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Hi! My life and kink partner of 30 years recently passed away... as such, I've decided it's time to begin reexploring what's out there again in terms of connecting with others in the lifestyle. It's going to be different as in the past we explored the lifestyle together and now I'm flying solo... I’m going to be pretty detailed now about what I’m looking for, so if I receive any generic messages asking me what I’m looking for, I’m going to delete those immediately as it will be obvious you have not read the profile. If you read the profile and are interested or curious, write back. My account is set up to accept all messages from all members, free or otherwise.
Whie it would be nice to find someone compatible to design a more permanent LTR, I am not necessarily in a hurry to do so unless I know the chemistry is right. I'm certainly not ruling out the prospect of finding love again, as I found it for 30 years which were the best years of my life, thanks to my wife.
I'm an older WWM, 63, with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195, HWP, professional. I'm College educated and although mature, I'm very much in touch with my inner . I can transition from NPR to Bobs Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.
Although I've had my profile up for awhile, I was sidelined from getting back to those who may have reached out to me over the past couple years due to some health issues including a spinal cord infection. BTW, spinal taps are painful in the WORST kind of way... I'm healing, however and am ready to try this again... if you previously contacted me and I didn't respond, I can only hope you can understand and try again...
In terms of a relationship, I’m looking for someone that is honest and loyal with a great sense of humor as well. Outside of the bedroom, I enjoy nature, walks, movies, concerts, museums and drives in the fall. I listen well and am also loyal, supportive and nurturing. I appreciate someone who can hold a decent conversation as well as having the ability to relax quietly at times, listening to an album without feeling the need to talk all the way through. Also, as the airlines would say nowadays, there’s no room for excess baggage.
In the bedroom, the last thing I want is a vanilla relationship as I got bored with that decades ago. I prefer to be a Dom, and as a Dom I assume the role more of a Sir than a Master, as I am somewhat a low-profile individual in public settings.
I'm not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, spanking, breast & nipple play, needles/piercing, tight restraints, sensory deprivation, watching/voyeurism, fisting, role play, gimping, large objects and...? Pretty much not enough room here to list all of my interests... Feel free to write to discuss your interests further... I can accept all communiques. While I'd like to say that tired old cliche of "Say Hi! I won't bite..."; I DO bite... and hard sometimes... LOL!
Hard limits I have are scat and anything to do with minors... these are both off the table. Don't be afraid to feel free to discuss your fantasies... I assure you it would take something way out there to even BEGIN to shock me... Let's just say I've had a lot of experience in exploring the scene including attending play parties at dungeons across the US, and I also have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience. Female subs or potential slaves only... sorry, absolutely NO men...
I am equally responsive to assuming the role of a switch as I am to giving as a Dom (with the right partner). I have a high threshold of tolerance for pain and always strive to test my limits...
Am also interested in LT friendship as I am also looking to connect with other kinksters in public, maybe heading out for an occasional cocktail, karaoke, strip club, dark venues- you get the picture, and am searching for a potential maso pain slut to accompany me to play spaces such as Easel on occasion...
You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, and high thresholds of tolerance.
Limits will be respected but tested! Due to the amount of scammers out there I'm open to meeting at a neutral location first (preferably in the Milwaukee area). Also receptive to messaging. Yes, I can host...
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My Ideal Person:
I think I said it all in my profile. Someone local. While I appreciate messages from across the US to the UK and beyond, it's highly unlikely I'm going to get there in the immediate future (unless you want to pay my way?)
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