I'm not going to come out of the gate like a bull and start calling you 'slut' or '' and assuming that I have control before it's given. That's not who I am.
I'm attractive, educated, articulate, a good conversationalist with a sarcastic sense of humour that can make you feel at home, stimulate your mind, and treat you like a lady outside the bedroom. That's part of me too, the reason why I'm not going to throw dick-pics around like you'll fall to your knees at the first sight of a penis.
I am a Dom - a Sir to be precise. I don't go by Master and subs in my service that use that term will find themselves corrected. I have been a Daddy to those subs that need a more nurturing Dom.
I have almost two decades of experience in the lifestyle - all as a Sir. I don't switch, and I do not want a switch.
Discretion is necessary as I am in a vanilla marriage and choose to express this side of me outside of my real life.
I am not looking for a 24/7 sub although tasks outside of play sessions may be required if your training requires it.
My sub must have a high sex drive to match mine, and a craving to serve her Sir. Playful is welcomed - I can handle a brat.
With almost two decades of experience in the lifestyle training a sub is not a problem, but you have to be more than curious and serious in your commitment.
I'm not looking to meet and have sex. One night stands are easy and they're unsatisfying and don't meet the need I have to control and bend a sub's will as my own. I prefer to chat a bit online (not cyber sex though - also unsatisfying) to make sure we're not in the same social circles, (discretion is required with my situation), and then meet fairly quickly to see if there is chemistry (pictures only go so far). After that who knows? Maybe we aren't for each other? Or maybe the training and the fun begins.
It all starts with a chat though. Message or wink at me and I'll get back to you, or look for me on IM some night.
I'm trying this 'blog' thing as an exercise in getting back in the lifestyle. Check it out.
WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects or advertisements - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
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My Ideal Person:
Ready to start looking again. I'd like to find someone that will be as open with me as I will be with them. I'm looking for someone that wants to add to their life and have it all - not someone who is looking for someone to change it for them.
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