I will submit to my Mistress and accept her dominance discretely and privately. I will worship my mistress according to her desires when in her presence. This is a part-time relationship and definitely not 24-7. There is a great deal of flexibility in the number and timing of encounters. Dom and sub will negotiate a structure which leaves both parties satisfied. The outside world will observe vanilla behaviors. Mistress, if you are willing to accept these limitations seriously and with intensity, I would love to chat with you. I have lived this existence most of my adult life. A dom-sub relationship is an undulating living breathing entity; with ebb and flow; rising and falling of tides; spatial ideation; live improvisational jazz; a bespoke creation; poetry in motion; waves crashing on sand.
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My Ideal Person:
Someone comfortable in their own skin and with their own sexuality. Someone who understands the mechanics but more importantly the psychological aspects of bdsm, such as submission, yielding, servitude, darkness, and light. Someone who understands it is not the cane or leather clothes, it is the dom's words and body language which dominate the sub. Someone who understands the subliminal mysterious bonding between Mistress and sub. Someone who conducts vanilla conversations before and after encounters to manage expectations.
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