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Flowform

Chat, Mentoring, Play, or a Long Term Comitment

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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: December 27, 2009

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Information:

Gender:	Man
Birthdate:	April 11, 1963 (61 years old) Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:	Santa Ana, California, United States
Relocate?:	Maybe/Yes
Height:	6 ft 4 in / 193-195 cm
Body Type:	Athletic
Smoking:	I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:	I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:	I don't use drugs
Education:	Some college
Race:	Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:	Straight
Speaks:	English
Hair Color:	Salt and Pepper
Hair Length :	Medium
Eye Color :	Hazel
Glasses or Contacts :	None

LifeStyle

Activities Enjoyed:	{"1":"24/7 (Total Power Exchange)\|2\|6"}
I think about ALT lifestyle:	All the time
Role:	Switch
Level of Experience:	Whole adult life
Dress:	Casual
Social Orientation :	Liberal
Safe Sex:	Yes
Demeanor:	Average

Personal

Facial Hair	:	Goatee
Body Hair	:	Average
Body Decorations	:	None
Male Endowment	:	Long/ Thick
Circumcised	:	No
Marital Status	:	Divorced
Occupation	:	Therapist/Instructor
Religion	:	Not applicable

61 year old Man in Santa Ana, California, United States Looking For: Women or Couples (2 women)

Profile for Flowform

I've been into this since my sexual awakening. I've enjoyed both ends of the rope. I had quite a few relationships, and learned a lot from each one of them, yet, I always find myself learning. 'Vanilla' cannot hold my interest for long. I find it boring. I love power exchange, clean roles. My longest and deepest commitment was with a girl that I brought to me in Greece from the US, I married her to give her the greek green card and had her as my 24/7 TPE slave for 3 years there. Then we decided to move to the US where we were together for one more year. Now we're separated, I live in the US and I m open and looking. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
In the long term, I need to be in control, preferably in a lot of control
I would prefer to negotiate a poly situation together with my sub/slave, but I may be open to a monogamous relationship for a period.

Till I find the one, I enjoy dating and playing in many types of BDSM sessions.
From toping , to dominating and humiliating to negotiating almost any type of session. I have my 'twins', a pair of beautiful thuddy floggers, and I love to use them and to occasionally bring a girl to sub-space.
I also like to participate in play parties and of course munches.
I'm learning the ropes safely (shibari) and I have some gear.

I play safe, sane and consensual, but I will also do consensual non-consent.

My other side, also comes out occasionally and likes to bottom, in a foot fetish or body worship session with an adorable leggy lady for example.

A BASIC thing I expect from you is sincerity and openness. If you are married or have a boyfriend I may be willing to give it a try, if there is sincere potential for becoming mine in the future. On the other hand, if you intend to lie to me there is no reason to start anything. I am decent and open and I do not tolerate drama, games and secret agendas.

ATTENTION: If you are lying about your country and you are actually from Africa, especially Nigeria and Ghana, DO NOT contact me, or DO NOT answer my message. You will be reported as a scammer and a gold-digger. STAY AWAY

DISCLAIMER: I DO NOT LIVE IN HERE. Alt is a way for initial communication. After a few messages for both of us to weed out the obvious bad apples, I expect to take our talk out of here, to get to know each other.
I may get involved in an online thing if that's what we can have TILL we meet each other. But the only meaningful goal is to meet and physically enjoy what BDSM is.

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