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I am a 55 year old BBW(300LBS) woman who happens to be a Domme. Please do not approach me in a sexual manner. Do not send erotic photos to me.
I enjoy affection and romantic gestures.
I am passionate, deep, loving, firm, nurturing, and intense. I do not engage in online servitude or play partners.
Micromanagement and high protocol are not areas of interest for me. They are a daily part of my vanilla job. I see my sub/slave as one who desires to make my life easier. He wants to be cherished , rewarded? (*raised eyebrow* ) for doing so . What I value most is your time, effort, and dedication. Wearing panties is a fetish of mine and are non negotiable.
Small gatherings, movies, reading, spending time with friends and family, and expanding my knowledge base about BDSM are a few ways that I like to spend my downtime. Yes, that means that my experience is limited. However, I have a wicked imagination and I love to be creative.
I am spiritual, but not necessarily religious.
I am more in to the mental aspects of D/s. I am not a sadist. Well....I have a sneaking suspicion that given the right situation, I can be a mental sadist.(update) My suspicions have been confirmed. "grins wickedly"
The specific dynamic I am seeking is a role reversal based on the 1950's household. This not about being a maid. It is a power exchange relationship.
There can only be one moody/bitchy (at times) person in my relationship and I have already filled that position. :)
To the outside world we would be just like any other vanilla couple, but at home.........
See the checklist for my kinks
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My Ideal Person:
An alpha male to the outside world who is open to being molded and guided into being the submissive or slave that I desire when in private. You should be willing to explore the less masculine side of yourself when at home. The exploration of your softer, what I call feminine side, is all about the mental aspect. Female clothing is just icing on the cake. Wearing panties by men is a fetish of mine and is non-negotiable. If you desire to do more than just wear panties and heels to please me, great! If your limit is wearing only those items to please me, that works for me, too!
I prefer a person who submits because he genuinely wants to please his mate.
Submission is not something I can or want to force from you. You have to give it willingly.
A great sense of humor is a must...sarcastic, witty, dry, black, silly and non- demeaning humor. Laughing until my tummy hurts is one of my great pleasures.
I love, love, men who are brainiacs/nerds/geeks. A deep thinker with a great wit is a plus. Intelligence trumps looks in my book.
I am best suited with one who is very tolerant, does not take himself too seriously, caring, non-smoking, affectionate, very laid back, extremely sensual and can hold a conversation.
Bad boys are overrated but, mischievous boys are very acceptable.
I do not like it when men initiate sexual or provocative conversations or send unsolicited photos of anything other than their face.
Further, if you label yourself as a slut, pig, whore, bitch, boy...etc, I will not be interested. My desire is to mold, train, and guide you to be what I want you to be for me.
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