Hey there and welcome to my profile
I'm a DS. Hence not in the classification of BDSM.
If I respond, I respond to only members WITH A PROFILE PHOTO. If there's no photo where your face are visible, I really have no interest. Please do respect this.
The most important and attractive sex-organ according to me, is the brain. Not the body, not the socioeconomic status and not the tool-box you might need to master the domination. The toolbox is not needed for those who masters it naturally. I'm in the search for such man.
I only want to be contacted by ADULT men with old fashion values.
It’s not an act, it’s my personality
I’m here for that future partner in life to develop with in the lifestyle of dominance. If you're not here for the same wish and intention, don't contact me.
I’m one of those well-educated and well-spoken intelligent women out there, which of course belongs to my professional life. However, in private it’s a whole other case, for me. In this forum, I hope this doesn’t fear nor deter some men here, as the concept is that you control and take over as the Authority figure, NOT me.
No I'm not one of those who have experienced abuse nor having strict parents. I have however always been that girl (from a very young age), and young lady who sought challenge and boundaries, but felt that I never got that feedback from my Parents,- this even though in my childhood, old fashion values was still practiced out in the small country-side life. As a young lady and grown up woman, I still yearn this challenge and response. So this trait is naturally with in my personality and not due to a dysfunctional childhood by way of abuse, as an example.
I represent a personality-type who must have discipline in my life, and as a lifestyle, administered when needed. I’m a good combination of that grown up rational woman and that young lady which have always had a firm grip in me as part of my personality.
I have acknowledged, especially and to the fullest, the last 10 yrs, that to bloom and feel wholesome as the woman I am, I need to submit to an Authority figure in life, as there’s no other way for me.
I Crave, yearn and need, not a Master in the classical understanding of both BDSM and SM, as I cannot be classified under neither as my sexual preference and desire, but rather a Mentor and an Authority figure with a strict and firm mind and hand, when necessary. This means that I'm not in the search for a 24/7 Master/Slave relationship be it BDSM and SM in its classical understanding.
One who can administer correction, direction and discipline in the form of verbal scolding, reprimanding and corporal punishment, holding me accountable for my attitudes and behavior, when needed. And finally, one to whom I can seek advice and ask permissions.
The way I can be disobedient is within bad thinking and behavior as I can be bratty, unruly, cheek, have a foul mouth, obstinate and execute imprudent behavior. Sometimes this mindset and behavior is fully conscious, but most times though, it’s without thinking about it. It is in my nature.
In summary that would be three main reasons for my acknowledgment and search:
1) It’s part of who I am 2) it’s both hugely sexual arousing for me, and something I want in my life as such. 3) For Attitude and behavioral adjustment.
I have tried living in such relationship many yrs back, for 8 yrs. The method in corporal punishment was mostly with the hand, on some occasions with a belt. It was either over the knee or bend over a table. Sometimes we had sex afterwards, but because it was a life-style, far from all the time.
Turn-ons:
If you have communication-skills and like to use it.
If what you depict in your profile corresponds with reality.
Turn-offs:
Arrogance: No matter your Authority and Social-economic status
If you want quick dating results.
Bodybuilders.
If I find this future partner I’m willing to relocate. I don’t care if it’s in your or my country. If we become a couple, we of course develop together.
Thank you for reading
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