|
|
Comments
I couldn't agree more! The mind is indeed the best tool
for the enjoyment of BDSM play. Creative, imaginative
Doms and subs can find literally no end of pleasure and enjoyment
through the use of the mind.
My word of warning is: The mindfuck can be used for positive
or negative gain. The inherent trust that a sub must have
with a Dom can be used against him/her, just as easily as
for the sub. In order to keep and build on the trust in the
relationship, I would warn against "negative"
mind fucking.
Thanks for a thought-provoking article.
This article is about a subject that is near and dear to my
heart and main source of my domination of my submissive
shai. I believe that the mindfuck, if mastered and correctly
thought out can be the only tool that a Dominant needs to
spark explosive reactions in the mind, heart, and body.
My submissive enjoys it when I bind her mind and bend her
reality. This has been the discipline of choice for me for
last five years and has worked wonders for me. We are a 24/7
D/s couple and she has been psychologically bound for the
entire time. Fair Warning--- Be careful with the effects
of these methods of her heart is weak or if she is terrfied
and take into account the emotional impact of your actions.
Your submissive believes that she can trust you with her
life. Plan well, be safe, sane, and consenual and the results
will amaze you.
SirSteelrein North Carolina
I totally agree with the power of this tool. Done well it
can be very mutually rewarding. I would like some insight
relative to the ability to repeat this concept with the
same sub. If, after several experiences "nothing"
has happened i.e. no cuts, brands, etc. how can the sub "believe"
the next event?
I enjoyed the sensation play element. I remember during
my training I was blindfolded and a cold blade was glided
all over my body. I thought it was a sharp knife so I started
getting really scared as well as excited. I trusted my training
so I know I was not in danger, however, it still messed with
my mind to no end. After the scene was over, I found out that
the cold blade was a butter knife. Go figure...The scene
was hot and my endorphines were off the chart.
Good job on the scene article.
The mind is always susceptible to suggestion depending
on who is making the suggestions, why and wether we are attuned
to that person. Think Naked - which is to say that before
you were taught that things weren't real you were a
genius and your imagination had no limits think with no
limits. think naked.
sighs i wish wannabe dom/dommes would ready this cause
if the dom cannot first get the sub to gear the time for coming
session and the desire to experience the session ye might
as well play cards cause thats how exciting it will be ...if
it dont happen North of the beltline the South end will go
on strike
It is all about the mind fuck...
And he whispered to me in the darkness as we lay together,
"Tell me where to touch you so that I can drive you insane,
tell me where to touch you to give you ultimate pleasure,
tell me where to touch you so that we will truly own each other."
I kissed him softly and whispered back, "Touch my
mind."
First, the world of BDSM is a world of Illusions and Real
Emotions. Two people who are not afraid to trust, two people
who are not afraid to love one another. It is about two people
willing to drive one another’s emotions to new levels.
About two people that have the gift, the gift to love unconditionally.
It is our space, our special place that we seek, where the
fire that burns in side of us both becomes one. Submission
is not about obedience, yes master, no master, do what I
say master. It is about you, you submitting to yourself,
you submitting to your own emotions, no more walls. Think
about it, the bondage, the walls, and the physical person,
the person inside of you held fast unable to move. BDSM is
all about our struggle between that self inside of us and
our physical person outside. It is all about emotions.
Physical pain we forget. However, emotional hurt is different,
emotional feelings we relive repeatedly. We cannot block
them, we cannot forget them, what we do is live with them.
We build walls, wall to protect us, wall to prevent others
from hurting us, walls that protect others from our own
emotions. It is not about pain but about balance, balancing
our physical bodies with our emotional selves, the feeling
of being one, one whole person and there is the release,
the release of emotional energy. When we release that energy,
we find that we can love more deeply than ever before. What
the dominant does is supplies energy to the submissive
in order to set her free. We are artist, a musician; she is
my canvas, my instrument. We cannot achieve perfection
if we are not willing to learn and accept criticism. It will
be together that we will succeed.
It is all about the mind just ask John Warren in his book the
loving dom...
And he whispered to me in the darkness as we lay together,
"Tell me where to touch you so that I can drive you insane,
tell me where to touch you to give you ultimate pleasure,
tell me where to touch you so that we will truly own each other."
I kissed him softly and whispered back, "Touch my
mind."
First, the world of BDSM is a world of Illusions and Real
Emotions. Two people who are not afraid to trust, two people
who are not afraid to love one another. It is about two people
willing to drive one another’s emotions to new levels.
About two people that have the gift, the gift to love unconditionally.
It is our space, our special place that we seek, where the
fire that burns in side of us both becomes one. Submission
is not about obedience, yes master, no master, do what I
say master. It is about you, you submitting to yourself,
you submitting to your own emotions, no more walls. Think
about it, the bondage, the walls, and the physical person,
the person inside of you held fast unable to move. BDSM is
all about our struggle between that self inside of us and
our physical person outside. It is all about emotions.
Physical pain we forget. However, emotional hurt is different,
emotional feelings we relive repeatedly. We cannot block
them, we cannot forget them, what we do is live with them.
We build walls, wall to protect us, wall to prevent others
from hurting us, walls that protect others from our own
emotions. It is not about pain but about balance, balancing
our physical bodies with our emotional selves, the feeling
of being one, one whole person and there is the release,
the release of emotional energy. When we release that energy,
we find that we can love more deeply than ever before. What
the dominant does is supplies energy to the submissive
in order to set her free. I am an artist a musician; she is
my canvas, my instrument. We cannot achieve perfection
if we are not willing to learn and accept criticism. It will
be together that we will succeed.
Just ask John Waren in his book the "The Loving Dominant"
Hot scene. Thanks for the wonderful description. Reminds
me of a scene I did once. I had my submissive blindfolded
after seeing my knife. We were role playing and I got to the
point where I would hold the knife to her throat and scare
her. Instead of the knife, I uses a spoon that was sitting
on the nightstand in a glass of ice water. After "cutting"
her throat with the knife, she felt the drop of water drip
down her neck -- she was sure that I had cut her throat with
a knife like in the role playing story we were doing. Very
effective, the drop of water going down her neck really
convinced her.
#1- I never thought I would find a place where all my sexual
fantasies could come to be...
Over the years, I have tried my best to give my partners insight
of how to get and keep me...I am a person who does not orgasm
easily...for a long time, I thought I was sexually defective...then
I met a man who was willing to listen and give me his wisdom...he
open me through my mind...you were right...we never had
any fancy digs or eloborate scenes...what we did have was
my overactive imagination...his making love to my mind
sent me to sexual heights I never thought I would reach...
I appreciate this article because now I can put a name to
what is a complete turn on for me...during porn I come without
being touched...it is because my mind is so intertwined
in the acts that I am not able to separate myself...
Thanx again for the information... Can't wait to use it...
Bill, That was a great article. I am sure you can see by my
handle I agree a 100%. I don't know if you realize it
or not but as a hypnotist that you are having some of the same
results and not even using hypnosis. I can tell you from
experience that the issues you gave are very real and a lot
more are available for use. Just to give a few examples,
Climax control, (I had one female count out loud each time
she reached one and she lost count at 22+ times.)Making
the body more sensitive and alert. If a female has trouble
relaxing and her enjoyment is limited because of it. When
you seduce the mind the body will follow right along. Thanks
again for a wonderful and informative post.
Well, I think you KNOW what I'm going to say, I put you
with all the othe great masters that used hypnotism to nanipulate
their little flock, ,, You could just be shooting the bullock
for all I know. But the responses that you got. Convince
me that anything I tell you would be misused. During the
60s guys would go around and "goof" on people...
they thought that they were so cool and boss I knew they were
the mustif end of an equine... The "goofing"
stopped after a sadistic master got his susceptible children
to murder Sharon Tate. The people who wrned yiu about the
dangers of what you're doing are about the only ones
I have respwect for... someone showed me "120 Days
in Sodom".I don;t belive in censorship, but I would
seriosly try to curtail the reading of that book. There have been many masters, but only one Master, and he
said: "Do unto others as you would have them do to you"
A master/slave realationship makes the maste think that
his will controls the slave, and tat the slave needs him.
In reality without a slave, the master ain't! So, which one is really in charge? The true master teacher
genuinely loves the student, Socrates and Jesusd are perfect
examples of this. If you are an illusionist/magician I
regard you as fondly as I do Pencil and Yeller, the masked
magicans and David Blando a guress how little that is. The slave may truly love the master, like the abused spouse
or child does. But, I see no evidence that you give a flying
rat's potatoes for her! MADjimp
We have found that usually the only cherry most adults in
the scene have left, that they didn't even know they
had, is the 'mind-fuck cherry'. This is Our favorite
cherry to pop(besides a fresh cherry ass)!
There is truly nothing better than a good mind-fucking
session ...the still fresh bewildered look on our slaves
face, while he or she begs to be able to come back to play again
as soon as possible!!!!!!! Ahhhh such a nice sound!
The art of mindfuck is lost to many players, or so I've
noticed. I've been lucky to a few partners who truly
understand this concept and have brought me to new levels
of trust and respect for them and what they are capable of
in that type of situation. It makes you wonder what you are
truly capable of when you let go and allow things to happen
Another great post from Bill. Thank you! I think it’s a great
reminder of how much control a Dominant has over a submissive
through mind control. It isn't always physical. Train
the mind and body will follow.