Hello,
For all the blind people out there: I'm not submissive and I'll never be.
So now we've got that clear, I want to share some thoughts with you.
Where I at first considered BDSM as a lifestyle I had to share with someone, I changed my mind. It has to be a nice escape from an already heavy life. It has to be something fun...I don't want to put so much time in it that I'm drowning.
At this moment I'm not looking for a relationship, I look for friendships above anything else.
I want to build up some strong friendships and contacts with who I can talk and have some fun.
I'm a Dominant person, which means that I love control and always need to take the lead. On the other hand I'm a masochist, I love physical pain and can sometimes long for it, but I'm NOT looking for a Dominant person.
A few of my biggest loves:
- Chastity belts
- Mental humiliation (I can be so cruel with my words really)
- Feet massages (me on the receiving end of course)
- Teasing and denying
- Servants
My biggest hate:
- Dickpics, I mean come on, what do you want to reach with that?
I'm strongly convinced that BDSM doesn't need to involve sex, so you don't need to expect that from me. I have a vanilla sex partner I'm very happy with and he is the only one I trust with my body. Of course everything on my terms, because I'm Dominant. For me it's my character which happens to be handy for 'the game'.
I'm quite picky about my partner. Age range is from older than me (I'm now 25 till 40). Have to put the limit somewhere, because I have to feel comfortable with dominating you.
If you want to know more, send me a message or an IM.
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My Ideal Person:
My ideal person is not focused primarily on 'the game'. I mean I can smell your desperation. My ideal person is funny, talkative about all subjects in life, shows respect and accepts. Gives me a safe and comfortable feeling. Accepts my bitchy attitude.
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