3 Articles
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Re: Advice to achieve slavery   9/5/2004

Before you get married ... <br> You owe it to yourself and to your future mate to be as open and honest about what you expect sexually and otherwise in your marriage. Don't "wait" for someone to get the hint, or sit on the sidelines and "hope" some piece of magic happens and SUDDENLY your mate gets it - TELL THEM NOW. <br> If you want to be his slave and serve him in ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 26 Votes ,7.99 Score
femmeplay101 42 T
1 Article
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tv looking for a girlfriend/playmate   9/5/2004

are there any girls interested in fooling around with a cute tv?


2 Comments, 99 Views, 23 Votes ,3.71 Score
taketurns3412 79 M
1 Article
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If U want her to fall in luv!   9/2/2004

IF U WANT HER TO FALL IN LOVE… <br> I WAS TAUGHT THIS WHEN I WAS IN THE USAF THE GUY WHO TAUGHT IT TO ME(MIKE GOODMAN) LACKED 1 SEMESTER OF HAVING HIS B.A. IN PSYCH. MIKE WAS FROM NY CITY AND IMPRESSED THE HELL OUT OF A DAVENPORT IA LIKE ME. HE HAD BEEN A “SPOTTER” FOR A GAMBLING PLACE IN THE CITY AND THE BOY COULD MAKE A DECK OF CARDS TALK. ON VARIOUS OCCASIONS I SAW ...


0 Comments, 131 Views, 29 Votes ,3.74 Score
Cocosilk69 50 F
6 Articles
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Re: If one having a slight disibilaty prevent a relationship   8/30/2004

I have a disability (above-the-knee amputation), but I have managed to meet people who are kind, caring, compassionate and couldnt care less if I had one leg or three. You just have to be patient and you will find the mate who will overlook your minor incapabilitys. Being honest up front about your disability is important, as I have learned from a previous experience that not being ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 19 Votes ,7.34 Score
ladytuaca 50 F
3 Articles
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Please READ profiles BEFORE responding!!!   8/30/2004

When someone is looking for something or some you are NOT, it is not personal. It is just not YOU that they desire. They are also likely NOT what you desire. Do you really want someone who wants someone else and NOT you? <br> So please read profiles, before responding. Not doing so is extremely rude, self-centered, and disrespectful! Is that really the first impression you ...


0 Comments, 112 Views, 65 Votes ,6.99 Score
Boytoy335 39 M
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First Date questions   8/18/2004

When meeting someone on this website, or others like it; How does it differ from say a date with a stranger? <br> I've let to meet someone face to face, but I keep thinking that I'm not going to be able to keep my mind on talking, insted I know a lot about this person both physically and sexually. <br> Anybody have an advice or stories?


1 Comments, 66 Views, 39 Votes ,5.52 Score
goodtimes42083 40 M
4 Articles
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Havn't been having any luck   8/9/2004

I havn't been having much luck with alt. I was wondering if anyone had suggestions in order to get more activity and more fun nights. So far all the girls I've met have been crazy or I just wasn't interested. I'm just trying to meet a cute thin nice girl with a hell of a sex drive! What should I do????? Any suggestions?? Either reply or send me an email. Thanks, Mike


0 Comments, 103 Views, 29 Votes ,4.34 Score
neek19 41 M
1 Article
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Could you help me out of this closet? It sucks in here.   8/5/2004

Hi there. Im a twentyone year old guy living in the berkshires looking for a guy between the ages of 21 and 30 to drag me out of the closet Iv'e been living in my whole life. Im available and am seriously seeking some one to share myself with. I must admit Im a little aprehensive. Im looking for a soft Dom with a lot of compasion and a big heart. I see myself as being loyal, loving and easy ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 24 Votes ,5.63 Score
zelda99 54 F
1 Article
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re: disability & dating   7/21/2004

She is the one with a disability. Physical disabilities like yours are minor - mental disabilities like hers are truly a problem - her problem, not yours! Move on and don't give her a second thought....


0 Comments, 23 Views, 31 Votes ,4.20 Score
MPLSTopman2002 48 M
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RE: If one having a slight disibilaty prevent a relationship.   7/17/2004

She was an ass and should not have accepted the date with you. I had to wrie as I too have a slight disability and have had similar experiences. However, I have been involved with a greater number of peoplee who honestly could not have cared. My advice is just keep your chin up. She knew she was treating you badly so you should have ignored her like you did. Good luck in future dates!


0 Comments, 71 Views, 26 Votes ,7.45 Score
jenny48 71 T
1 Article
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Looking For A Real Time Relationship!   7/9/2004

Hi I am a submissive hot and sexy crossdresser insearch of a Dominate Female and I am having little luck finding anyone interested Iam really a very nice person just a little kinky and fun.I hope to find someone someday and hope for a lasting relationship.Please contacr me if interested.I promise you wont be disappointed.Love Jenny.


0 Comments, 121 Views, 35 Votes ,5.70 Score
LIVEDREAM22 51 C
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Making contact with swingers like Us!!!   6/29/2004

Hello there, this is LIVEDREAM22 we would love to make conact with those of you out there that share the same interests that we do. We are Semi-new too this and sure would like some help. Swing by our profile and see what you think people. Hope to hear from you all soon. <br> Keep it hot and erotic people, L and T


1 Comments, 39 Views, 27 Votes ,2.71 Score
Slave_H 46 M
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Requests for the next date?   6/14/2004

I finally found a cool DOMME!! <br> For our next encounter, she asked me to give some suggestions on a setting. <br> As we'll make a couple of pictures to be posted here, your proposals would be good for you, too <br> Any suggestions? <br> If not, it'll be some usual DOM/SUB setting, maybe something with male secretary... <br> ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 26 Votes ,6.05 Score
koji10003 43 M
1 Article
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i need real relation   6/12/2004

hi my sweet girl how r u ? i wich u r what i need , i looking 4 true realtion love, frinds, or sex as what u like to do


0 Comments, 23 Views, 28 Votes ,3.24 Score
unknown_guy17 37 M
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re: relationship w/ some one younger.   6/3/2004

well if she contacted u first, then there shoudln't be a problem. have u guys traded pics yet? if u have then she must like what she sees in u, and vise versa. but if u haven't, then maybe u guys should chat over the phone. see where she wants to go with u, relationship wise, and go from there


0 Comments, 47 Views, 49 Votes ,4.80 Score
Master_of_cyn 61 C
5 Articles
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Re: Best Place to meet new people   5/29/2004

If you are in to BDSM then just do a google search of BDSM Munches with the name of your city or the closest city. You can also google BDSM Clubs <your city> Look at the calendar of events and attend a local Munch. A munch is where people interested in BDSM gather at a restaurant for lunch, dinner or drinks just to chat and get to know one another. No Fetish wear is worn since ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 61 Votes ,9.19 Score
brian352004 54 M
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Relationship with someone much younger.   5/20/2004

I've been talking to a girl online...but she's 15 years younger than me (I'm 36 and she's 21). Does anyone have any advise, good or bad experiences...etc. Any advise would be appreciated. Also, she is the one who contacted me first...so she must like older men.


0 Comments, 41 Views, 62 Votes ,7.27 Score
brian352004 54 M
19 Articles
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Long Distance.   5/20/2004

Do long distance relationships work? I talking with someone who lives an hour away...who also has small and cannot travel. A few of my past relationships were "weekend only" types. We would talk 3 or 4 times a week and spend weekends together...it lasted you 6 years. Does anyone have any ideas on how to make long distance work?


1 Comments, 116 Views, 51 Votes ,6.79 Score
kset2kx 51 M
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Best places to meet new people   4/28/2004

I am a single guy, 31 years old and all of my friends are married with . I am not into the bar scene so where is a good place to meet new people.


0 Comments, 32 Views, 58 Votes ,7.35 Score
LifesAdventure 38 M
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RE. Fake ID's   4/5/2004

The most likely places where this sort of scene would be, is in Bombday, Bangalore or Goa.


0 Comments, 46 Views, 26 Votes ,4.32 Score
wait4u2call 63 M
2 Articles
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10 questions you might ask to see how compatiable u are   3/17/2004

dont remember where this came from but i have used some of these questions to (feel out )a possible date works for both men and woman just use the right gender you will be suprised at what you find out remember it s only fair to answer them in return if she / he askes you what you feel <br> <br> <br> 1. What do you think is the biggest mistake that men ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 44 Votes ,7.62 Score
wait4u2call 63 M
2 Articles
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10 questions you might ask to see how compatiable u are   3/17/2004

dont remember where this came from but i have used some of these questions to (feel out )a possible date works for both men and woman just use the right gender you will be suprised at what you find out remember it s only fair to answer them in return if she / he askes you what you feel <br> <br> <br> 1. What do you think is the biggest mistake that men ...


0 Comments, 88 Views, 24 Votes ,6.65 Score
princess4pirate 74,1958 C
1 Article
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The Four of Us   3/11/2004

We had our first "date" with another couple last weekend and it was great! Having a delicious dinner, listening to a guy on guitar at the perfect pub, wondering, if this is the strangest thing, or one of them, that I have ever done. The other couple was so nice, and we had so much in common too. But sometimes even with great sex, the chemistry is not perfect. I guess you have to think of ...


0 Comments, 131 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
RaineUK1 69 F
1 Article
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How is dating done in the BDSM World?   2/24/2004

I consider myself a slave by nature. I havent had much experience in BDSM as I seem to only attract wannabes etc. I also do not have much experience dating even in the vanilla world. I have been a silver member thinking that it would be a better way to weed out the wannabes but it really isnt. I may not have a lot of experience but my gut tells me that one doesnt just jump into bed or into ...


1 Comments, 219 Views, 68 Votes ,8.51 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
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Re: Ratio   2/19/2004

This is in reference to the article from the ummm gentleman (?) I use that term loosely here, who said that "girls" on alt must be getting laid alot based on the gender ratio. Excuse me, the women, not girls, little man on this site aren't here to be served up like meat on a platter. Many of us are here seeking a like minded freindship, perhaps more with someone who isn't out looking for ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 25 Votes ,6.01 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Re: All Is Not What It Seems   2/9/2004

Malls are a great place for an initial meeting. There is typically security present and you are very well protected should something go wrong. No one should demand that you or anyone else, male or female engage in intimacy of any form on a first date. If they do this is a definite red flag and should motivate you to walk away as fast as your feet will carry you. While people do engage ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 35 Votes ,8.17 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Re: First Date Flatulence   2/9/2004

The proper (and humane) thing to do when moved to expel gas is to do so in the confines of a bathroom. There are many effective medications on the market to combat excessive flatulence, you should take your dates comfort into account and purchase one before the meeting. I personally would remove myself from the presense of anyone who felt that this gross and obnoxious behavior was ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 21 Votes ,5.85 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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Re: Is It True That Nice Guys Finish Last?   2/8/2004

Very complex question here with multi-faceted answers. Reality is we suceed or don't in a relationship based on the life experiences of the individual we are attracted to, and our own. Throughout life we develop relationship patterns which we re-enact on a continuim. This however isn't set in stone and we do have the option of looking for and at patterns to avoid repeating negative ones ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 24 Votes ,7.33 Score
leggyredhead 66 F
67 Articles
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When Chemistry Just Isn't There   1/30/2004

You check your mail and find a message from someone who says they are very interested. After reading their profile you determine that their are enough commonalities to spark your interest and you reply. From there you progress to communicating via e-mail. If you continue to find one another interesting, are typically exchanged. At some point you decide to meet and choose a public place ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 41 Votes ,7.24 Score
SweetThing34 54 F
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Re: Nude Photos   1/21/2004

Ok I have to agree with her right there. I mean I love a good cock shot however if you have nothing other than that to offer in the way of mystery why bother?

It makes me wonder if the cock shot is your only way of possibly getting a hit on alt. NOW I am NOT unreasonable I have talked to many many men that sit with empty mailboxes or porn crap that fills them, perhaps ...


6 Comments, 212 Views, 88 Votes ,6.78 Score
DaddyLottoOneWay 74 M
1 Article
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Re: Facesitting   1/8/2004

Im an experienced Dom and I luv for my little girls to sit on my face. I always lie on my back and support their ass/hips with my hands as my arms are laying fat on the mattress. Perhaps its because I have strong arms I can always lift the woman off it gets to be too much but I really enjoy getting into the pussy that way. You get the other labia to lay flat on your face and get your ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 59 Votes ,7.93 Score
BMs_Knitewolf 52 M
2 Articles
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RE: What's the best way.....   11/11/2003

you might want to put this in the 'Advice' area of the magazine, then it would be easier for people to respond and easier for you to read the responses.


0 Comments, 29 Views, 22 Votes ,5.17 Score
agirlatheart 56 F
3 Articles
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Didn't realize   11/9/2003

Silly me!!! I thought I was going to find articles here about dating...not fictional accounts of some "date" someone had. What's up with that? They should have a fiction section. Please...like I really believe the story about the girl on the bus, the other girl's "second date", the mistress that had a girl lick her shit in the bathroom. I just hope that most people who read these things ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 52 Votes ,8.74 Score
Alohacovedreams 69 F
22 Articles
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RE: Re the BBW and breaking in a new slave   11/7/2003

I also found this story to be loathsome. I found myself in agreement with your opening sentences regarding this article, but then your critique took a disparaging turn and you too should know better--two wrongs don't make a right. <br> Alohacovedreams


0 Comments, 40 Views, 28 Votes ,6.53 Score
NoCyberDom 58 M
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Re: Finding REAL love along with lustful passions.   11/6/2003

In short, I was once lucky enough to have found that perfect love but curcumstances pulled us apart. 17 years later, I contacted her and found that at the exact day and time I felt compelled to find out whatever happned to her and looked up her phone number (I finally called about 3 days later), she had broken out a box with every letter I had ever written her and told her husband about the ...


2 Comments, 118 Views, 26 Votes ,6.05 Score
orchidsub 62 F
1 Article
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Why do so many "Doms" have a cock pics on their profiles?   10/24/2003

Ok, Calling all "Dominants" that have a cock-pic as the main pic on your profile here and on other dating websites. i guess you dont know that a quality submissive will see that pic and move on. "Doms" that put pics of their cocks on their profile are into kinky sex and really have no idea what Power Exchange is truly about. 99% of Doms with cock pics are mostly into BDSM for sex. Most subs ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 45 Votes ,6.95 Score
NEW2THIS42 65 F
2 Articles
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PLEASE READ   8/30/2003

I REALIZE WE ARE ALL ADULTS HERE, AND MANY OF YOUR CLIENTAL WOULD LOVE FOR SOMETHING SUCH AS THIS TO HAPPEN TO THEM. HOWEVER, SOME TYPE OF WARNING NEEDS TO BE GIVEN TO THE ALT COMMUNITY...... please read below... Mistress, Please excuse my writing again, as I realize that you are probably overwhelmed with requests. I did notice that you placed me on your hot list. I recently had ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 78 Votes ,6.36 Score
cholo1212 69 M
3 Articles
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lookin for that special one   2/28/2003

Can anyone suggest where I can find a lady from utah who is between 45 nd 65 who would enjoy a special visit from a man that is desperate to have a lady that he can suck all night and try out her fantasies.


0 Comments, 19 Views, 27 Votes ,1.56 Score
Storme5050 61 F
1 Article
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A Painful Lesson!   11/23/2002

Her nightmare began the next morning, when he awoke to find her sitting on the windowsill, he lifted the covers and motioned for her to lie beside him, saying, “Come lie down I won’t bite”. After lying down, she mentioned that she had a headache, he began rubbing her temples, but when she closed her eyes, he climbed on top of her. When she didn’t protest, he kissed ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 111 Votes
rheist1 69 M
1 Article
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fat gals   10/6/2002

I have always found that rubenesque(sic) ladies to be more attractive and able tofil the submissive role .However they also tend to be very shy and few have contaced me .Those that have I now use as references.


2 Comments, 131 Views, 103 Votes ,7.11 Score
sheri13 68 F
2 Articles
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Re: Darker side of love   9/11/2002

Hi, Is it possible that this is not the darker side of love, but the brighter side of love? Maybe this is what "the elders of old" tried to keep from the common people. This is more then just sex, it is TRUE intimacy and connection with another person. Guilt and shame are not a part of the experience and if they are I would suggest that a person go for counselling, with someone that ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 146 Votes
sheri13 68 F
2 Articles
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to: itjustmechris   9/10/2002

You can be the type of man they say they want but are draw to the type they speak out against - Is it possible that this is what you are doing? Being attracted to the type of woman that you are speaking out against??? I take offence to being put into the catagory that you are speaking of. Yes some women are looking for someone to take care of them and so are some men, but not all of us ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
devi8or 49 M
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Why haven't you got a photo up?   7/23/2002

The first, most fundamental connection between two people is how they look. Much of the time, you can tell when someone is interesting to you just from their face or the silhouette of their figure or even just a part of them. This information is vital when meeting new people, so why do so many people not post photographs? Speaking for myself, I rarely write to anyone unless I've seen them ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 123 Votes ,4.42 Score
bb63 87 M
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re:Sarah   7/20/2002

Sarah, can we talk?? Where are you? bb63


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willing-widow 70 F
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do Men want a slut on the first meeting ?   7/19/2002

hello, <br> i am willing-widow and You can look at me here i am always wondering how to behave and dress the first timei am going out with a man <br> sexy and i am considered a slut conservative and i am considered like an old woman <br> what do You expect from me ? <br> sarah


5 Comments, 317 Views, 230 Votes ,3.26 Score
handcuffd-deity 53 F
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A Little Respect   6/3/2002

I dont understand the "Dating Game" anymore. <br> Nowadays, it seems to be a case of "lets see how rude we canbe". Why dont people treat others as they would like to be treated. <br> I have been let down re meetings on more than one occasion by more than one man. <br> They werent even first dates, they were following up meetings. I wouldnt mind if the man said ...


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greatbigbear 69 M
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So that's why it was easy to get women during the disco era.   5/4/2002

I've just finished reading several articles in the dating section about how to dress on a date. Most say "wear a suit" i.e. look your best. It helped put two and two together so to speak. I am old enough to remember to disco era and while I was a die hard rock n roll fan, I do remember that I picked more girl's at a disco bar than I ever did anywhere else. While i'm an average looking guy I ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 46 Votes ,7.03 Score
boundhappy 61 F
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Jeans vs The Suit   1/19/2002

I'll probably be lynched for this but it's genetic. Woman look for a man that can provide for them and their off spring. The suit represents the ability to provide for them. In the back of her head that's what's going on. There's been many a study, at tax payers expense to prove what you have experienced. So where the suit and enjoy.


0 Comments, 29 Views, 38 Votes ,4.90 Score
solowolf00 42 M
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It will get better...   2/5/2001

It will get better, I know music to your ears right? For you guys out there that have had sex that could have lasted forever then had sex that made you feel like the best five seconds she ever had, it gets better. Ok you are upset that you didn't last that long, well do somethin about it. My first piece of advice is to go to your local book store, find the sexuality section, and ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 20 Votes ,5.68 Score
pussylovelace 51 T
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The joys of a night in Bristol   1/10/2001

On a recent business trip to Bristol (UK), I took along a bag full of my tartiest clothes, ready for a dressing-up session in my hotel room. Soon, i was preening and prancing in front of the full-length mirror in my strappy, 4-inch-heeled sandals; nude, shiny tights; purple, a-line, pvc mini-skirt; a clingy, black top and black & pink, lacy scanties with pert little falsey boobs. I ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 32 Votes ,5.87 Score
superstud 80 M
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romance or dominance?   1/6/2001

Being involved with the BDSM lifestyle for over 3 decades I have seen all kind of Doms/subs come and go. I see all the varieties of those who call themselves Doms and a few who call themselves Master and I wonder whose standards they are using. Romancing the sub takes a little time but pays off big time in the long haul. Let us presume that you are a man who wishes to have more than just ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 79 Votes ,8.26 Score
superstud 80 M
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3 Second Rules   1/5/2001

In April someone wrote a nice article about the Three Second Rule and I only wish to add that this rule has been known for centruies under differing titles but the basic rule is "let your gut instinct RULE". This gut instinct is within each of us and needs only be developed and strengthened by tiny usage at the start, just do what seems right to you BUT do it immediately. Hesitation is ...


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superstud 80 M
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Master/slave is not ABUSE   1/5/2001

It has been suggested in a previous article that Masters abouse their slaves. While I do not wish to make this a debate forum, I must simply say that the writers inexperience shows by the verbage used. Several times the author reminds the reader that she(presuming gender) has "never been a slave" or some such. The use of the word "abuse" is oft associated with the ill informed or the ...


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foxxy22 46 F
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Master/Slave   1/27/2000

Why is it that men only want a to abuse their submissive women? Bearing in mind that I've never been in a master/ slave relationship, but a few of my friends have been and all of my knowledge comes from their experiences. When women are the dominants the relationship it seems that more of the abuse is consentual and the public abuse is kept at a minimum. Maybe it's comes from the ...


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nicknack01 58 M
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Guys - Only get hot woman   1/13/2000

<br> Guys, they've been doing it to guys since adam was a boy. Nothing frustrates a woman more than a guy who won't perve all over her & make a move. It's all about playing their game. When you see someone you do want, just get the eye contact & then leave it for a while. Enjoy the people you are with & later approach. Don't tell a beautifull women she is beautiful. They hear ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 33 Votes ,5.26 Score