I believe that there are those that would describe me as a responsible Mistress. I'll devote Myself to the sub. I am sometimes over attentive and demanding. And I am certainly, by no means sadist, But caring and fair. Looking for a sub that is new or experienced, to highly experienced training. The ultimate goal is for him to achieve a collar and use my chastity devices with my rules and rituals.
There are those, from past encounters, that have mentioned that they could feel my very presence when in a room with others. Or when entering a function. Party. Or other first meeting. They claimed that can instantly single Me out of the vanillas. I have always had a confidence in myself. That is simply the end result of over ten years of being a Mistress. Funny thing though. I never thought that I had an obvious effect on anyone. But the true 'sub' must have a given, or developed sense of recognition. I have actually enjoyed this effect on quite a few occasions.
Early on. I dismissed this as, well, sort of a pick up line. Or a conservation started. But as time progressed and I matured within the lifestyle. I came to believe that what I was being told was quite factual. And developed a rich respect for their insight. And, I guess, it is a good way to break into conservation. Which is always a delicate dance of words. Trying to say something without actually saying it. After all. Most can't simply bring up a BDSM M/s conservation at the dinner table. But I have always had a fair amount of luck when it comes to broaching the subject. Somehow both parties seemed to have an insight as to where we were going in conservation. But there is nothing more unnerving than to find ones self in the position of having to back-paddle in your conversations. Especially once the discovery has been made that I have brought up with a topic of conservation that is somewhat 'taboo for them. Oops!!! Well. That's why I always wear my 'Mint Flavored High-heel Shoes'. Just in case this sort of thing happens. It isn't too often that I put My foot in my mouth, word wise. But when I do. It's pretty good.
So as I mentioned. I am a Mistress of more than ten years. I have always used the terminology of 'Gentlewoman Mistress'. And for the most part. I maintain that without exception. Although, during play, I can wholly depart from that role and become so sweet loving. Your eloquent & loving Mistress is open to own your world of wide life. Hit me up for a real time session in a dungeon you will forever be thankful for.
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