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Submit? Who? Me?
by Cleo Dubois

Like many kinky players, you might have the desire to switch. What kind of bottom do you think you'd be? Do you see yourself naked, at your Dominant's feet, contained and bruised from Her powerful caning? Perhaps you imagine being on your knees, basking in the devotion you have for your Master? Or do you crave giving service in just the way that pleases Him/Her? Maybe you'd just want to feel what it's like to be done and let go of control for a change? How do you know? Look at those sexual fantasies of yours we talked about in last month's column, "Kinky? Who? M

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Sub_bi_Nature 58 F

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I think it's a terrific article that simplifies and
outlines the basic introduction to the world of erotic
power exchange. This post can be helpful to those folks
that are new to BDSM.

master1344 61 M

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very.hot.hot.fun

sarasnow03 42 F

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thanks so much, that was really helpful. I am definitely
a fetishist.

bluedude641 32 M

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awesum article.

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tradeup 58 F

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this is a great example for newbies. . . suggest it to the
next person who has less knowledge than you. . they will
get it if they are into it already

lord_neo 54 M

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awesome article, I enjoyed reading it, thanks for all the
great info.

yourslave4u2 75 M

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What about training for sub males?

lonely5332 55 M

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Puts in perpective

Feistyfemale1 60 F

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No matter how many articles I read related to BDSM, it seems
I always pick up a new tidbit or way of looking at things.
Your article is no exception.

Thanks for a great read.

WBear4 51 M

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I like the article as a beginner. It offered some advice
to work with a partner on explaining what one desires.

williamh97 59 M

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AWESOME!!!

4yrswithout 48 F

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Thank you for the information. I am new to this site. Was
not really sure what the others were wanting from me. I am learning, becoming more open minded, and hope I find
the partner to try some of these with.

MsHeartsf2005 113 F

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Well done Ms. Dubois. It is a good idea for those to know what
they like and who they are so they can communicate their
needs accordingly.

altodalto 41 F

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holy moley guacamole

NoBDSMBS 59 M

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Great idea using the fire.ice switch. Be careful not to
use dry ice to cool the metal, as it would be cold enough to
burn/remove skin

SexyGuy51106 64 M

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sounds like alot of fun!!

buyvirgin 37 M

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Good article, a nice read.

spangle1 41 F

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thank you so much for posting this article Ms. Dubois Ma'am,
this girl always hungers for BDSM related information,
and this post was a great source.

rayboy69 57 M

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Good article, gave Lots of usefully advice for not just
newbies but for experienced BDSM addicts

VAGINA752 26 M

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well. but why not then?

redaltezza32 41 M

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interesting stuff alright.

slimbttmguy 42 M

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a very worthwhile read.

also, does anyone know what the guy in the pictures is wearing?
some kind of body suit? any idea as to where i can find that
in particular, or what it is called?

Twist51999 36 M

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would love to submit to a woman so kinky

rayboy69 57 M

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A superb article, it makes you think about trying it out.
Subs suffer at a doms hand etc and it would probably be good
for Doms to know what there subs are feeling when they are
being used.

cat22driver 47 M

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A very nice article. For someone that is a switch, it is a
nice piece of writing to help direct those energies and
questions.

MrsBStrong 80 C

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I was delighted to see the always underestimated importance
of communication highlihgted to such extend!

statuszero 45 M

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Great... what I like the most is the sentence: "Communication
is great, especially when it's working!" ; )))

sluskysucks 37 M

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pretty sweet article

_sarabear_ 41 F

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very interesting and hot

travel4514 61 M

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Great that events are listed. just wish i was near one of
them.

FootmaninFl4u 47 M

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This article was really helpful and hot!! Thanks.

FootmaninFl4u 47 M

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Very helpful and hot.

suckerforafetish 30 M

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very very hot..

redaltezza32 41 M

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you really do learn something new everyday!

BlackStar83 40 M

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Interesting stuff. Finally breaks down some things that
had me confused. Now I just wish someone could help me explore

ocho869 52 M

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God I got hot reading this

ocho869 52 M

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Very hot I am really getting turned on about this

sparkle87 28 F

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Very hot!!!

stahluss 58 M

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Yep, kinks are diverse ... but then what turns one on, turns
one on.

Steppenwolff86 29 M

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It's a great article, it's a must for every alt-member...
especially the new ones

renzal69 56 M

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Very good read, very informative and very exciting
as well. I want to sub more often and getting ready to become
a pet. just need more woman who are serious and ready to play!!!

stahluss 58 M

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Some may wonder, but trust me, I don't

sullagram 39 M

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, does anyone know what the guy in the pictures is wearing?
some kind of body suit? any idea as to where i can find that
in particular, or what it is called?

dom4urneeds 61 M

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It is very hot

dom4all51 68 M

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It is a hot article

chadenfreud99 44 M

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Very goog article. The important thing is do what you want...
if u like it.

JADE2170 46 F

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I am new to all of this and you
really helped show me many diverse options worth exploring
as well as how to discuss them.

wristrope 68 M

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Great article Cleo. You write with such delicious clarity.

Ready4RightNow 54 M

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Both sides of this equation have their time, place, and
pleasures....

Eltharion85 30 M

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Me2.. Nothing the like around here!

EgyptainMaster 50 M

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nice, that helps all the newbies.

Moani05 29 F

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This helped me see the differences between the BDSM jargon

LoosedAtLast 45 M

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Good stuff!

manuvigo 56 M

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Thank you for the information

manuvigo 56 M

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Thank you for the information

jamesazthomas 56 M

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THough it may be perceived as topping from the bottom, it
is an effective way to get ones desires across.

cactuscooler_az 56 C

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Awesome article.. definitely need to share this with my
significant...i fall under all five category's in
one manner or the other. i defiantly like to be the controlled
not the controller. Look for the vote button could not find
it for this article so Kudos and Excellent read....

Buck_Dich 27 M

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Very interesting.

bowtoyou69 29 M

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very nice.

Stein_Um_Stein 27 M

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Very nice article.

wheresmymoney 27 M

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Very nice article.

onestepbey0nd 27 M

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Very nice article.

Ocelot975 27 M

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Very nice article.

BeggingBitchBoy 42 M

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great article, keep them coming...

KarenDevine63 57 T

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Great read!

sub4nostringsfun 38 M

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thanks for the informative article

sorguman 51 M

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it is very interesting, thanks!

Na10 43 M

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Fantastic info. Thanks allot.

Na10 43 M

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Fantastic info.. Thanks very much.

Na10 43 M

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Fantastic info.. Thanks very much.

Na10 43 M

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Fantastic info.. Thanks allot.

whats_frisson 35 M

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I don't think I'm ready to just yet, but it is food
for thought.

Cinematic101 28 M

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great article for those newbies who wonder about the what
ifs about switching.

spankx_minx 29 F

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very interesting article

gbg44 59 M

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Interesting article.

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I think it's a terrific article that simplifies and
outlines the basic introduction to the world of erotic
power exchange. This post can be helpful to those folks
that are new to BDSM