[B][/B]Thanks for dropping by my profile. You maybe a "veteran" of the site or someone who is curious, bored with their current sex life and interested
in trying something a little different. Whoever you are, whatever you are interested in, I am sure we will have some tastes and "kinks" in common.
Starting a new relationship can be a tricky time so I find it is best to be open and honest about what both parties expect.
As a D I get most pleasure from seeing the reactions of my s (partner). Knowing that I am helping her push the boundaries, trying something new and enjoying herself.
Not everyone has the same opinion as to what having fun means. It takes a bit of time for a D to learn about his s (partner) and vice versa. That's what makes life interesting. It is only after a little trial and error that some real pleasure can be had.
As a mid forties, sporty, optimistic D I am looking for a s (partner) of similar age. A little extra padding always goes down well. Feminine curves are a real treat for me.
I regard myself as a cautious person who does not rush into things, whether that be in sport, work or relationships but once there I give 100% commitment and have as much fun as possible. The best compliment I received was from someone who said they loved been around me because I had great "spirit".
It is all about having fun and pushing aside convention to explore what you really like with a trusted D
Over the next few months I will be doing a fair bit of moving around the UK. There will be plenty of time spent waiting in airport lounges so I have decided to keep a blog outlining my thoughts on BDSM. I am by no means an expert and some individuals may totally disagree with what I write. Whatever you think please feel free to post replies and comments. It is always good to get another point of view.
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My Ideal Person:
Does the ideal person exist, not sure but I like to mingle with people who are easy going and do not take themselves too seriously. A good sense of humor goes a long way. My ideal partner is NOT one who just wants a quick shag. To really enjoy an alternative sexual lifestyle there must be a connection and trust, otherwise it is just a waste of time. All truely great structures are built on firm foundations.
I would regard myself as an athletic individual. This does not mean I am looking for a mirror image but someone who likes to get out and about for a bit of exercise would be my preference, in fact a bit of post exercise "warm down" or Up can be very stimulating!
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