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Short version:
The Public: I am a successful career woman in a man's field. I love adventure. I enjoy movies, concerts, shows, picnics, cruising, long walks, cuddling and camp fire. I am extremely adaptable. I know how to do a black tie event as well as NASCAR and cook outs. I love to dance.
The Private: I am a single Alpha s-type. I am active in the fetish and D/s lifestyle. I regularly attend munches and events in my area. I've been active for over seven years. I'm a community bootblack and delving into that more. Please go see my Fetlife profile under 'just_kate'.
Long version:
The Public Me:
I am career driven and successful. I work in the design field and I adore my job. I love going to the movies - action flicks are awesome! I'm a product of ST:TNG and I do indulge once in a while and watch reruns on Netflix. I enjoy a wide variety of dining from Indian to Vietnamese to Japanese to my mom's meatloaf and gravy. I love car rides and driving down that road I've never gone down. I enjoy the water, lakes, ocean, rivers... all good. I am very much a water baby. I love travel and well planned adventures. I love to ballroom dance. I enjoy playing pool. I am slow to build close friendships. I am an odd mix of super private and massive exhibitionist. I love figuring out why things are they way they are and if that is the way it should be. I am detail oriented. I am a purely visual thinker. This results in a communication style where I ask many questions and seek details to get a clear understanding. I don't have , but I would gladly welcome yours.
I have recently undergone weight loss surgery. I made this choice for myself and improving my overall health. It is a long road and an ongoing process.
The Public You:
You are fun loving, laugh easily and enjoy playfulness. Humor and seizing the positive in life are valuable to you. You are comfortable in yourself, your needs and can communicate them. I love to please my man, but a mind reader I am not. You will be amazed what happens when you tell me what you want. You are a career man, stable in your employment but not consumed by your work. You like to learn and explore. You enjoy going out and staying in. You are open minded and tolerant of different ways of being. You are interested in a relationship. I am not interested in casual sex, but I am also not looking to jump into a relationship for the sake of being in one. You are observant and notice the details.
The Private, Kinky Me:
I am a Alpha s-type. I am a strong and independent person with a drive to be useful. To that end, I have developed many skills including bootblacking, leatherworking, a diverse set of intimate skills, sewing, research skills, educator, facilitator, and a wide range of services. I am an active public figure in the local fetish community where I present on a variety of topics. I have a thumpy masochistic streak, as well as a playful sadistic one. I have a deep inner girl that thirsts for a loving, nurturing, and protective Owner. I am playful and love to laugh. I have a very high libido and it occasionally clouds my judgment. I crave to hear the earned 'good girl'.
A personality note - I am an Alpha submissive. While I do not set out to lead, I frequently find myself doing so. I am protective and possessive of my partner. My partner's happiness, satisfaction and pleasure is my primary goal.
The Private, Kinky You:
I am looking for a loving, romantic long term partner that is a Dominant/Owner/Master. I realize they can be very different things. It has been my experience that I do best with someone that is a combination of all three. I flourish in a nurturing yet controlled format. Clear rules, boundaries and expectations make me happy. I wish to feel small. I tend to gravitate to tall, masculine men with facial hair and experience. I do best with a man experienced in the lifestyle. Training you changes the power dynamic in a way that negatively impacts my ability to submit. Intelligence and creativity is necessary. You must be able to stay at least one step ahead of me. The ability to keep me slightly off balance is a good thing. Emotional and financial stability is super sexy. My play is highly sexualized. You must be a sexual Dominant. I enjoy impact play, non-con, service, leather, and a huge variety of other activities. I do tend to chameleon towards the activities my Dominant enjoys as I derive great pleasure from yours. Emotional intimacy is key. We must have a connection. I am very active in the lifestyle, I wish to remain so and would enjoy my partner doing so as well.
NON-NEGOTIABLE:
You must be single. Single is defined as unmarried and not in a relationship. I am not seeking a poly arrangement. I am not interested in casual play or sex. For clarity, divorced and widowers are most welcome.
I am emotionally monogamous. I refer to this as flexible monogamy. I define that as a 1:1 loving and emotionally monogamous relationship that occasionally brings in a third or a couple for additional group play and intimacy.
While I do not fall in love often; when I love, it is with everything I am; deeply, wholly and without reservations. Own my thoughts and I will drop everything for you. Own my mind and I will open like a flower to the sun. Own my body and I will make you feel like a god. Own my heart and I will move mountains for you. Own my soul and I will change the world just to see you smile.
I offer you this, and so much more that cannot be put into words. I know my expectations are high, but I am worth it. If you are worthy of me, I will surpass all of your wildest dreams.
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