My name implies a sadistic soul. I do have a sadistic side. I've come to understand that I'm a daddy dom primarily. With the right person, both sides of me are expressed. Each has it's qualities. The daddy cares about and takes care of the little girl, who submits in all ways, including feeding that dark intense side of me.
Moving back to Canada for health reasons. I have ME/CFS.
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My Ideal Person:
substance understanding laughter intelligence warmth caring giving devotion
How do you sum up what you seek in another, when what you seek is often influenced by the others presence in your life. Just like regular relationships, D/s and BDSM relationships have a chemistry. I can say I'm a Sadist, yet a submissive nature brings out the kind hearted, caring soul in Me. I love to hurt, but I love to hold and nurture and care. It's who I am. If the person I'm with doesn't invoke those things, then it's not going to work...either way.
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