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BBW enthusiasts/ Body positivity kinda required.
This profile is long winded but it answers a LOT of questions you might have. Please read before contacting, I detest answering questions repetitively.
Relationships...
Not currently interested in the hookup/swipe right culture. Looking for more serious, long term minded people. There will be no play on the first meeting or multiple initial meetups.
Open to...
SINGLE MEN (masc identifying) (unless its a bi/pan-male couple/team).
Open to exploring more with submissive females (femme identifying) (solo only, if they are in relationship).
Side Note:
PLATONIC CUDDLES. Yes please! With Gay masc, ACE (Masc or femme), or a hetero/bi/pan that can control themselves.
Monogamy is something I am quite capable of but it would take a lot of convincing.
Poly-minded is acceptable but cautiously. Alternatively, there is polyandry, which I'm less cautious about.
Not currently set on any particular relationship parameters... as long as my wants/needs are met and the emotional connection is there.. connecting is important, over and above physical attraction, as is communication and emotional self awareness. Quality of individual matters, across the board.
There are several scenario where this dynamic is applicable. I am very open-minded as to how power dynamics within are balanced, as long as my basic and sexually insatiable needs are met. Cuckoldry, Alpha Cuck, Compersion, Polyandry, Slut-girlfriend, etc.
Polyandry = One woman and multiple men
Monogamy would take a lot of convincing but I'm fully capable.
I dislike hookup/swipe right culture. Not open to one night stands.
DO NOT be married or attached. Kindly, go elsewhere.
Respect, Communication, Honesty, Enthusiasm/Passion, Trust, Humor, Open-Mindedness.
Self-Identify
Pansexual Dominant Switch, Sensual Reactionist
I have been a larger BBW in and passively active with the lifestyle community for ages. I, generally, am a dominant switch unless you inspire me in a very submissive direction..but that's a rare yummy cupcake. If you are aggressively or moderately dominant in your handling of communication with me, it causes a visceral negative response.
Sexually...
Although, I don't judge a partner based solely on cock size I am a bit of a closeted size queen. I prefer large and/or thick cocks (8"+) with lots of stamina and able to go multiple times. Cause of my bountiful ass, thighs and thick pussy... if you are much under 8 in length, unless you have lots of skills in working with larger BBW bodies... Sorry to say you are not likely to get as deep as I want you to go. My thickness will knock a few inches off your length. Stamina encouraged, take your vitamins. Self identified as somewhat sexually insatiable unless satisfied regularly (2 times a day minimum, ideally).
Am open-minded, and try to respect your kink but not everything will I be receptive towards.
Kinks interested in/curious to both give/receive:
Sensuality, Foreplay, Fellatrice (cock worship), Sensory Deprivation, Light Bondage, Teasing, Multiple Orgasms, Creampies, Spanking, Massages, Cuddles, Sleepy Sex, Larger Toys, CFNM, Sex Machines, etc. Open to a suggestions. This is not a complete list.
Not into...
Degradation/humiliation, SPH, potty/diaper play. Blood play, edge play, etc. Not a complete list.
As for rimming/anal play/receiving anal sex.. its something I have to be in the mood for, in a trusted long term only. Same kinda applies to receiving oral... I am reticent because it takes trust (ongoing relations only).
Not into receiving pain/marks in general but especially with my nipples or clit/pussy lips/mouth lips (beard scruff/shadow hurts). Lips are not for chewing, you shound be well past the age of teething.
Other than the usual vanilla, sensual, sweet cuddling and such things I am open to other kinks and fetishes, too... but not all. Let me now which ones you would like and I'll let you know if I'm open to it. Not judgemental.
Physically...
Larger BBW (Not quite SSBBW or a feedee).
Also a PAWG (PhatAssWhiteGirl).
But NOT big boobs. Tiny (A cup) perky, sensitive tits.
Height of 5ft6in, if I stretch.
Waist length auburn hair.
Blue/green eyes, freckles.
Girl next door sort with cute face and full lips.
I wax regularly, all over, but have to grow out to trimmed level before I can wax again (personal preference despite vag bush becoming more popular). Not going to shave just for you (legs included).
My bottom is a large, juicy, spankable asset BUT...not really into pain... uncomfortable maybe but not pain.
If you are wanting a friend acceptance, write a note of introduction and reasoning. I am not likely to add you unless you have some kind of photo representing your true self.
I DO NOT do nudes or cam play and I only sext to any degree with people I've played with. If you ask for any of these things, it'll just be annoying.
I'm here to meet in real life, not play into your fantasy... whatever it might be.
I'll refine this profile further at a later date.
Based out of Portland but occasionally mobile up towards Seattle or coast. Travelling more in the next year. S.Korea next year and maybe Japan and China.
Learning Korean, will be learning Mandarin and Japanese. Native speakers welcome to chat!
(Am allergic to pot (legal here) and cigarettes but do not judge, if you partake. Just not around me)
Not going to show you nudes, partial or full. Not going to cam-play or sext endlessly or whatever they call it these days. There is no patience for all of the above. I am a tactile woman. I like to touch and taste what I tease and be touched in return.
Vanilla/Normative...
I can be shy and reserved until I get to know you. Especially in a group or new environments. Generally, I am super friendly and affectionate unless there is rudeness or presumptive attitudes. Am a bit of a geek and love books, tech, games and being playful. Trying to remain physically active, as my schedule and injuries allow. Dragonboating, MMA, gentle hikes, festivals, roadtrips, music venues, etc. I do go to the gym but I am not rabid about it.
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My Ideal Person:
If LTR, be financially stable and self sustainable. If you are long distance, be able to travel/visit often or arrange for me to visit... I work full time and there are also lots of side projects I have. My schedule is sorted weeks ahead of time with very little ASAP flexibility, although I try my best for ongoing or LTR partners. Be understanding of that. Flakes or people in lust with the idea, rather than the reality of meeting up, need not apply.
Male/Masc body types: Average/ slim/ slender/ swimmers build/ athletic/ muscular/ fit/ trim, etc.
Prefer freshly shaven faces but it is the PNW... at least trimmed and man-scaped. Mustache up my nose is no fun and I cannot kiss from giggling.
Femme body types: The wide spectrum between average lovelies and super thick beauties.
Ethnicity does not matter. Personality very much matters. Feminist men are sexy and a bit of a sapiosexual, too (glasses can also be very hot).
Be respectful.
Flexible on age... legal.. maybe 25-ish (maturity please) up to...a well kept 50? Trimmed, waxed or shaven pink bits, if you want me to play down under. Hygiene should not even have to be mentioned, it is a mutual given.
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